Sumesh Bhaila
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The main purpose of my writing is to motivate you people to do something that can help you achieve your big goals and dreams whatever they may be...
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Don't Let Hurt Get On You
Yes it hurts sometimes when you feel alone. It hurts sometimes when you're in that dark place and you feel no one cares about you. The first thing you've got to realize is that you got to love yourself it's about self-love. Start understanding that if you're going to do something with your life you've got to fall in love with yourself again, you got to stop self hating yourself, Do something that's going to make you a better person, make an impact in this world, don't look at it as though it's something that you've got to do temporary Although we know that life is short, like many people in this world they didn't realize that the next day they were going to be diagnosed with a cancer. They thought that tomorrow was going to be waiting for them and they did not wake up. But you are still living Now what do you have to do? How are you going to move forward? How are you going to proceed your life? Life is not a game Life is living There's the good and there's the bad and there's definitely the right now. You can't wait for somebody else to make your life better You got to make your life better You got to focus on you Now I'm not saying forget the rest of the people But I'm telling you to get rid of the things that are not making you strong, that are not making you better, that are not making you efficient, that are not putting you in a better place, that's not giving you the strength that you need to keep living the life that you have been given.
By Sumesh Bhaila3 years ago in Motivation
One should have a Self-Discipline
It is found that 99% of people are not willing to do, what it takes make their dreams come true. The Marines have a saying: "Everybody wants to go to heaven, but nobody wants to die" The center of bringing any dream into fruition is self discipline You know, something as simple as food and eating... it's not about your body as much as it is about your mind. It's getting command of your mind to be able to choose actions that are in your own best interest. Every day we are choosing stuff that's not in our own best interest. So if the world is attacking you and the world wants to fight you and the world's trying to hold you down. So you're gonna kick yourself in the balls. So you will stop yourself from getting what you dream. And I think the word "discipline" has kind of gotten a bad name. We think about it in terms of punishment. I'm not talking about discipline in that way. I'm talking about discipline in the sense that you you forego immediate pleasure for the exchange of long-term self-respect. I believe that self-discipline is the definition of self-love that when you say that you love yourself that means that you have behavior towards yourself. That is loving Self-discipline is the center of all material success. You cannot win the war against the world if you can't win the war against your own mind. Self-love is when you say to yourself Man, look I know you and that girl got a real connection I know y'all vibe, but that's your girl's cousin. So I love you too much to let you do that It's like you say to yourself hey man look I know you want to eat that pizza and it'll be really good, you know, but I can't let you eat that man cuz if you eat that pizza, you're gonna feel like crap You know, and I I just I love you too much to let you eat that Self-love is a look. I know you got a a test on Monday, you know and I know you really want to go out with your friends and Saturday night you want to go out but If you fail that test, you're not gonna feel good about yourself You know, I just I love you too much to let you go out tonight Self-discipline is Self-love. If you wanna be happy you have to love yourself Which means you have to discipline your behavior The road to Sustained happiness is through Disciplining your behavior. We tend to base our self-esteem on what other people think and That's not really self-esteem. self-esteem is supposed to be how we feel about ourselves and I was just saying how dangerous it is to allow other people to determine how you're going to feel about you and it's kind of like looking into a broken mirror. You're gonna look in a broken mirror and then change your face to try to look good in this defiled, busted broken mirror and it just other people's opinions. There's a really crappy way to determine how we feel about ourselves. It don't matter whose fault it is that something is broken if it's your responsibility to fix it For example, it's not somebody's fault if their father was an abusive alcoholic. But it's for damn sure their responsibility to figure out how they're gonna do with those traumas and try to make a life out of it It's not your fault if your partner cheated and ruined your marriage But it is for damn sure your responsibility to figure out how to take that pain and how to overcome that and build a happy life for yourself. Fault and responsibility do not go together. It sucks, but they don't. When something is somebody's fault we want them to suffer. We want them punished. We want them to pay. We want it to be their responsibility to fix it but that's not how it works, especially when it's your heart. Your heart, your life, your happiness is your responsibility and your responsibility alone As long as we're pointing the finger and stuck in whose fault Something is, we're jammed and trapped into victim mode when you're in victim mode You're stuck in suffering. The road to power is in taking responsibility Your heart, your life, your happiness is your responsibility and your responsibility alone. You can make a person smile, you can make a person feel good, you can make a person laugh but whether or not a person is happy is Deeply and totally and utterly out of your control the prerequisite for spending time with any person is that they nourish and inspire you. They feed your flame. Look at your last five text messages. Are those people feeding your flames or dousing your fire? Put your phone down for just a second and look around Look to the people around you Are those people throwing logs on your fire or they pissing on it? I want my life, I want my work, my family. I want it to mean something and it's like it has- if you are not making someone else's life better than you're wasting your time.
