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Top 7 Green Flags in Women (the "girlfriend test")

Being in a relationship with the wrong woman can destroy your mental peace and ruin your life; it's important to know that the woman you are dating is the right one for you. But to know that, first, you need to understand that she is mature enough to approach the relationship in a healthy and desirable way. So, how do you know that the woman you are dating is the perfect match for you? I'll go over seven things; if she does them, she is the keeper.

By Space OnlinePublished about a year ago 5 min read
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Being in a relationship with the wrong woman can destroy your mental peace and ruin your life; it's important to know that the woman you are dating is the right one for you. But to know that, first, you need to understand that she is mature enough to approach the relationship in a healthy and desirable way. So, how do you know that the woman you are dating is the perfect match for you? I'll go over seven things; if she does them, she is the keeper.

Number 1: she is strongly committed. The very first thing you want to see in a woman is her commitment to you. To understand her commitment, you need to look for a few signs indicating her strong desire for you. You'll know this if she is committed; she will prioritize you and your relationship over anything else in the world. Because if she is sincere about it, she will see her world in you. She will also make sure to give you enough time to spend some quality time together and will do anything but to make sure that commitment stays true. If she is committed, she will trust you in every area of life. By doing so, she will be completely transparent about everything going on in her life, and she will also make sure not to do anything that will undermine your trust in her. Now, listen carefully; if she is truly committed to you, she will likely talk about her future with you. She will say things like, "How about we shift into that place?" or she might say, "Let's go on a vacation in 2024 to somewhere exotic to spend some quality time together and get to know each other better." If you find these signs in her, she is the keeper.

Number 2: she has a low body count. If she has been with many men before, chances are that she will leave you for another one. I am not being judgmental here, but think: why would a woman constantly change her dating partner? If the problem was with the guy, then she might change one or two, but a constant transition in relationships demonstrates her disloyalty to her partner. In modern society, they call this an outdated and harmful social construct, but remember what I have told you in our previous videos: do not believe everything they say is true. If a woman wants to have a healthy and long-term relationship, she will save herself for that one man she believes to be her life partner. Most of you will disagree with me now, but think for a second: if you, as a man, are constantly changing your dating partner, what would you feel? You will never feel satisfied because every girl you date is different from the previous one, and the more you get entangled in this, the more you will feel tasteless. Understand this; whatever I say here is meant to help and protect you from the modern lures.

Number 3: she is financially independent. When someone does the job or is doing business, they understand a few things, among which responsibility and self-sufficiency are the major factors. When a woman is doing a job, she understands her responsibilities to get the work done. Having such a mindset, she approaches everything with full responsibility, especially when committing to someone. For a girl, self-sufficiency plays a big role in her dating life. When she is self-sufficient, she is not looking up to her parents for money or looking up to you to pay her bills or buy things she wants. She wants to contribute as much as you do financially. Now, as a man, you will better understand this because when she is financially secure, she won't be attracted to you because of your wealth or status. She is attracted to you for something far more significant than that. If you are dating this type of woman, this is the green flag.

Number 4: she takes care of you. Most modern allows some women to act like they are too good for men, which puts them on a pedestal. Listen, the more she is feminine, the more you will find her caring. You will see her cooking and cleaning your apartment, even if it's the beginning of your relationship with her. She will want to make things easier for you, not to make them hard by acting like some goddess who wants you to worship her. She will try to find ways to come closer to you and will do anything to earn your love and respect.

Number 5: she is easy-going. If you are dating a woman you barely hang out with, or she has that busy routine thing, she is not worth it. Know this, if a woman is down for you, she won't make excuses; instead, she will try to make things easy. If you ask her for a date, she will say, "Sure." If you ask her, "Let's hang out tomorrow," she will say, "Of course, even if she is really busy." She will say, "I am busy tomorrow, but what about the day after?" She will even initiate dates and hang out sometimes. Also, she responds to your text messages timely, and when she is with you, she fully concentrates on you. I know it's hard to find a woman like this nowadays, but if you feel slightly any of these things in her behavior, it's a green flag.

Number 6: she has a strong bond with her friends and family. A girl who has a good connection with her family and friends knows the value of being in a relationship because she knows how valuable this bond is and what could happen if she loses that bond with them. Know this, when she already understands the value of being in a relationship, she will make sure to do the same with you. When she sees her future in you, she will go to any length to preserve that relationship. You will often observe her as considerate, passionate, caring, and loving.

Number 7: she goes with the flow. Some girls, when you try to make them a part of your life, they start complaining about things. This is because she thinks of herself as the boss and doesn't want to be a part of someone else's life. On the other hand, when she is the "go with the flow" type of girl, she will show compliance when you ask her to watch a movie with you, even if she is not really in the mood. She won't say no. When I say this, I don't mean that she is submissive and will do anything you want her to do; it's just that she is trying to fit into your life by compromising a part of hers and make sure you do the same. That's how strong relationships are forged.

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