“Nice Girls and Nice Guys Listen up”

"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails". -Apostle Paul

The quote above is not a song but maybe it should be. It applies to more than romantic it always applies to family and friends. Love is beautiful in all forms and it is very powerful. The only reason why someone would be anti- Valentine's is because they are a “Nice guy or girl”.* Which means they aren't as nice as they think they are. "Nice People" are demanding, controlling, and downright crazy. These people are the ones that want to trash the candy and teddy bears aisle in the store. The people that hate to see friends posting they are in a relationship and happy. If a person has ever been called that, they need to change and stop thinking their fake kindness entitles them to stuff. The only other reason why someone might hate Valentine's day is that they are heart stuck in their heartbreak phase. There are five stages of a break-up and each person goes through each phase. Some faster than others and some slower than others. With time everyone will go through Shock, Bargaining, Angry, depression, and acceptance and they will become a better person afterward. You will learn to love again and be happy for others because Being Anti-Vax is not okay!

NeYo - So Sick

Being Anti- Valentine Day Means Your listening to Neyo- So sick on repeat “So sick of love songs, so sad and slow”. Love should make everyone happy. If your the type to yell at a couple for holding hands in public. Your probably a nice guy or girl and have pain you need to heal. If you are recovering from a breakup This song is the first part of the cycle. “Gotta change my answering machine that says we can't come to the phone" “Gotta change that the calendar that's marked July 16 since there is no more you there is no more anniversaries” This stage is known as denial, which means your probably dragging your feet about updating everything. It is okay but it has to be done.

gnash - i hate u, i love u ft. olivia o'brien (music video)

Denial

This phase is called shock and needing answers. ““You ever wonder what we could have been?” Your questing where everything went wrong. "always missing people that I shouldn't be missing" you know your ex-lover wronged you and of course you still feel for them Because it takes time . Every so often there's a song that PERFECTLY describes a moment in your life this one of those songs.

Tate McRae - stupid

Bargaining is the next stage

I call this the shoulda woulda coulda stage. In this stage, you are telling them you will do anything. This stage makes you very “foolish”. “Should have read the warning on the label” Your thinking about you ignored the red flags but you “just can't help myself”. Love makes us do crazy things because love makes us blind. So this song says it best “I'm so stupid for ya You're so bad for my health”. Being in a relationship made you forget to take care of yourself. Tate McRae said it best, stupid.

Lewis Capaldi - Someone You Loved

Depression

This is the saddest part of the whole cycle. You come to realize “They're not there anymore”. You cant cry on their shoulder anymore. "I guess I kinda liked the way you helped me escape" Our partner is our getting away from reality free card. This is where most anti-vax people stay because they are convinced love no longer exists. This stage requires the most healing and time. Because its rough when the person that gives you the best memories becomes a memory

P!nk - So What

Anger

After getting so desperate and sad were now angry. This stage starts off with burning pictures, blowing up their phone giving them the last piece of our mind. I wanna get in trouble, I wanna start a fight. People do become reckless in phase. This stage should end in us being in acceptance. "I'm still a rock star, I got my rock moves, And I don't need you" Because were a rockstar at the end day and we always have to remember that.

Katy Perry - Part Of Me

Acceptance

Acceptance and hope is where I think everyone should end up. Yes, the break-up cycle gets ugly and takes a lot of time. Katy Perry - Part Of Me is the best song for this stage because in the video she goes crazy and runs off to the Marines. Which was her angry phase. In the acceptance stage, we accept and live with what we did in the other stages. The song talks about the light that she has in her and plans to use it. She didn't forget who she was, she can love again. She loves herself more than ever now. That's what anti-vax don't realize. You have to love yourself first before loving others.