Making Sure Your Proposal Is Done Right

by Paisley Hansen about a year ago in proposal

This is the biggest moment of your life. Here are some important things to consider to make sure it's as memorable as it should be.

Making Sure Your Proposal Is Done Right

Asking someone to marry you is one of the most important things in life. Therefore, the timing and setting of this event should be carefully considered. You are convinced that they are right for you, and have asked for your parents’ blessing and advice. Do your families get along? If so, you are ready to marry your future spouse. There are several things you must keep in mind when you think of a way to suggest marrying someone. First of all, this is a memorable moment that will be talked about by your friends, family, children, and grandchildren over the years. Make it a worthwhile story to tell.

Second, each person is different; make a plan for the proposal based on their preferences and personality. While some like private and intimate moments with you, some partners like to have all their friends and family witness the event. First, make sure that the way you ask makes them feel comfortable. Make sure that you are both on the same page about your relationship. Make sure that you have discussed long-term commitment. Be sure you have good communication. Have you discussed any major obstacles that could make marriage difficult? Practice living together. Discuss how you want to handle your families. Make sure you have met one another's parents, if possible. Of course, discuss any family difficulties so you are on the same page as to how to handle them. Discuss whether or not either of you wants children, and your life philosophy in general.

A History of Proposals

In the Victorian era, women were not able to decide on who they married unless they conformed to their father's wishes. Women did not have many rights back then, and people who were not straight were often discriminated against. Now, marriage equality is an international priority, especially in the West.

The Moment Itself

One of the most important moments of your life is when you propose to marry, or are proposed to. This, too, is one of the most exciting and memorable moments. There is still a lot of pressure to do this. Remember, there are no perfect conditions. Just do what is best for both of you. Remember the most important part: make sure when you fall in love, you pick the right person!

There is an art to the marriage proposal. I found that the photos of different types of marriage proposals are very interesting. To see some people come up with simple but important questions is exciting. Various methods can be very expensive, but others are personal or creative.

If you do a public proposal, everyone in the restaurant—or wherever you happen to be—will quietly watch it and wait to hear your significant other's answer.

Steps Before and After Proposing

Then you'll start thinking about next steps. You'll want to give them the perfect engagement ring. What sort of wedding are you planning?

The best time to carefully consider your reason for marriage is before planning a marriage proposal. Don't spring the idea on someone as a surprise. If you are thinking of marrying someone who is living with you, you'll know better whether you really want to spend your life together.

If you can pick a day to propose, February 14th is a great day. Your significant other will be expecting some romance, but your marriage proposal will far exceed their expectations of the day. You might consider a lavish citrine engagement ring. This will be the best day for your fiancé, and make sure it will be an unforgettable day in the coming years.

Even if your parents and your partner's elders reject your suggestion, don't get depressed because of complications. Sometimes this happens in love, because the elders don't agree with your relationship because of their orthodox or social issues.

Marriage is sweet with the right person. Make sure you and your partner are ready. Consider whether you are able to communicate well with them about virtually anything.

Paisley Hansen
Paisley Hansen
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Paisley Hansen

Paisley Hansen is a freelance writer and expert in health, fitness, beauty, and fashion. When she isn’t writing she can usually be found reading a good book or hitting the gym.

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