After ten years of work, what career truth have you learned

Working overtime hard has nothing to do with improving yourself. Working hard for the company has nothing to do with improving yourself. Having a good time with colleagues has nothing to do with improving yourself. You can only improve yourself by learning more, reading more and thinking more.

With regard to love, it is reasonable to be a couple. Cross class marriage is not without, but a small probability event. Most people's marriages, like their lives, conform to the normal distribution. What kind of person you are, what kind of partner you will meet. Therefore, if you really want to marry Bai Fumei and Gao Fushuai, you should be ruthless to yourself, jump out of your bottom circle and realize the opposite attack of the Loser.

Giving gifts to leaders is not a gift in itself, but a loyalty test, that is, telling leaders that I am your person. They are all leaders. Your family is not short of your gifts. Even if you give them to big leaders, they dare not accept them. The action itself is totally more than a gift. Generally speaking, it's OK to bring some local products from home and something when you come back from abroad. In fact, it's telling the leader that I'm your person and I have you in my heart. Don't forget me, brother.

Except for your close friends, your contacts are based on value exchange. Realistically, how likely are you and your boss and colleagues to become friends. The essence of contacts is value exchange. If you have no value to others, you are not the contacts of others. If you really want to be a friend of others, you should keep company with excellent people and learn from them.

If you are the boss or leader or you have saved a job with your brother, remember this when you share benefits with others, and you'd better give others more benefits than expected. For example, I will organize some online training. The agreed class fee with the teacher is 500, and 600 when the settlement is made. The money is not much, but the teacher is comfortable with it. Next, it is easy for others to work for you, but it is better to let others work comfortably, which is the basis of the next cooperation.

Choice must be greater than effort. Historical trends, social development and industry trends are far greater than personal efforts. From the beginning, you should make a good choice. Choose a good profession, good industry, good platform, and even your marriage. Don't worry.

It is true to make friends by talking about feelings on the basis of interests. In the future, when you look for friends to do things, you will also echo them, even if you have interests. It doesn't matter if you don't talk about feelings. The successful experience can refer to Liu Bang and Song Jiang. If you just talk about feelings, no one will help you in the future.

Don't work part-time to earn extra money! This society is highly specialized and subdivided. 80 points for the main business and 80 points for the part-time job. The total is not 160 points, but 85 points at most. But if you pay 20% more in a certain field, your income will exceed 80% of the people. The professional skills in civil servants, public institutions and state-owned enterprises are useless even if they are good.

Jealousy is common to everyone. Sometimes it's a bit unpleasant to see others living better than you. However, will the people around you have any negative impact on you if they live better? Not at all, but do they have the potential to help you if they live well? Of course there will be. So when I can help, I will help. I sincerely hope my friends and colleagues can have a good life. It's a good attitude.

A person's energy is extremely limited. Don't spend your precious energy on worthless places. For example, reading one book in three days and forming the habit of getting up early in 21 days seem to be good methods, but there are many mistakes. It is very low to improve your efficiency by increasing the amount of reading. Similarly, it is difficult to form the habit of getting up early by clocking in. You should increase the quality of reading, not the quantity, so that you can go to bed early at night and get up early. Don't spend your energy on forms, but on blades.

People really don't have to force themselves to be different from themselves. You don't have to live like a team. A person just needs to live like a person, with dignity, pursuit, dream, weakness and decadence.

Don't underestimate the IQ of any person, especially any competitor. As long as the vital interests are involved, everyone has superior IQ. He can definitely think of the way you can think of at the first time. If you want to win, you must go further.

Don't tangle with professional counterparts. Most people are not professional, and even if they are professional, most of the things you learned in college are outdated, and you basically start from scratch. So don't worry about the time and energy you have paid. These are sunk costs. You just need to choose the industry you like most and want to work in. Do you know what you like? Try more and you will know that many people are ignorant for the first three years.

After you get the job, you can't do it rashly. Break down the work objectives into details, including the steps needed to complete the work, which departments to cooperate with, and which colleagues to help. If I want to make a copy of the activity, including the title, content, pictures, prizes, venue layout, etc., my time and energy will be allocated according to the importance. The title and content are among the first, so I will devote 60% of my time and energy to these two steps. Once I was scolded by the boss because I had no way because of my hard work.

Good leaders do not want "good leaders": good leaders will scold you, but will teach you something; And "good leaders" are really good and indulgent. They ask you to have dinner and drink when you have nothing to do, but there are few things you can really learn. Be clear. If you have clear career goals, get rid of "good leaders" as soon as possible.

At least one job specialty should be used as leverage. After you enter the job, you should fully understand all the contents related to your work and quickly improve your irreplaceability, that is, only you can do well but others can't. Overall 65 points, 90 points for each item+60 points for other items. Then you need to leverage more company resources (human, material and financial resources) with the expertise of each item. Whoever has more deployable resources will have more power