What is marriage and what is the meaning of marriage?2

Life needs to understand the truth, all pursuits have a price, and all resources can be transformed. Power, money, wisdom and color are the four major resources of human society. We do not choose a certain resource, but calculate the optimal solution of overall utility according to the weight of each resource. The most fundamental resource of human society is people. Power, money, wisdom and color are essentially the power to dominate people. Power is the power of domination at the core of coercion, money is the power of control at the core of consumerism, and wisdom is the transmission of ideas. It is the dominant power of the core, and the color is the dominant power of the core with the reproductive instinct, and it is also the dominant power with the lowest priority. Successful people in the upper class did not marry a particularly beautiful wife, because sex is a scarce resource for the bottom, but not for the top. Power can be expanded and capital can be increased in value, but the utility of intelligence and color will continue to decline over time. Therefore, the most rational approach is to convert these two resources into higher-level resources as much as possible during the decline cycle of these two resources. And the highest level resource that ordinary people can get is money. Therefore, making money has become the only goal of most people. When it comes to marriage, it is just: a car, a house, and income. Basically, money is inseparable. From the perspective of resources, loving someone's money is indeed the most rational choice, because other reasons for choosing anyone will be destroyed by time, the appearance will become ugly, the figure will be out of shape, and the intellect will decline. Only money may depend on With the continuous increase in investment behavior. But unfortunately, we are not so sane. Rational people in the strict sense exist only in the hypothesis of economics, which is why we struggle with whether or not to marry someone who meets your personal expectations, but not societal expectations. Or he meets societal expectations but not your personal expectations. Whoever bears the consequences has the final say. Advice without consequences doesn't make any sense. When you are in your twenties or thirties, you can't experience every life of whether you marry or who you marry. You can't calculate all the variables as accurately as you can solve a math problem. Reason can solve many problems, but it can't explain love. It is much wiser to get married when your mind is hot than to weigh the pros and cons. Marriage is a sure-fire business, because life is a process of grabbing something in vain and then being forced to return to nothing. Our Parents, friends, children, and health will all leave us. In this irreversible result, it is always better to have someone with you. What really supports us to go on is that trace of gentleness.What kind of person are you looking for, in fact, the subconscious is looking for the other half. In fact, the meaning of marriage is to improve yourself. There are always some shortcomings and shortcomings in yourself, so I hope to find the other half to make up for you and make you perfect. Of course, the other party also wants to be perfect, so you must also have the character, knowledge, ability, or resources that you can take. Therefore, each takes what he needs, and each contributes his own strengths. In the end, both parties are more perfect and more satisfied. For example, if you are beautiful, you may have less money, so you can find someone who has more money and is not too handsome. If you have a big temper, you may have a lot of skills, and you can find someone who is gentle and easy to get along with, but not so refined. Therefore, if you want to get all the benefits without accepting the shortcomings of the other party, the marriage will fail. Because the other party will not accept your shortcomings, right? You can't be without flaws, can you? If you were perfect, you wouldn't have to get married. If you feel like you're worthless, you don't need to get married. Because even if the other person thinks you have merits, you don't realize it, and the marriage will be very sad in the end.