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Bhagavathi LakshmiPublished a day ago in FuturismTake you into the inner world of Sagittarius Part 3
He does this for only one point, he must be in this way to make himself optimistic, to be able to make himself happy in the past, once his faith collapses, hope in life begins to lose, he has no way to get happy, so let me say, why was it cheated when I was a child, why people go out to play games, basketball is always he buys water, always pays, always gets pit from it, he can get happiness from it is enough, what he wants is not me to pay for you, you pay for me, I buy you a bottle of water, tomorrow buy me a bottle of water, he wants me this behavior can give me happiness, I have to do this, so to answer the question, whether Sagittarius is rational or emotional, I can only say that Sagittarius is one A rational thinker, but with emotion to do things, because of all his behavior, never think about the rewards and costs, but think about whether he will do it, I once drank a lot of wine with a thin friend, and then pushed the heart-to-heart chat, and mentioned a point of view, that is, he does always instinctively protect himself, then in the process of communicating with him, I asked him this thinking question, why protect himself, he said that sometimes he will be taken advantage of, will be used, but he does not know how to refuse, so he will protect himself, then I will ask him if you think I am a person to protect himself, he said, I think you are a person with a strong sense of defense, I said, do you know why me Never protect yourself, recently I have a strong sense of prevention, so I will not protect myself, and why should you protect yourself, because you have never guarded against others, you think about yourself, your mother, fox and dog friends, wherever you go, let you pay, why because it is good, because you have a little richer than them, is it because you yourself rush to buy, because you feel embarrassed to buy it yourself, after buying, find someone else AA to collect money, feel very embarrassed, so you will feel that others use you, in fact, others have not thought of saying that they have to let you pay, right, you put you after buying, AA, people also feel reasonable, but you yourself feel that others feel unreasonable, so you do this, resulting in finally you feel in your heart Uncomfortable, but you find nowhere will people take the initiative to explain to you, will people talk to you, it won't be that you choose not to communicate with others, you choose not to guard against others, you choose to deal with this matter alone, so you will feel very tired, you feel very lonely, and I think you just need to think with people, consult with people, people will be on your side, is this the case, so the Earl's Sagittarius in this issue, the biggest problem is this, he always uses his own way to make decisions for others, because you do this, it leads to all the grievances are borne by yourself, because people think you don't care, people don't know how to return to you, you don't even give people the opportunity to return to you, that's it Sagittarius, right, Sagittarius, I get along with Sagittarius friends, the first day ah, we went out to buy water, he rushed to buy the order, the next day I want to buy water, I said then you drink or not, oh, don't drink, don't drink, don't drink, the loss is that I understand, I bought him a bottle and sent it to him, he also drank, if you don't even understand the person you meet, he really didn't buy it for you, what will you think, your parents are uncomfortable, who is to blame, no one can blame you, in the end only blame yourself, you lie in bed, you turn over and over and can't sleep, you yourself say you don't want it, friends really think about it, why do you always say that Sagittarius pursues happiness, Sagittarius is very optimistic, do you think this is a good thing, I also didn't say Taurus pursues happiness, because I and Taurus There is no point in saying that Taurus pursues happiness, Taurus instinctively will look for happiness, he is easy to be happy, so Taurus does not need to look for happiness at all, I said that Sagittarius yearns to be happy, where is the essence of finding happiness, where is the reason is that Sagittarius is easy to be unhappy, it is easy to be unhappy, so he yearns for happiness, so he wants to emphasize to be happy, Sagittarius is the most need to be happy, because Sagittarius is too easy to be unhappy, taste a pin, taste a pin, why am I crazy to compare Taurus and Sagittarius today, I got along with a few Sagittarius friends, and found that Taurus and Sagittarius really have too much difference in this way of thinking, why am I so easy to be happy, me Can't tell you ah, my circle of friends has a three, four, four, five, here like to drink, there like to play scripts, kill there, like to surf the Internet, there like to play basketball, what I generally do depends on what I want to do today, I now ask all your friends, you generally know what to do today, generally do not return, why will you usually be called away, it may be my friend just dreamed of lying in bed for a day, suddenly a friend said, hey, my new home is moving next week, I want to go to IKEA to buy a few cabinets, you accompany me to IKEA to see if the cabinets are good, is it Luo Yujun, yes, okay, then okay, I wash my hair for half an hour and leave, I will come to me for a while Come on, I think it's very happy today, why I went out to find happiness, I went to IKEA to go shopping, very happy, is that happiness, is it the happiness you want, I forgot, not why, because in bed, he couldn't help but think about the question in his heart, that is, why did he ask me to accompany him to visit a house, I was going to go, I asked him to accompany me to do what, he couldn't, he felt unfair, but he thought yes, that's my own going, he told me to go, I went, why blame him, he consumed this grievance again, the result is that he forced himself to be happy, lied to himself to be happy, emphasized that he was happy, and then after a while, his friend said to him, hey, come and play the glory of the king, okay, okay, go online immediately and play 2 hours happy, can it After a while, there are still people who say, hey, we're bouncing, you're bunging, you're coming, you're going to be happy, it's such a person, and then lying in bed, happiness is unattainable, happiness is short-lived, happiness is instantaneous, uh, everyone is like that
Take you into the inner world of Sagittarius Part 8: Communicating with Sagittarius is actually a process of resonating with three views
