Don't follow blindly, live out your true self
De Beauvoir once said: "Men shut a woman up in the kitchen or boudoir and wonder at her limited vision; They break her wings and lament that she cannot fly."
Scarlett lived in a time when women were expected to do a lot.
To be gentle, to understand, not too ambitious.
In her class, it was generally believed that the most important thing for a girl was to marry a man of the right family and then be a qualified lady.
Scarlett, uninhibited in nature and unrestrained in character, was always admonished.
If they had a big appetite, they would be advised by the black nurse that they wanted a little girl like a mouse, with a small appetite like a peacock.
She was eloquent and witty in a crowd
If a gentleman suspects that you have more sense than he does, he will not marry you willingly.
But Scarlett sniffed that her life ambition was not just to be a "matrimonial lady but", to live as a man in a suit.
She never blindly followed these established rules and lived a free and passionate life.
She likes to be in the limelight, talking and laughing at parties.
She deliberately flirted with the young men and made them jealous of her.
Dancing in mourning, she surprised the audience, and her elders looked askance at her and accused her of being unladylike, to which she responded with a contemptuous smile.
Even later, when she went into business and ran a sawmill, no one thought much of her, but she did not care and prospered.
Those prejudices against women, she did not see the eye, she is always loyal to herself, always maverick, always live hot.
No matter in what era, the public will always hold various prejudices against women.
A lot of women, always too much care about other people's eyes, busy to let themselves live in the world's eyes of the standard appearance.
Nietzsche said, "Don't let our brains become someone else's racetrack."
A truly intelligent woman can think independently and has her values.
She knows what she wants and is always determined to follow her path and take responsibility for her choices.
They wanton free and easy, live themselves in a unique landscape.
No attachment, harvest confident life
After the outbreak of the Civil War, Scarlett's first husband died in the war.
Then, the mother dies, and the father suffers from severe trauma, delirium, and loss of self-care.
Overnight, she lost all support and suffered from poverty and hunger.
It was at this time that Scarlett grew up quickly and vowed never to return to such bleak times again.
She struggled to find food for her family and comfort their traumatized hearts.
She directed the women in her family to grow cotton, not only herself but also doing all the dirtiest and most tiring work.
Finding that ASHLEY could do nothing, the next moment she was strong again.
More blows followed.
When the war was over, the Yankees suddenly raised Toller's taxes, and her inability to pay the 300 gold pieces meant that she might lose the farm.
Hao Sijia is all around, cornered when, she committed to the rich businessman Frank, to solve the tax problem.
After marriage, she is not satisfied when rich and idle, but with frank's financial support, started a lumber factory, opened a restaurant, single-minded career.
Although Scarlett has some love brain, her value lies in that she has never attached psychology.
Love a person again, also can't forget self, give up own ambition.
Married to rich husbands, also did not indulge in enjoyment, but took the opportunity to develop their careers.
In her mind, working hard to make money, having her career, and being a haven for her family was more important than heaven.
Because of this independence and self-improvement, she experienced the world is difficult, holding high steps low, alone swallowing a lot of sadness and sorrow.
But also in the pain of steel, rapid growth. Upgrade all the way to play strange, so that they reached a new height in life.
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