How to have a husband given by God?

If your wife always fights with you, is always jealous and lazy,

I do not want to say that she is from the devil.

What I can say is what Saint Paul said.

The Bible says, "...a prudent wife is from the LORD."

Now, if your wife always fights with you, is always jealous and lazy,

I do not want to say that she is from the devil.

What I can say is what Saint Paul said.

Let us read I Corinthians 7, these are words of God, the Bible says,

"Art thou bound unto a wife? seek not to be loosed.

Art thou loosed from a wife?"

- or if you do not have a wife -

"...seek not a wife."

Perhaps, your wife is a result of your search without God

because you yourself do not obey God.

If you are of God first,

you really serve God before you got married,

you can be sure that your wife will be from God.

Perhaps, you are also a sinner, you sought a wife,

you will find one.

It is easy to get married.

If you have a thousand pesos, just show off and you can have a wife.

If you have 10, 000 or 20,000, more so if you have a million,

women will come to you.

There are many women there.

That's what saddens me about other women.

Most women seem to depend on the men.

The woman in the Bible is not like that.

If you marry someone given by God, she's a different kind of woman.

Proverbs 31:10 -

"Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.

The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her,

so that he shall have no need of spoil."

This woman from God is full of benefit.

"Who can find a virtuous woman?"

You cannot find her. It is God who gives her.

What kind of a woman is she?

Let us read Verse 14 -

"She is like the merchants' ships; she bringeth her food from afar."

A prudent wife is like a merchant ship.

Do you know merchant ships?

It will dock at port and unload its goods.

It will load other goods and then sail again

and will dock again at another port and will deliver goods.

That's how a merchant ship is.

"She riseth also while it is yet night,"

It is still dark but she rises.

There are other women who are still sound asleep at noon.

They are not profitable women, they are lazy.

And then, it says,

"She riseth also while it is yet night,

and giveth meat to her household, and a portion to her maidens.

She considereth a field, and buyeth it:

with the fruit of her hands she planteth a vineyard."

Imagine, this woman is even a farmer.

If you have found someone like this,

even if you are lame, you have nothing to worry about.

She is a businesswoman and a farmer.

If we will read all that, it would be lengthy,

those are the works of a prudent wife.

I teach the unmarried young men,

before you seek a wife or wait for a wife,

learn to obey God first.

With God, we will find the best for us.

Without God, we might be mistaken.

We should realize that.

"...a prudent wife is from the LORD."

Why? Because you yourself are of the Lord.

You are a man of God, so He will also give you a prudent wife.

Now, what will you do with your wife if you had not found such a wife?

There is hope, God always gives hope.

You only need to listen to the word of God,

learn to accept the word of God.

It can be changed.

It can change.

God can recreate within us.

That is stated in Titus 3:5,

"Not by works of righteousness which we have done,

but according to his mercy he saved us,

by the washing of regeneration, and renewing of the Holy Ghost;"

The process is the washing. The washing is baptism.

For people to receive the true baptism, and the renewal of the spirit.

God can renovate our bodies and our minds.

In Ezekiel, this is the promise of God.

"A new heart also will I give you,

and a new spirit will I put within you:

and I will take away the stony heart out of your flesh,

and I will give you a heart of flesh.

"And I will put my spirit within you,

and cause you to walk in my statutes,

and ye shall keep my judgments, and do them."

"I will also save you from all your uncleannesses:

and I will call for the corn, and will increase it,

and lay no famine upon you."

Such is the God of the Bible. Always offering remedies,

health, and blessings.

When a person learns to obey God, He can change your being.

God said, "I will remove their stony heart and give them a heart of flesh."

That's what people do not know.

They just discovered it in recent decades.

People learned about heart transplant.

A heart that is hopeless, that no longer wants to beat,

they learned to perform a heart transplant.

If that is possible physically,

for your life to be prolonged because your heart was replaced,

that is more possible spiritually.

Let us look at this record, This is recorded in the Guinness World Record.

He had 31 years more after his defective heart was replaced.

How about the American?

If that is possible physically...

The essence is in the Bible. The heart can be changed.

It is possible spiritually.

So, they have seen a physical possibility because there is spiritual significance.

The word of God teaches us two kinds of realities:

physical and spiritual.

John 3:12 -

"If I have told you earthly things, and ye believe not,

how shall ye believe, if I tell you of heavenly things?"

The word of God has two implications:

it can either be true materially and spiritually.

So, do not lose hope.

If there is life, there is hope.

So, a live dog is better than a dead lion according to the word of God.

He is still alive, he still has hope.

Let us not lose hope because God can do miracles.

Let us not forget that.