By Sumesh Bhaila3 years ago in Motivation
Overcome the fear of failure
Ninety percent of times, fear of failure is entirely internal. It really is. It’s you second guessing yourself on something that you know you can do. Why do you know you can do it? Because you conceived of the idea. It wouldn’t be possible if you couldn’t think of it. Let’s face it, if you want to accomplish something in life. Even something huge… build a business, get a job, move to a new city, lose weight, finally ask out that one guy or girl that caught your eye…. The answer on how to do that is already out there. In fact hundreds of answers are already written on that topic. One simple google search will literally give you a step by step process on how to get it done. So why can’t you do it? Because you think that trying two or three times and failing means the entire idea is a mistake. But do you really expect to hit a homerun on your first try every time? That would be impossible. It’s impossible. What if you went on 9 job interviews and were blown out every time. No second interview, no callback, not even a rejection letter. You’d quit the job search. You would say there is no point in continuing. But what if the 10th interview was actually THE ONE. What if you not only nailed the 10th interview, but it was the perfect job for you. You wouldn’t know if you were too busy quitting. Don’t look for the 9 failures. Look for the one success. Sometime you only need to be really amazing one time to get your big break. Besides what options do you have? You’re going to be a drone doing some menial work to make money so that you can go on doing menial work? It’ll never end. If you don’t don’t have goals, you’re doomed to work for people who do have goals. Are you really going to go through every single day not trying to achieve your life’s dream? If you aren’t willing to push through that fear of failure to get what you want, then you have to ask yourself… were you really passionate in the first place? If you really want it, you should be willing to sacrifice a lot. You should be willing to sacrifice EVERYTHING. What’s the worst that could possibly happen? So somebody says no to you. Or you end up losing a lot of money. You get embarrassed. All of these situations, feelings, or hardships are temporary. They can all be fixed. It’s extremely rare to take a risk that permanently scars you. Chances are that thing you want has much less consequence than you thought it did. The real consequence you have to watch out for is you not achieving your goals. Of course it’s going to be hard. If it were easy it would be done by now. If everything were so easy, you’d have everything you wanted and there would be nothing left to do. Don’t mistake your journey for being the problem. There are many things to fear on the road to success, but if you don’t get on that road how can you reach your destination. How could you fear failing, when failing is so important to success. I don’t care if you tried and failed a dozen times. Those failures just told you what doesn’t work. Now you are twelve steps closer to finding out what does work. You are not alone on the journey. If you only knew how many successful people faced embarrassment, financial hardships, and physical set backs. Yet these people are now famous for their previous setbacks. In the long run, those set backs are nothing. They’re nothing. Those events were like little blips on a big radar.
By Sumesh Bhaila3 years ago in Motivation
Enjoy The Life While You Can
Life...How beautiful it is! How amazing it is! To be able to rise up in the morning and have that sun shine on your face rather than on your grave. What makes life so unique and so beautiful? It is beautiful because whatever you have that you may be facing what you may be dealing with. Life is still good. Life has so many moving parts. But life is always good Every day is a new day and another opportunity that others may not have. This life that you have been given. This life that you are temporarily holding on to. This life that has been just given to you for only temporary reasons has more meaning then you can ever imagine. So many people in the world take life for granted instead of realizing that you have to take the opportunity to live it the best way you know how. Now on this journey of life you're going to face a significant amount of circumstances, a significant amount of challenges. You're going to fall into areas that you cannot understand and maybe it's not in a position for you to understand at that moment. When you start to feel that you are in a position that you don't love your life then shame on you! Because your life is a beautiful thing and no one deserves to ruin it, no one deserves to control it, no one deserves to steal your joy. Your life is your life and you have the right to live it the best way you can. You must discipline yourself and take full control and responsibility for the outcome or whatever it is that you are seeking at this moment. There are going to be so many different things that you will embark on. There are going to be so many different things that's going to try to slow you down. There are going to be so many different challenges that you must face. But instead of running away from the challenge, run towards the challenge. Be able to understand that life has meaning, it has reason! And all of these things that you may be thinking that it is so hard on you. Just remember, sometimes you're going to have to go through these changes, these circumstances that puts you in a position to make you feel that you're not worthy anymore. But make no mistake, you are worthy. You were created for something, you wasn't created for nothing.
By Sumesh Bhaila3 years ago in Motivation