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The Obsession With Humbling Others: What Do People Really Gain From It?
There’s something uncomfortable about how often people fee. And yet, something about them triggers others. It’s as if just existing in peace makes people feel like you need to be “brought down to earth.” Why? What is it about quiet people that bothers others so deeply? Is it the stillness? The fact that they don’t beg for attention or validation? Or is it the discomfort others feel when they meet someone who is genuinely content without the noise? Let’s be clear—we’re not talking about people who are arrogant or dismissive. We’re talking about those who move through life calmly, who heal quietly, who succeed without rubbing it in anyone’s face. Somehow, these people still become targets. “She thinks she’s better than everyone now,” they say. “Wait until he gets off his high horse.” But here’s the thing—what high horse? Choosing to protect your peace, work hard, or speak only when necessary shouldn’t be seen as superiority. It’s just self-preservation. Still, society seems obsessed with tearing that down. Some people can’t stand to see others doing well—emotionally, academically, professionally. Especially when that growth is happening quietly, without validation from the crowd. It confuses them. Because how can you be happy without showing it off? How can you be doing well and not announce it to the world? That’s when the subtle attacks begin. Backhanded compliments. Snide remarks. Passive-aggressive jokes. Withholding support. All under the false pretense of “humbling” someone who never acted like they were above anyone in the first place. Sometimes, yes, it's jealousy. But often, it’s something deeper: insecurity. Your quiet strength reminds people of what they haven't yet healed. Your success reflects the work they haven’t done. And your peace exposes the internal noise they’ve been trying to silence. People who need external validation often struggle to understand those who don’t. They confuse confidence with arrogance, and self-respect with pride. And so, instead of learning from that, they try to humble you. But it’s not really about you. It’s about how you make them feel about themselves. What do they gain from it? For a moment, they feel in control. They feel better. They feel like they’ve leveled the playing field. But it’s temporary—and shallow. Because hurting or silencing someone else never truly fills the emptiness inside. Dimming another person’s light doesn’t make yours shine any brighter. And yet, it continues. Especially when the target is someone soft-spoken. Introverts are often mislabeled as cold or distant. People mistake stillness for judgment. But the truth is, some of the kindest, strongest people don’t say much—not because they have nothing to say, but because they know the value of peace. And that scares people who only know how to exist in noise. We must stop mistaking someone’s silence for superiority. We must stop thinking it’s our job to humble people who never acted above anyone. Sometimes people are just growing. Sometimes people are just healing. And sometimes people are just trying to exist without being made to feel like they need to shrink for others to feel comfortable. If someone is thriving emotionally, spiritually, or academically—clap for them. If someone is quiet and content—let them be. Not everyone’s peace is a performance. And not everyone’s growth needs to be challenged. Because true humility isn’t about tearing others down. It’s about being secure enough in yourself that you don’t feel the need to. And if someone’s strength threatens your sense of self, maybe it’s not them who needs humbling. Maybe it’s time to look within.
By Sanelisiwe Adamabout a year ago in Journal
The mind of wealthy people
I watched the following videos and wanted to give my thoughts on them. I picked these videos because I think they showed the minds of wealthy people and what they think and believe. I’m not a psychologist or psychiatrist, this is just what I got out of the videos.
By Robert Kegelabout a year ago in Journal
Why Paul Haggis News Keeps Popping Up in 2025—And Why I’m Not Even Mad About It. Content Warning. AI-Generated.
Look, I’m the first to admit I spend way too much time doom-scrolling. Most mornings I open Twitter, see the latest trending crisis, and audibly groan before coffee has a chance to hit my bloodstream. But every so often a headline grabs me in a different way—something that yanks me out of the spin cycle and makes me think, “Hey, that’s the kind of story I actually want to read.”
By Paul Haggis Newsabout a year ago in Journal
Top 15 Events That Happened in 2025
If 2025 were a Netflix series, it’d be a blend of Black Mirror, National Geographic, and WWE SmackDown—all directed by the ghost of Salvador Dali. It was a year that took the rulebook, turned it into origami, and set it afloat down the Ganges.
By Omasanjuwa Ogharandukunabout a year ago in Journal
Donald Trump's Use of Emergency Powers: A Constitutional and Political Examination
Donald Trump's Use of Emergency Powers: A Constitutional and Political Examination The presidency of Donald J. Trump, the 45th President of the United States, was marked by a number of unprecedented actions, one of the most controversial being his use of emergency powers. These powers, while legally provided under U.S. law, carry profound implications for the balance of power among the three branches of government. Throughout his term, Trump invoked emergency powers in ways that fueled legal battles, sparked political outcry, and raised concerns about democratic norms and executive overreach. This essay delves into the most significant instances of Trump’s use of emergency powers, evaluates their legality and effectiveness, and considers their long-term impact on American constitutional governance.
By Jane Bradshaw about a year ago in Journal
The Deployment of Federal Forces in Los Angeles Amid Immigration Policy Protests
In recent years, immigration has become one of the most polarizing issues in the United States. With increasing tensions at the southern border and evolving federal policies, many American cities have become the stage for demonstrations and civic unrest. Among them, Los Angeles—a diverse, immigrant-rich metropolis—has often found itself at the center of both activism and federal scrutiny. The deployment of federal forces in Los Angeles during protests against immigration policies marked a significant moment in the ongoing national debate. This essay explores the circumstances that led to the deployment, the public response, the legal and constitutional concerns raised, and the broader implications for civil liberties and federalism in the United States.
By Jane Bradshaw about a year ago in Journal
Beyond the Lampshade: Woody Allen’s Unlikely Wisdom for Profound Personal Growth
Self-improvement. Personal growth. These terms often conjure images of intense seminars, complex philosophies, or relentless positivity. But what if the path to becoming a better, happier you was paved with wit, sarcasm, and a healthy dose of existential absurdity? Enter Woody Allen, the iconic filmmaker and comedian whose neurotic musings, surprisingly, offer profound insights into navigating the human condition. Forget the forced Zen; sometimes, the deepest growth sprouts from acknowledging life’s inherent ridiculousness, just like Woody does.
By Sherif shamsabout a year ago in Journal
The Controversy of Trump and Pride Month 2025
As Pride Month 2025 came into full swing, unfolding events in Washington D.C. were overshadowed by the unexpected absence of official support from President Donald Trump, whose administration has taken a notably hostile stance toward LGBTQ+ communities. What began as voices of celebration quickly shifted into a clash of public opinion, political symbolism, and protest.
By Jane Bradshaw about a year ago in Journal
