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People should most confess, not others, but all the way to the self

People in this life is their own crawl, their own walk, their own support of a process, many times, many things rely on only ourselves.

By Gu Wei Di QiPublished 2 years ago 4 min read
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People should most confess, not others, but all the way to the self
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There is a riddle in ancient Greece: What animal has four feet in the morning, two feet at noon and three feet at night?

I believe you already know what the answer to this riddle is. The answer is man.

Yes! This life of man is a process of crawling, walking and holding by himself, many times and many things by ourselves only.

Therefore, people should most confess not others, but all the way to their own.

As once read a book "ferryman", the story inside is telling us that the ferryman in life can only be ourselves.

Because this journey, other people may be able to give us strength, but only we can overcome our own fear and cowardice.

Just like Fang Hongjian, the main character in Mr. Qian Zhongshu's novel "The Siege", he had a good family background and higher education, and could have lived his ideal life through his own efforts.

But because of his own cowardice, vanity, and rashness, he led to the disorder of his life, and eventually led his life into the prison and could not extricate himself.

When you have seen Fang Hongjian's life, you will understand why it is said that people depend on themselves in this life, and only they can trap themselves, not a city.

As Yu Qiuyu wrote in "Lend me my life": "The road of life, to rely on their own step by step to go, what can really protect you, is your own life choices."

I think deeply. People encounter difficulties and setbacks in this life are a very common thing, but how to face difficulties and setbacks can only be ourselves.

Therefore, this journey, we should most confess is our own, and only if you can love yourself, you can better love life and love others.

I once read this sentence: "When you learn to rely on yourself, after surviving the most difficult days, is full of sunshine".

Indeed, this life of people come. Everything is actually telling us to rely on ourselves, just like learning to ride a bike when we were little. At the beginning, you really need the help of your parents.

But if your parents have been holding you back, you can never succeed, because the final ride is your own, so when you master the skills, you need to rely on yourself.

After a few more falls on your own, you will find yourself learning to ride a bike. And there are many more things like this in life, and their existence is invariably telling us.

A lot of things in a person's life can only rely on themselves, relying on others can not be relied on, because he may forget that only by themselves is the safest thing.

It is like a lot of choices in life, only you have the most experience and are most qualified to evaluate. Because of the many measures of choice, only you can experience it yourself.

But no matter what, whether life is good or bad, we should say to ourselves, "I will love myself."

After all, their own days, after all, to go to their own. No one's life is obtained by others. As Yu Hua once said.

"There is no path in the world that is repetitive, nor is there a life that can be replaced, each one is experiencing a life that belongs only to itself."

Yes! Life is your own, and life is your own. No one has to pay for your life, and no one takes it for granted to clean up your mess.

And in fact, this is also the case, life all the way, a lot of things rely on their own. So, "confess" to yourself! Tell yourself that this journey has been hard, but you never want to give up. Because their own life can only rely on themselves.

As the saying goes: "There is no gold, no one is perfect". This life may be very ordinary, but it's still cool to go all the way by yourself.

Remember: "Don't lose sight of what you think, everything is possible". Take your own path, take your own steps. Today is not easy, tomorrow is even harder, but the day after tomorrow will be beautiful. Because as long as the heart has light, there will be a faraway place.

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