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People, must not be too demanding a perfect life, to leave room for life, in order to life

A trip to the world, know how to put down, learn to let go

By Deborah W DovePublished 2 years ago 3 min read
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If you want to live a full life, there are only two choices. One is to "do work you love" and the other is to "make yourself love work". Can meet their favorite job this chance, I'm afraid less than one in thousands, one in ten thousand. Instead of looking for a job you love, start by liking the job you already have.

Leave room for others, but also to leave room for yourself. "Profit can not be earned, happiness can not enjoy, potential can not be exhausted", this world is not a person's world, but the world of all people, so everything must leave room. "The belly of the world is wide, often ferry." More tolerance, there will be more understanding; More kindness, there will be more hope. Convenient with others, convenient oneself. Other people have a way, so you don't get stuck.

The world is always complicated. Many of us are living in the eyes of others. Today rejected others, will be worried, afraid of the relationship is stiff; Tomorrow, I worry about being tactless and being talked about. We are unhappy because we think too much.

"We were so eager for recognition from the outside world, but at last we found that the world is our own and has nothing to do with others," Yang wrote in her speech at the age of 100. This is the meaning of Chow Yun-fat's "Zheng" : you don't need to explain yourself to others. Only by being honest and upright can you gain respect. Your principles are the best explanation of your character.

When you are young, what you know is far greater than what you have experienced. People are not only pompous, but also false.

After middle age, to slowly realize that a person has experienced about more than they know, or to let their experience exactly equal their own know, is just the right wisdom.

Fear is afraid of even their own experience, also do not know what is experienced and why, so gradually realize their own experience outside know, actually do not know.

Young people often mean that they know more than they have experienced, so much of what they know is still to be proven, it is always good to keep a little awe.

Someone said, "A man should live his own life, and live it clean."

In the rain, we often hold an umbrella, carrying shoes to walk, is to not let the rain wet, do not let the shoes dirty.

Life is the same, pick up the world, all want to have a pure, not to defile the life.

Again long life, we must go step by step, no matter how muddy the road is, there must be a clean soul.

Also want to live their own beauty, because there is no only relationship between the world and me, this is the biggest freedom I can think of, can give myself.

As we grow older, we become more and more aware of the need to maintain a unique attitude in a complex world.

I remember Zhou Guoping said, "There are three times of growth in life: the first is when you find that you are no longer the center of the world, the second is when you find that you can do nothing no matter how hard you try, and the third is when you accept your own ordinariness and enjoy it."

This is not only growth, but also transformation, man is not necessarily religious, but he must be philosophical, in the dialectical let oneself live out, clean this is the ultimate goal.

Don't say you can't do it, when the forest came "Shua Shua" leaves cheerful voice, that is life to find their own; When the sun dispels the night, it is a kind of bright and clean world.

Therefore, mature life, is a bright and not dazzling light, a mellow and not greasy ear sound, clean and free.

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Deborah W Dove

I'm 29 years old, and I'm an aspiring writer, film producer, and mental health advocate. I am able to touch the reader in some way, express my emotions eloquently, and enrich my life through writing.

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