How can we love
The one thing in the world almost everyone wants to be able to experience but yet it seems to be the one thing we can’t seem to quiet understand. Maybe it’s the fact that we’re not in the same position as our ancestors when it comes to being married and starting families early on and assuming those gender specific roles. This lets men and women really chose and try to find what it is they’re truly looking for in a partner, a friendship that’ll last a lifetime. Though, now a days there’s a lot more variables that also make it very difficult to find a person you can sit and talk about all the crazy things going on in the world, having different view points and opinions and ultimately still being able to respect eachother and make it work. As of now, i don’t see politics, racial inequalities, gender roles and inequalities, or this conversation starter-monogamy or polygamy being talked about with out there being tension. Why is that? Why do people tend to wait until after they’ve gotten comfortable with someone or perhaps even in love that all those “little” things come up and they’re not so little anymore. We shouldn’t feel like those topics are a deal breaker in the beginning because in reality those are some of the most important things to talk to a partner or potential partner about because they’ll always be a topic of discussion that some will never agree on, and that’s always okay. Of course it’s easy to fall in love with the outside of a person or the parts of themselves they only show you in the beginning to either not scare you away or because that’s what side of them they think you’re falling for. Love as beautiful and amazing it is when you do find it with the right individual(s) shouldn’t be rushed or pushed. Let it be something that you’re not constantly looking for or pushing because you’ll always end up overlooking those things that truly matter in the end because you just wanted to be loved. We all have to learn to start with loving ourselves, truly and fully. Accepting all our flaws, noticing our downfalls so we can uplift our selves when we need it instead of searching for the recognition within someone else. Always make sure your cup is full before you try to pour into someone else’s. Make sure you’re truly happy with YOU.