You must realize that feelings must originate from both sides. And as a man you are in charge to create this feeling. Men should avoid the following blunders at all costs.
1) Quickly approaching the scene
You don’t want your lover to perceive you as a vessel for selfish pleasure, do you? Sex is a unique experience that strengthens relationships between partners. Rushing into it could leave you with a terrible impression if you “underperform.” Move slowly and use her favorite music to build the right mood.
2) Ignoring her body’s other parts
Girls will like to see themselves as more than just a “instrument” for fulfillment. Therefore, don’t simply focus on her genitalia during sex! Take your time and play with her. I get how hard it may be to maintain control when “Your Friendly Brother” between your legs has a mind of its own, but you must practice restraint if you want your girl to have fun! Hug her, fuss over her hair, suck her earlobes, kiss her neck, and softly whisper sweet nothings into her ears… You see what I mean, right?
She believes it’s not as sexy as you do. It is not practical to act like a porn star when you are not one. Getting your partner to act like a pornstar is difficult, to put it mildly. Even if your partner complies, she might not be as properly trained as you believe, and even if she does, it might not provide the “Results” you desired, leaving both of you feeling ashamed. However, you may live out your desire by watching a pornographic film and seeing whether she makes an effort to understand what she sees. If you want to lead her, act naturally. Girls tend to be more shy about such stuff as she needs to connect with you mentally while guys normally just “demand” physical attention.
4) Attempting Too Hard To Win Her Favor
If you’re anxious, having sex doesn’t feel natural. Simply unwind and see how things go. While some girls want to take the lead, the majority prefers their boyfriend to do so. She can become annoyed if you are making an effort to satisfy her and keep asking questions like “Does it feel nice” each time you shift positions. Girls want explosive sex, and the key of making love is to do it without doubt or thought. Go ahead, have fun, and make sure she has fun as well. We are, after all, looking for a balance in the situation; it should always be advantageous to both sides.
5) Spending More Time Playing With Your Sexual Toys Than With Her
Though they may have consented to test the new toys you got, don’t rely too much on them in the hopes that they would spice up your romantic interactions. These items ought to be enjoyed during foreplay only, not as a full course. If you rely too much on them, say, to assist her have an orgasm, she may eventually decide that sex toys are more “useful” to her, which will make romantic relationships less gratifying.
6) Missed the body language she was displaying.
Girls often need longer, on average 7.5 minutes, to experience an orgasm. if you want to aid your spouse in getting orgasmic. Be attentive! Avoid overindulging in your selfish pleasure! As long as you detect a shift in her regular behavior from the beginning of your lovemaking, it will be a good clue. Examples of this vary from girl to girl. She may embrace you firmly, rock you hard, or kiss you. You’ll see that she’s actually more eager than ever to be intimate.
7) Getting An Orgasm Before Her Girl Never Forget, Forgive.
She will view having sex with you more of a work than a joy if you do this too regularly. If you tell me you have trouble controlling your ejaculation, one suggestion I have is to try thinking about other topics while having sex. If your mind is not concentrated, you could be able to hold off longer than her. Reaching an orgasm is all in the head.
8) Demanding or Requesting Sex
There are instances when women typically do not feel like having sex. You’ll see right away. It wouldn’t be a good idea to start sex at that time. It doesn’t matter how much you touch your partner; if she doesn’t even try to touch you back, you know that this time’s sex won’t be very thrilling because she’s only there to “entertain” you.
All the best to all men. Blast on your valentine on this day.
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