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Light load forward.

The phone has been used for a long time, and needs to clean up the garbage in order not to lag; similarly, people also need to clean up the "garbage in the heart" promptly, to get rid of their constraints, and light load forward.

Let go of past successes and failures

Progressive people are not overly attached to the past, for them, the best results, are always in the future.

Therefore, they can always continue to break through the self, increasingly sophisticated.

Someone said, "If you do not forget many, life can no longer continue."

Some people are always immersed in the past failure, presumptuousness, and self-loathing.

Such an approach will only allow them to waste a good time for nothing.

In a person's failure, there are objective reasons, there are also subjective reasons.

Failure is not terrible, what is terrible is to stumble, not to analyze the reasons for failure. Through the analysis, if found to be objective reasons, and why should be presumptuous, stop?

If found to be subjective reasons, then to "correct their deficiencies. Self-deficiency correction, things will naturally be easier to do.

Dwelling on past successes, failures, slack, or depression, is not desirable.

Only by letting go of past successes and failures and taking action can we enter a new realm of life.

Let go of past hurts

Someone said, "You have to thank the people who have hurt you, they are the ones who make you strong."

Some people, after experiencing injuries, will become stronger; some people, after experiencing that unpleasant past, will become sensitive and vulnerable.

Hurt is hurt, it is not worth it to be grateful. However, we need to let go of past hurts.

Choose to let go, not to forgive the people who have hurt us, but to let go of themselves.

A person who is always holding on to past hurts is perpetuating past hurts and allowing himself to wallow in them and be miserable.

Some people say, "If I choose to let go, it will not be cheaper for the people who have hurt me?"

The truth is, choosing to "hold on tight" will only keep you in the hurt of the past, unable to extricate yourself.

A sign of maturity is to learn to love yourself.

The only way to let go of past hurts and stop "self-harming" is to love yourself.

Let go of past mistakes

As the old saying goes, "No one is a saint, no one can be without fault."

We often use this phrase to tolerate the faults of others, but for their faults, nagging.

A person, who properly criticizes themselves, can motivate themselves to progress. However, excessive self-blame can cause one to feel great guilt and lose the strength to move forward.

What we need to do in the face of past mistakes is not to keep beating ourselves up, but to analyze the reasons why we made the mistakes.

Discover the reasons for your mistakes and make sure you don't fall in the same place in the future.

The past has passed, and no matter how much we blame ourselves, it does not help, people, to learn to look forward.

Only to remove the heavy "psychological baggage" of the past, we can see the opportunity to throw life over again to make up for past mistakes.

A person should learn to do subtraction, let the past things with the wind and pass.

The so-called "give and take", there is give and take.

Give up expired, useless things, to get new, valuable things.

May you and I, can "turn the page".