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A thousand li horse and donkey, the horse is grinding, the horse carries the master to travel around, but the donkey is often humiliated by the horse, the donkey can not stand the insult and run away. The master can only put the horse on the mill to make it grind, and the horse feels the hard work and difficulty of pulling the mill. It can be seen that empathy can lead to a win-win situation.

Empathy, harmonious coexistence, to achieve win-win. If the horse learns to put himself in the shoes of the donkey's hard work instead of abusing the donkey from above, the horse will not end up miserable. At the Bandung Conference, European and American countries tried their best to disparage China and poor countries. Premier Zhou Enlai wisely put forward the five Principles of Peaceful coexistence, which Asian and African countries should unite as one, live in peace, unite as one, and respond together. These principles were unanimously supported by Asian and African countries. So, live in harmony and safeguard world peace together. But if you do not infringe on the interests of others, you can also succeed. Why not?

Put yourself in the other person's shoes and overcome the difficulties together. During the First World War Nightingale volunteered as a nurse. Nightingale found that many wounded people entered the hospital every day, but although the wounded loved good medical treatment, the death rate was still high because of no care. Nightingale put herself in the other person's shoes and threw herself into caring for her patients. She comforted patients, cooked for them herself, and even traveled alone at night to meet their needs. In the end, thanks to her tireless efforts, the death rate of soldiers was greatly reduced. That's why Nightingale won the Nobel Prize. In the face of crisis to help others, but also to improve their own soul, to tide over the difficulties together. It can be seen that how noble a person's soul is, how noble his behavior is.

Empathy, win-win cooperation. In the middle of the last century, gold was discovered in the west of the United States, which set off a gold rush in the United States, and young Levi rushed to the west. He found that the trousers of the gold diggers were easy to break, and he bought the canvas to make trousers for them, and this "tin" like trousers were praised as a tide when they were listed, and he became a little famous rich man. Therefore, standing in each other's point of view to think about the problem, understand the needs of others, serve others, will win the appreciation of others, so as to win-win cooperation, which is the way to success.

We should learn to put ourselves in others' shoes. When dealing with disputes, do not always study for yourself, put yourself in the shoes of others to think, often will fight into silk, so as to harmonious coexistence. Abnormal is in the face of difficulties, start from other difficulties, try to help people who need help, through the difficulties. Just like those thousand li horses, don't always think that you are high and close to the master, you can slander the donkey at will. In fact, in the eyes of their owners, they are all the same, they are all working animals, how can they abuse their own kind? Without the same kind, the master does not set his eyes on the horse and humiliate himself, why?

Therefore, the fable reminds us that in daily life, there is no distinction between high and low. Three hundred and sixty lines are all work, how can you tell the difference between high and low? Empathy, mutual understanding, win-win cooperation, success is the way to survive.