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Signs of cheating partners you don't want to miss

From a private investigator

By Johnny BlackPublished 7 months ago 4 min read
Signs of cheating partners you don't want to miss
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Infidelity in relationships are an unfortunately common occurrence. Around 20 percent of individuals cheat in relationships. These numbers are actually probably a lot higher if you really think about what cheating entails. Cheating does not have to be just physical and a lot of the time it is a highly emotional complex. This can cause many problems in the relationship and often it is the very point of no return. Many times the feeling of not knowing for sure is worse than the feeling evoked from finding out that they are cheating. I am a retired private investigator for over 20 years where I worked primarily on infidelity cases. Over the years I have learned different ways and psychological tells that show whether or not your partner is cheating. If you are reading this perhaps you suspect your partner of being dishonest in your relationship or maybe you are just curious as to what cheating looks like. Either way, lets dive into it and show you the different ways that your partner may be cheating on you and what you can do to find out for certain.

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Understanding the Patterns of a Cheating Partner

Humans are creature of habit. We follow generally the same routines in our everyday life and behaviors. This is one of the very first things to take note of when observing your partner in daily life. How has their behavior changed if at all? It is common for a cheater to exhibit a noticeable change in behavior. When you dive into the psychology of a guilty individual you will understand that they attempt to cover their tracks almost too well. This hyper focus on their own guilt and covering it up is exactly what exposes it. If something smells fishy you just might have a fish. Trust your intuition if you begin to get the feeling that they are cheating and then start to take close note of their behaviors. One thing I advise you to take note of is their phone usage. Depending on how long you have been with them you should have a general idea of their phone usage. Now take note on specifically when they are using their phone. Are they on their phone while in bed or close to you. Generally, a cheater wants to keep his dirt as far away from you as possible so you might notice they are on their phone a lot less when they are around you. This could be for multiple reasons but in most cases it is because they don’t want to get a random text or call from the person they are cheating on you with.

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Tech Savvy Tactics to Catch Your Cheating Partner

The technology that exists in this day and age is actually quite scary. The level of snooping that a curious individual could do would send shivers down a nuns back. The most obvious of them all is spyware. Spyware would allow you to monitor your significant others phone, messenger, emails, etc. All of their online activity can be tracked. This of course has a certain degree of risk of being found out, but after all if they really are cheating, who cares? Its understandable that we are not all tech savvy in this world so a lower effort but highly effective method to catch a cheater is the fake profile trap. You make a fake profile on social media and send some bait messages to your partner to see how they interact with a “stranger.” See whether they flirt or start inappropriate conversations. If they do just add that to your stack of evidence. A highly underrated tactic is the simple but very effective, Airtag method. Buy an AirTag or a few and maybe leave one in their car. This will allow you to monitor where they are going and probably find out very soon, what they are doing.

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Seeking Outside Help

Catching a cheater can be a time consuming and daunting task, luckily I am here for you and i am ready and more than willing to help catch a cheater. . In my career as a private investigator I helped catch hundreds of cheating spouses and helped to relieve the emotional stress that is felt from being actively cheated on. I have been retired for years now but this is something I am very passionate about. I am always ready to supply the best of my information to help put an end to infidelity in relationships. That said, I have read numerous books and clocked in thousands of hours studying this subject, not including the hours spent in the field, and one thing I’ve learned is that anybody can catch their partner cheating if they really are.

If you are serious about catching your partner in the act than be sure to download this course where you will be given all the information you need to do just that. This course is the ideal solution for every woman or man who suspects their partner's infidelity and wants to know the entire truth without technical training, and without resorting to the expensive services provided by private investigators.

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