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My Daughter is NOT My Property!

My Daughter Is Only My Responsibility . (as is equally My Son!)

By Ross E Fortune LombardiPublished 3 years ago Updated 2 years ago 10 min read
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My Daughter Is Only My Responsibility

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(as is equally My Son!)

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My Daughter is NOT My Property!

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I have No intention of doing the classic Alpha Male Crap of trying to Intimidate My Daughters future partners!

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I DO NOT want them to be ‘Scared’ or ‘Intimidated' by Me!

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I WANT THEM TO BE

‘SCARED’ AND ‘INTIMIDATED’

BY HER!

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Long after I am dead or any longer able to be physically capable,

She will have to be able to protect and look after herself and her friends and family!

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Be like Me and start to teach you, daughter, to be a Bad Ass!

Both Physically and Mentally!

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No one can be around to protect their kids all the time,

So the best way is to teach them to protect themselves!

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AND

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Be able to pick themselves up again and still be unbroken WHEN they lose!

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(Because no one constantly wins their entire life)

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It is NOT just about physical combat.

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Tell them about psychological Tactics like ‘Gas Lighting’ emotionally an abusive partner will use.

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Let them understand how bad people will try and deflect blame onto their victims,

And where the shame should actually lie!

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That just being able to say something does in no way automatically make it true!

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That statement like “You Made Me Do This!” is no truer than saying “The Sun Is Made Of Chocolate Ice Cream!”

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Teach them to get Angry rather than be frightened into inaction!

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And IF the worst happens, teach them they are partly morally culpable for the suffering of future less strong victims, if they do not do everything in their power, despite all odds and resistance, to get that perpetrator locked away and dealt with!

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But DO NOT FORGET to Also teach them the life skills of Empathy and to Care about the fate of Fellow Human Beings!

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And while you are at it teach all this to your Son’s as well!

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PS

1st Oct 2018 Update!

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There is a line in the above that some have taken issue with.

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“And IF the worst happens, teach them they are partly morally culpable for the suffering of future less strong victims if they do not do everything in their power, despite all odds and resistance, to get Perpetrator locked away and dealt with!”

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I have to admit that bit bothered me too.

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I have very mixed feelings and find myself a "Bit on the fence" of that one.

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On the one hand, it is expecting an unfair amount of courage and strength from someone that has been traumatised,

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While on the other,

Without such hero's nothing would ever get reported!

Ever!

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It is similar to, this.

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On the one hand, having a shower after a serious sexual offence is "Stupid" (note: not my words!) because it destroys vital evidence.

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On the other hand,

If you are the one that has been attacked and are sitting in that traumatised head, it is simply what you have to do!

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Yes, it may be frustrating for prosecutors BUT unless they, themselves, have been through that level of crap they can have no idea what an impossibility, they are asking of those who have been attacked!

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I do feel a little conflicted and torn on that one!

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I have sat in that sort of head, and I deeply. hatefully regret and feel full of self-loathing for being too 'weak' to do 'what was right,' at the time.

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Yes, my 'Intellectual' head knows that this is a stupid, non-productive, maybe even self-indulgent attitude to have.

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But unfortunately for me, my 'emotional side' that screams at me for days on end during a bad spell doesn't give a shit what my 'Intellectual head' thinks!

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The main reason I feel I cannot edit or alter that line is that I cannot let go of that guilt.

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It is me accusing myself of the indirect suffering of others!

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It is me irrationally choosing to continue living with unjust feelings of shame and cowardice.

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But to those that find that line offensive, I am truly sorry, and I understand your anger.

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But I cannot remove that line until I can forgive myself of that accusation!

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DEAR INCELS!

THIS IS ONLY A HYPOTHETICAL!

A HYPOTHETICAL FOR ALL THE INCELS OUT THERE!

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(If you happen to know any ICELS out there! Then please pass this along to them!)

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If you could do whatever you want, to a Woman of your dreams, against her will, would you!

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THE HYPOTHETICAL OFFER

You would get to have any woman you wanted!

Although she did not to, and it was against her will, she will let you do whatever you want to her, and fulfil any request you make.

You would be able to totally control and "Own" her for 24 hours!

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BUT

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You would have to spend the next 24 hours following paying the cost!

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THE COST

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The cost would be, her bigger stronger, angry Gay brother would get to copy doing (as close as possible) all the same things to you for those next 24 hours.

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You would have to comply and let them!

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Without any resistance!.

(Obviously, any vaginal penetration has to be replaced with anal!)

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That would be the Dark Hypertheical Bargain!

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The question is!

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Are you really that desperate and horny?

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WHY I AM ASKING?

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Please leave a comment below, because I do not understand how your minds work but I am horrifyingly fascinated!

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It is like trying to understand some sort of alien creature!

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A VARIANT ON THE ABOVE HYPOTHETICAL!

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Let us expand the hypothetical.

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Which cost would you rather pay out of the following two?

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A)

Being used by her brother, as stated above?

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OR

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B)

Spontaneously turn into a beautiful woman yourself for the rest of your life?

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IF YOU NEVER CHOOSE TO TAKE SUCH A BARGAIN!

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Even if you would never agree to such a Bargain, just, in general, I would like to know which you think would be worse,

Being turned into a woman, or being used for 24 hours by an angry Gay man who hates you?

