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15 Simple And Quick Ways To Make A Man Fall In Love With You.

Some men can be extremely difficult to get a hold of, and without the right approach, what seems like an impossible task is going to result in you being turned down.

By BingBingMoneyPublished 2 years ago 8 min read
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Did you know that with just a little work, you can make the man of your dreams fall head over heels in love with you? All it takes is awareness, some light manipulation, and a little bit of luck. If you're one of those people who's never had luck in love before, don't give up hope! You've got this.

Read on for 15 simple and quick ways to make your man want to commit the rest his life to you. Just be warned: these tricks can leave your new guy feeling powerless against your whims if used too often.

1. Make Him Feel Special and Irresistible

The feeling of being special and irresistible will leave your man desperate for you, which can lead to a lot of follow-through if he's serious about making a commitment. Most men will fall for this trick easily if used sparingly.

For example, if you want him to shower you with presents and compliments, tell him that he has no reason not to give them to you because "he already thinks so much of himself. " This will cause him to feel flattered and want to keep you around.

2. Tell Him That You Love Him

This one's not gonna be as tough as you'd think. If a guy is going to fall for your tricks, he needs to have faith that you like him in the first place, so this is a good call if you're trying to get his heart racing. Just tell him that you love him and he'll forgive you in that instant when it really counts. Of course, don't actually say it just keep mentioning how much you care about him when he's around. This will make your intentions clear without even having to bring up the topic yourself.

3. Tell Him That You Love His Personality

You know how we said that telling the guy you love his personality was the most obvious way to get him falling in love with you? Well, it's got to be even more obvious if you say it when he's not around because he'll think that you're just being a sweetheart. If he's not around, hint at your affections by saying that he has a very special and sexy personality or tell him that you couldn't imagine anyone else looking quite so good in a dress. This will make him want to keep talking to you, which is just what your intention is.

4. Order Something for Him

There are a variety of ways you can do it, and this is one of the methods that's easiest. Just order something for him if he's got some serious shopping to do or tell him to get something that he needs while the store's still open. Get a gift receipt and leave it on his dresser or wherever else he'll be sure to find it. When he opens the gift, give a big smile and tell him that you hope he likes it. This will have an instant effect on his mind as he tries to figure out why you'd give him something small when other girls wouldn't bother doing anything but just talking when they want something from him.

5. Make Him a List of All His Shortcomings and Failures

You can seldom go wrong when you make a man feel bad about himself, and this one's no different. Make him a list of all his failures and shortcomings tell him you're doing it because you don't want him to feel uncomfortable around you, but it's important that he knows how he falls short of your expectations. He'll be so mortified by the time you finish that it won't matter what else is going on in his life, he'll want to make every effort to make up for the long list of problems that he has with himself.

6. Tell Him That You Have Feelings for Someone Else

Most guys are going to try and win you over by making you feel special and desirable, but there's a different strategy to making them fall in love with you, and that's having it seem like they're competing for your heart. If you tell him that there are other men interested in dating you and that he needs to beat them out on looks alone, he'll be sure to look his best around you because he knows that another man has your attention. Just make sure that you're not actually interested in anyone else: one false accusation will send him running for the hills.

7. Make Him Do Something Stupid, and then Laugh at Him for It

If you want to make a man fall in love with you, this is an oldie but a goody. Tell your guy that he needs to do something really stupid for you, like kissing another woman or throwing his phone into a lake. Only tell him about it later after he's committed the deed then laugh at him for being so gullible. This will drive him crazy because he'll be so eager to prove himself to you that he'll even go out of his way to try and fix things. This also works if you're trying to break up with him: tell him that there's something he needs to do for you, and then laugh at him for failing when it's too late.

8. Tell Him That You Can't See Him Anymore

Of course, this one doesn't work if you actually want to see your guy again, but you can use it in order to make a man fall in love with you. If you want to ruin a relationship and make the guy that you're with completely crazy, tell him that you can't see him anymore. He'll be so desperate for reconciliation that he'd do anything in order to win your love back. Just don't actually follow through keep seeing him if you want to use this trick as a way to fall out of love with him.

