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What Men Need to Know Before They Turn 30

Although money is not everything, no money is everything, although this sentence is very vulgar, there is truth, so before the age of 30, please put most of your energy into your career.

By BobbyPublished 2 years ago 5 min read
What Men Need to Know Before They Turn 30
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  1, career always comes first

  Although money is not everything, no money is everything, although this sentence is very vulgar, there is truth, so before the age of 30, please put most of your energy into your career.

  2, don't take money too seriously

  Do not complain about their current low wages, bank deposits below 4 digits, do not see the future, now to do is to study hard, even if you have a high diploma, how to apply the theory to practice or need a long exercise process, society is always the most extensive university, it allows you to learn far more important knowledge than you learned in school, so likewise, you do not mind too much low education. 30 years old before relying on The people who can buy a car and a house by themselves are still very few.

  3, learn to understand parents

  Don't mind their nagging, when you are a father you will know the pity of parents, in their eyes you are still a child, but they are really old, now you have to make them happy, maybe as long as your a phone call, a small gift, you can make them feel at ease, it is easy to do.

  4, make good friends

  Friends have a significant impact on your life, do not go to meet too many friends, at least one can help you in critical moments of friends if you meet such a person, grasp later will be useful, whether he is now rich or poor.

  5, don't believe too much in love

  The first thing you need to do is to take a shot at it, and don't hesitate to let go of it. 30 years old love is not fake, but most people can't grasp it, so learn to do what you can.

  6, don't worry about retaining the first kiss so far

  Love is not in the many but the fine, do not think they have not touched a girl in their 20s is afraid that they will never find a wife. In the future, you will have many opportunities to meet girls and to know this society although more men than women, the reality is that women are more worried about this problem than men. Men 30 a flower, you are appreciating rather than depreciating, mature love is often more beautiful and longer, so do not see girls like mad dogs want to chase, learn to taste loneliness.

  7, do not indulge in anything

  The so-called play things and lose heart, online games are what you play before you get out of school, you now have no extra time and energy to spend on this, or you overdraw things later have to pay back. A person should have interests and hobbies, but please be clear about the importance.

  8, young without failure

  Do not encounter setbacks on discouragement, young people should always maintain a positive attitude. Failure, start over; lost, then fight for something else. Missed, to analyze, the next time to come, to grasp; childish, the next time, mature point. It does not matter, it will be fine, even to the extreme, do not give up, believe that you can survive. Do not be negative, it will be fine. Once the wrong, the past, always can not look back in the past. The present was very good, tired after, very comfortable. Do not hurt, there will always be someone to support you.

  9, do not easily worship or despise a person

  People have idols, but please have your personality. Do not deliberately try to imitate a person, because you are you, is the only, unique, to have confidence. Also do not deny a person in its entirety, everyone has value, if you can not understand him, please also learn to accept.

  10, be responsible

  No matter how you used to be, but please be a decent person from now on. Men should have a sense of responsibility, whether at work or in life, a responsible person can make others feel safe, to make others feel that you are a trustworthy person. We do not want to be cowardly, but please do not hurt the people who love you and the people you love, especially the kind girl, because there are not many kind girls in this world, even if you do not want to have, but please let her keep her beautiful heart.

  11, a man's physical appearance is not important

  Don't worry too much about your looks and height, a man with a good heart and integrity is far more handsome than those men who are handsome, upright but nasty inside. If someone is judged by appearance, please do not care too much, because you do not have to go for low-class people and sad.

  12, learn to protect the body

  Don't think it's okay to smoke and drink now and stay up all night. That's because your body is in the prime of your life. 30 years old after you can understand the meaning of the word "incompetent", the body is the capital of the revolution, without a good body can not do anything, so try to make yourself a regular healthy life.

  13, do not feel that nothing has been achieved

  You are not yet qualified to talk about success, except of course if you have millions of assets. In the beginning, too fixed career is not necessarily a good thing, perhaps in the continuous change of career, you will learn more knowledge, and can tap your potential to find the most suitable for your work.

  14, please work hard

  Even if your current job how boring and how low, please take it seriously, know that any successful people are from the smallest things to do, perhaps you can not learn how great knowledge, but at least you have to learn a good working attitude and working methods, which is very important for the future.

  15, please take the feelings seriously

  Don't envy those who change women like shoes like a playboy, the love of the show is just a waste of time and energy, a person's greatest pain is not to find a lover, but no love in the heart, when you love you 3 words into your easiest to say a word, then you are already hard to find true happiness in the world of love. There is no fairness in love, there is always a person than the other pay more, even if there is no result, do not feel worthy, because you pay not only for her but also for your love, pay for love is very valuable, praise yourself a little.

  16, please leave a little childishness

  Deep inside, even if it is just a very small corner, please keep a childish heart, not childish, but sometimes simply a little will make you very happy. So don't be too concerned about gains and losses, life is not perfect.


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