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Please understand, that this is a genuine honest attempt by me, to understand and comprehend your point of view!

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Most in this world consider you all a bunch of immature dicks so you might want to consider this reached out a hand of attempted communication and understanding.

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I want to understand.

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DO NOTE:

(Note the "Angy Gay Man" is ONLY being used for this as a hypothetical,)

(Because I do fully understand that all normal well-adjusted people of all sexualities, only want to be with consenting partners!)

(Because for all normal well-adjusted people of all sexualities, not being mutually desired is a huge deal-breaking, "Turn off!" in the bedroom!)

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Be a REAL MAN

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Hit Hard

Drink Hard

Never Cry

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Pacifists are wimps

Always "Get Even"

PUNCH!

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Be Feared

Fear is Respect

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Bling is Power

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Success is Everything

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Mercy is Gay

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Married Men must still shag everything

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Keep Her inline

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BULLSHIT!

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Pinocchio

Cut the strings

Be a “Real Human”

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Never allowed to cry.

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I have been in a sort of environment where the same 'Man' that would not let themselves cry at their own Mothers funeral have been the same sort that ONLY feels they can cry about a result of a certain football match and even only THEN if they get pissed first and vandalising something afterwards!

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If you want to have an irrational tear,

Then great!

Good for you!

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But ONLY if you allow yourself the rational ones (like grieving) happen first!

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Because if you don't let yourself cry at your own Mothers funeral <as just one of many examples> then the little boys of the family watching you, looking up to you and coping to understand will find it very hard to cry at their own Mothers funeral in the far future!

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Energy can not be destroyed!

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All that emotional shit has to go somewhere!

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And that sort of shit left undealt with never comes out somewhere good!

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(It usually comes out as violence, addiction or suicide!)

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Difference between a...

... Goth secretly cutting his arm with a razor?

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... A Real Bloke getting drunk and into a fight?

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The Answer:

None!

NONE AT ALL!

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Both are Self-harming

Both are expressing the same pain

In different ways.

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But one way has much better marketing!

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REAL MEN 'might' HATE FEMINISM!

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But personally,

I would much rather be a

Real Human Being

Instead!

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While it may be deeply patronising, overtly PC, and all ‘too easy’ to consider all woman as de-facto victims.

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It is also equally true that is can be very difficult not to see all Men as potential threats, aggressors and de-facto perpetrators and preditors.

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At times it is very difficult not the see the word “Testosterone” and for your mind to perceive it as the phrase “Toxic Personality Poison”!

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“Anyone up for some Roid Rage?!”

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As a Male, my first impulse to intensely dislike my own gender!

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No matter how irrational that first impulsive reaction might be!

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If I feel aggressive and crave to harm others because I am a Testosterone filled Male?

And all aggression is wrong?

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(We are all supposed to “turn the other cheek” and NOT want to burn down the village of those we hate and break out the marshmallows to enjoy over the sizzling corpses!)

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Then isn’t being a ‘Man’ and all ideals of ‘Manhood’ itself, logically, also wrong?

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I personally

know a man

who wants to kill a 3-year-old child!

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"HE" Wants to kill a 3-year-old child!

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"HE" is trapped as the 3-year-old toddler who stills feel guilty about not being able to defend his mom from a violent genetic father.

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"HE" was that same 3-year-old boy over 10 years later seeing a cousin having her hand slowly broken under the dinner table by her boyfriend at a family meal.

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"HE" was told to shut up by everyone there as tears well up in her eyes because the boyfriend was going to hook her brother up will a “Pill Supply deal”!

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(The meal was to celebrate her qualifying as a nurse)

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Years later that same 3-year old broke off with the first girl he was engaged to when he found his fingers curling into a fist during an argument and realised in horror what "HE" nearly did!

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When "HE" speaks against misogyny

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"HE" is NOT just “Trying to get laid”!

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"HE" is NOT playing at being the fake "Nice Man"!

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"HE" is a truly fanatical believer!

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"HE" is constantly angry.

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"HE" is an immature arse because "HE" has been stuck in a 3-year-old's toddler tantrum for over 40 years!

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It is a nightmare "HE" can not break free from!

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If you want to shut "HIM" up then kill him!

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If "HE" ever fights you, I really hope you win.

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If "HE" ever fights you, I hope "HE" dies.

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"HE" enters the fight considering himself already dead!

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"HE" is sick and tired of constantly surviving because "HE" is the only one in the fight trying to kill!

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This child could have been anything

This child should have grown to achieve anything.

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His father never laid a finger on "HIM"

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Instead, his shitty violent father broke "HIM" from a distance of fewer than 10 feet and over 40 years away,

By hitting this 3-year-old child's Mom!

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"Lilith" the first woman ever made truly free!

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I don't see women as "De facto" victims

Because they aren't

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That would be being just another type of sexist while having the Plausible Deniability of a pseudo-PC Shield

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But I can not help but see ALL Men as "De Facto" Violent Perpetrators

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Seeing wife-beating when you are 3 will do that to you!

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About the Creator

Ross E Fortune Lombardi

Writer. Gamer, Goth

A (Constantly Failing To Be Funny) satirist!

[email protected]

Mutare non est meum

Cantus moriar

BLOG:

http://lombot.co.uk

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