9. Tell Him That You Love Him, Then Break Up With Him

This is another awesome trick, although it's not quite as useful as the first one (it doesn't always work). Tell a man that you love him and then break up with him before he has a chance to say it to you, and he'll spend the rest of his days longing for you.

He'll be so overcome with desire that he won't even be able to think about anything else but you in the hopes of getting back together. This one's a variation on the "I love your personality" trick, since telling someone that they're hopelessly in love with you will lead them to feel like it's their fault when they can't get into a relationship.

This can be a good way of making a man fall in love with you, as long as they don't find out that you said anything before they tell you what they're feeling.

10. Creating a Rivalry

A lot of men want you to feel like they're in competition with some other guy, so if you want him to fall in love with you, tell him that there's someone else he should be worried about.

When he hears about the guy that your friend has a crush on, have him get mad and send out the message that he's going to "out-crazy" that other guy. He'll want to get you back by looking his best, so he'll be sure to take care of himself and spend more time on grooming.

If you make him feel like one of his closest friends would rather be with someone else, he'll be desperate for you to want him again.

11. Giving Him a "Pep Talk"

Most of us only hear about the way that it works in movies, but this is another fairly common trick used by women who want to make a man fall in love with them: tell him that everything in the world is terrible and that it's all hopeless.

Give a big speech about how life is hard, then have him sit with you and tell him that you're so glad that he's there to help you get through the hard times. This will make him feel like he has a lot more responsibility than he ever expected, and it can make him more responsible, as well as committed to you.

12. Make Him Feel Uncomfortable about Something in his Life

There are lots of ways to do this: if he's physically fit, call him fat. If he buys new clothes, tell him they look terrible on him. If his car is nicer than yours, point out how much cleaner your ride is. If he has a great job, tell him that you can't wait to quit your job and set up shop with him. If he's happy and sociable, ask him if he has any other friends aside from you.

He'll be more inclined to listen to what you have to say if you make him feel jealous about his other friends – then he'll need you in order to confirm that your relationship is truly special.

13. Tell Him That You're Not That Into Him

This works most effectively if you're trying to get out of a relationship or break up with a guy, but men are also very sensitive about this one, so it's actually kind of useful. Tell a man that you don't really like him or even hate his guts and then use this as an excuse not to see him anymore when you actually want to see him. He'll be jealous because he feels like he's taken for granted, and he'll be much more inclined to spend time with you in an attempt to win your affection back.

14. Drive Him to the Edge

When a man is taking it easy, there's no way that you'll be able to make him fall in love with you. It's much easier to make your guy fall head over heels for you if he thinks that he's at risk of losing you. If he has his eye on someone else and he doesn't know whether or not you're going to stick around, this is an excellent trick just tell him that there's someone who can sweep him away from your relationship.

When he hears that someone is making you feel neglected, it'll make him feel jealous, and he'll be more inclined to listen to what you have to say. The best way to employ this trick is to make him feel like his love means something: if you tell him that your feelings for him are "strong enough" for the two of you to overcome anything, he'll be so helplessly in love with you that he'll do just about anything in order to get a taste of that feeling again.

15. Make Him Feel Guilty

It's always a good idea to make a man feel bad about something he's done; this is actually one of the most powerful ways of getting a guy to fall in love with you. Tell him that you can't wait to see him, then don't show up – he'll be so upset that he'll be desperate to pick up the pieces. If you want to give him good reason to spend time with you, mention how lonely your life is without him. He'll worry that he deserves this kind of treatment from other women, and he'll be happy just to get out of it himself.

Finally

The best way to make a guy fall in love with you is by making him feel desperate for your affection. When he's worried about losing you, he'll be so desperate for your affection that he won't have any choice but to show you how much he cares: if he doesn't, his fear will only get worse.

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