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where i can find happiness?

We want somebody to love us but why we can't give some happiness to yourself first. Don't we deserve our happiness first?

By Feel goodPublished about a year ago 3 min read
where i can find happiness?
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First of all happiness isn't the job or role to perform, It is a feeling that you get from doing something that you love in your life. It is a state of mind actually. It is within us only. we create our own happiness. Different people have different definition for happiness. Depend on the age of a person our needs and happiness will get change.

For a kid, playing with toy will bring happiness. For a child, going to park and playing with the friends will bring happiness to them. For a teen, they will be happy if someone show some love to them. For an adult, working on something he/she love will make them happy. For an old age person, settling in life and relaxing is their happiness.

Likewise happiness can be found for whole of our life. Not only because of this reason, but for many!!. It depends on the capability to see the goods in all the situations. Life is not same for everyday. Each day will have some good and bad times.

Everyday need not be a good day but every day has some good in it

Happiness seems like small thing but it's very important for a purposeful life. Happiness have a specific character like salt. Without it life feels tasteless. So, it is very important and we are know it. How can we get it? this is the question now right?

Here are some tip to follow if you want to be happy:

SELF LOVE

For me FIRST OF ALL, Loving yourself is the best way to be happy in life. You have to give yourself love in order to make a happy life. We want somebody to love us but why can't we give some happiness yourself first. Don't we deserve our happiness first? . You will be only happy when you truly believe that you best. I know you have to improve in all formats of life but still you are in the right position. Believe me we are capable of things if we have immense amount of self love. May be in some situation you can expect or depend on other for your emotional goodness. They may or may not give you that. it depend on their situation and interest towards you. If you have faced any kind of this scenario in your life, You may got to know about value of yourself. Be the best company for yourself in your life.

LOVE OTHERS

Once you fell in love with yourself, then start to treat other like yourself too. Then chances in people will happen too. Give them all the love and respect before you expect from other. Everyone in the world deserve love and respect. We all love our family and friends to the core. Making them happy is one of the happiest things. Do what make them happy. Sometimes in life little things matter. Giving them little little surprise and joy will make them and ourself enjoy more. You have to understand people. There are many ways to understand people But why understand is so important in like. Because may of our problems from people are caused by misunderstanding. Misunderstanding can be happen for many reason. Read more about it.

READ MORE ABOUT MISUNDERSTANING

Accept people as they are. To be happy with others make sure that you accept everyone without any regret. We all have negatives and people in our life accept all of us mistake. Likewise you also have to accept other mistake. Most importantly make sure that people in your life are worthy enough for all your love and that the same time it apply for you too. you should be worthy enough in people life. remember

People in your life should be a source of reducing stress not causing more of it

Love what you do

We are spending most of our time in working. In office, collage or school wherever you were in. So it should be what we love for a happy life. No matter what other people say about your work, if you love your work enough then that's enough. Do work hard for your dream and goals. when you start loving you job or subject (depend on you) then hard work also seems easy. We all have passion about something in this life. But for the many reason we can't continue that in our life. Most people give up on that and got placed in whatever job they get. So most of the people work just for the money not for them. The pressure of the work make them get more hesitated with their life. So not give up on your passion for anything. Read more on feelgood

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