What would happen if we stopped creating rivalry and drama between women?

okay so now you've seen the title of this post, think about it and i mean really think about it.

For one magazines and gossip websites would go to shit, there would be no "tea" to spill. simple. If all of the females of the world stopped judging each other over apperance,boys,pay checks and everything else that causes the word "bitch" to come out of our mouths in a non friendly manner (might i add) and just stopped...to see over all these unimportant things, can you imagine how much greater our lives would be.

Little girls would grow up in a world where their friends meant more to them than boys and would have to speak the words "she bullies me mum" or "she gave me a dirty look", there would be more "mum, she helped me today" or "she made me smile today because she told me that my dress was pretty". there be nothing but positivity surrounding our growing little girls and our future for women would be much happier and more supportive. I mean would the world not have a better and brighter future with more boss women in the world than under paid women doing the same job as a man.

I would personally say jealousy impacts friendship or potential friendships between girls. We are all so focused on boys and don't stop to think about how replaceable they are. None of us are in competition with each other especially when the prize isn't necessarily something we want to win. I get that there are girls out there that will "steal your man" and i know that shit hurts but girl! if he was that easy to take in the first place then let her have him and wish her the best cause he'll do the same to her and yeah that might just be karma. We are all women just trying to live our lives and we should all support each other throught it, so why can't we push all this "he's my man so back off bitch" type shit to the side and learn that... well if he's not pulling himself away from that girl to get to you then you don't need him, remember if his first instinct isn't to get the fuck out of there when a girl is trying to dance on him in the club or whatever just leave his dumb ass, seriously find a man or women that will dance with you the whole night, have drunk sex with you on the kitchen floor after eating that greasy Mcdonalds you got on the way home. I mean you can miss the drunk sex bit out if you wish but i think you get where i was going with that. Get someone that will only have eyes for you.

We are all women that struggle through the same kinda struggles everyday. men "cat" calling us when we are walking home or trying to talk to us on the bus and being really creepy about it, PERIODS!!! and the price of the products we NEED for these things, the bad hair days, the PMS, bloating, how we see our bodies because again magazines and social media say Kim K has the perfect body we realistically Kim doesn’t even have that body. We would have the first part of world peace if we stopped creating rivarly between women, it shouldn't be Jennifer against Angelina or Kylie against Blac Chyna because we wouldn't and shouldn't be fighting for a replaceable prize of a man, we should be fighting together for our happiness as women and free sanitary products. Encouraging and uplifing each other when we feel horrible and down on ourselves, we should be fixing each others crowns not pushing them off of each others heads to make ourselves feel better.

now! what else do we do to cause rivarly between women... oh yeah,

whose the best dressed?

I have those shoes, they are so last year! oh my god! what is she wearing?

have you seen her make up...ew!

her boyfriend is so hot, he can do so much better than her.

he keeps liking her pictures and i can't stop him so...i'll hate her for it.

Girl!, he's gonna do what he wants, he's a boy, they can't be controlled,just like you can't and shouldn't.

we need to stop the whole judging by apperance shit, no one cares who wore the Dior Haute Couture Spring/Summer 19 collection best cause they are made to fit the models, they are clothes, wear them when you wish no matter what the season is. If it makes you happy to wear a special occassion tulle skirt dress in the morning to walk the dog, then do it.

No guy is too hot for a certain girl if they are both happy then leave them alone to be happy.Simple

It doesn't matter if your make up skills aren't up to the pro make up artists level and they don't need to be, again if you like your make up and feel great about yourself in it then Amazing, good on you!

Hating a girl because a boy you like or your boyfriend keeps liking her pictures on social media is simply pathetic, the chances of her deleting or blocking him if you message her about it are fairly high but even better DUMP HIM! you deserve better that to be disrespected like that. Plus she can post whatever she deems worthy to be on her Instagram or whatever social media platform you wish to imagine this happening on and she sure as hell can't stop him or anyone liking her pictures, so hating her for his actions is again pathetic and childish,so instead maybe message her about i, support her and like her pictures once shes blocked his disrespectful ass, she might actually be a nice person and you could potential become friends.

Then we go full circle back to the begining of supporting each other instead of hating eachother because of well... men.

I know i've hated on men alot in this and made them sound like "satans minions, prowling the earth we live on" but i do love men just as much as the next women does, they just so happen to be,well... the pains in our asses that cause the shit between us women.

Remember girls we need to stick together and treat each other like we do when we are in the club toilets drunk, even when we are sober.

We need to keep our heads straight and not let men fuck up our Ph balance.

and help a girl when she needs a tampon. that shit is expensive.