Be The Man She Needs!

We live love superficially, just to see one or the other how well we do with "love". We don't live for ourselves and our happiness, but to convince others or to drive away loneliness, a feeling that scares people, something like the fear of incense. 

We are afraid to get involved on a deeper level, many of our love stories ending after a few nights of sex or after a few weeks because we run away from responsibilities, from the unknown, out of selfishness, or simply because we don't have the patience necessary to understand the one next to us. But…what if…?

What if, instead of running to the first problem that arises, we tried to understand our partner, to know him in all the emptiness of his soul, to communicate about what hurts us, and to let the other person gently caress the wounds of the past, until will they heal? 

I know it's hard because this means weakness in front of the person next to us, but ultimately this means a relationship, to show yourself in front of the person next to you as you are with the good, with the bad, and with the strange and the crazy and with the serious moments of everyday life and with tears, but also with smiles. 

No, the one who says "it hurts" is not weak, but the one who runs away upon hearing these words or who creates so many defensive walls around him that even he doesn't know what he is like anymore. Stop trying to impress on first dates, be yourself, because…the man in front of you needs to know you as you are.

Take care of the soul of the person next to you, don't play with him as if he were a soccer ball because if you don't know how to value his inside, you don't deserve his body either. Don't leave all the problems to her, help her. And so life is hard enough, it can no longer carry all your problems. Show him that he can rely on you in any situation, he has had many chickens disguised as cockerels before, he doesn't need another one in his collection. 

Give her protection, and try to be her oasis of calm in a hectic world. When everyone is pulling for her, try to be the one who gives her the necessary confidence that she can do whatever she wants and that even a crazy dream doesn't seem impossible. When the tired night comes, after a hectic day, give her a little of your time, hug her tight to your chest, without saying a word. It is said that souls speak to each other when people say nothing.

Make her smile, because if the smile of the woman next to you is not the most beautiful thing you can see during the day, at night you don't deserve to feel the warmth of her body. Create small moments that represent your paradise, only yours. Don't share your corner of the world with anyone, because people tend to enter the unknown world with their boots full of mud and they will ruin everything.

Kiss her soul, look into her eyes when she talks to you. Don't push yourself to get between the litters, this thing will come naturally. Tell her how you feel, but also what bothers you, don't hide, because anyway she will find out and feel hurt, just like those before you did. 

Show her that you are different, that you will be able to kiss away all the wounds of the past, until they heal and pass by themselves, show her that you can be the medicine of her soul. When she's on the ground, take her hand and try to pick her up, and if not, sit down next to her, until you both find the necessary energy to get up and fulfill your most beautiful and hidden desires, and ideals. Draw on each other's sky the most colorful memories, moments, and dreams.

If he feels safe, he will give himself completely with his soul, but also with his body. Have passionate sex with her, be there, present, to satisfy her as best as possible, don't think about anything else…just how to bring her on the way to the most beautiful thrills, as those before did not. A happy woman is a woman satisfied mentally, spiritually, and sexually.