So I will think that first of all, this person is not a particularly material person, this is very important, you have a good taste, his world must have a simple and strange happiness, the joy of exploring with Sagittarius, that is, Sagittarius may be a little whimsical, think about going to the beach, you have to go with him, and you have to really feel very happy, pretend is useless, why, because Sagittarius is a particularly considerate and especially like to make excuses for each other I give a very far reason, for example, you are very busy at work, and then just have work in your heart, one day Sagittarius suddenly told you that he is going to the beach to play, you say ah, okay, then I will take leave to accompany you, do you think it can work, you can't say that Sagittarius would rather you don't go, what to ask me to take leave to accompany you, not to accompany him, must find out what Sagittarius is looking for you, not for you to accompany him to Sagittarius to find you, Sagittarius is to say that every time I go to the beach, I will feel very relaxed, I think you are very tired from work, so I hope you can also go to us, relax together, have a happy time, feel that the neighbor is not happy, you don't want to go, you don't have to go, you can go by yourself, it's like this, so as far as I said, you are consistent with his three views, not what world view, values, morality must be consistent, but exclusive, there is one thing can only be exclusive to you to do, there is a place that is only exclusive to you, there is a world, only you, and this world is maintained by you together will feel happy, not a certain person's wishful thinking, you said so much is what I said, although you know that all are a very unwilling to communicate person, is a very autistic person, as soon as you hear this sentence, you should feel that he is very cute, very interesting, independent and not very pitiful, he needs to be taken care of, needs warmth, just like I said, he does not need any warmth, take care of people, sympathy he needs is always understanding and identity, a sense of exclusivity, a sense of affirmation, take the point of communication, I say Sagittarius does not want to communicate with people, why is that standing in my Taurus field of vision, I say Sagittarius does not want to communicate, because my Taurus communication is really communication, that is, ah, what I have been thinking lately What am I doing, why is it painful and aggrieved, why is it sad, my purpose is to vent and soothe myself, my purpose is to make myself feel better, this is called Taurus communication, Sagittarius he does not like to communicate, but Sagittarius's heart, there is no purpose to vent, soothe and relax, Sagittarius's heart belongs to what belongs to the discourse, belongs to the resonance, understand, you have sometimes, what to talk to you, talk to you, talk about national affairs, talk about politics, talk about human nature, talk about love, talk about marriage, this is called trading, not who persuades whom, who complains, who is a process of unclear three views, is it, how do you see this thing recently, how to see that thing, seek a resonance of three views, seek a uh mutual Understand, go deep into each other's this thing, this thing is that you have to be very happy to talk to him, why, as I said, many friends say, uh, Sagittarius doesn't want to talk to you, don't want to be pretentious with you, why is it that you feel very naïve, that is, there are no citizens, right, Sagittarius talk to you about love, talk about human nature, you feel very naïve, don't talk to him, that is, there are no citizens, and I'm responsible for telling you, you must remember a sentence, a big killing move, okay, big killing move, because I think about it, why I never said killing moves, I said Sagittarius, in fact, is a very good and good deceitful person, if you say too many routines, in fact, it is still easy to be dealt with, Sagittarius he really goes to bring his emotions Communicate with each other, express your inner thoughts with each other, there is always only one point, after the emotions and states are in place, they are mobilized to calm this is called the big killing knife, because really only in this way to set his words, to put it bluntly, the whole set of words, right, you want to know what you are thinking at this time, what should you do, you don't ask directly, you have to talk to him first, talk to him first, first talk to him, for example, ah, you want to ask Sagittarius if he has any opinions recently, what are you pulling with him, hey, our classmates on June 1 got married, do you know, have you ever thought about getting married, is it sure that you haven't thought about it, but if you want to know what he really thinks, you are pulling with him, hey, I feel that I don't know why I saw it recently Children I also want to have that idea of getting married, I don't know why, maybe the age is up, and then you say to him, hey, why don't you want to get married, haha, do you understand what it means, you can't ask him if you want to marry me, you have to step by step to set a sentence of deepening, right, hey, I want to get married recently, hey, let Sagittarius think, oh, he wants to get married, I know, I know, and then ask him, what do you think, the young man will say, I'm getting married, maybe it's a little troublesome, I'm not ready, right, hey, I will have a little headache when I think about it, and then come to ask him, then what do you think, will it be very numb, I think it's okay to get married, as long as we are firm, if we are brave, we are together Get a license, isn't it married, right, get married, he is just a ceremony and a witness of our feelings, I think he is not a trouble or responsibility, he is a witness of love, oh, listen to it, it seems to be like this, right, and then he said, oh, then you say this, it seems to be true to me, it seems that marriage is really good, you say this, I suddenly yearn to get married, right, he is like this, when you turn around, you always say to him, hey, do you want to marry me, do you want to marry me, do you not want to marry me, are you irresponsible, the more he says, the more I don't want to get married, I don't want to get married, I don't want to get married, I'm not ready, why am I afraid of marriage, why don't I want to get married, I'm not Is it fear of marriage, the more you ask, the more he presses him, the more he is afraid, the more he does not know how to answer you, the more he avoids this topic, what to do, is what I said, take the initiative to go deeper and express to him step by step, I tell you that the vast majority of Sagittarius will resist when it comes to the topic of marriage, it is he may feel that the other party is not ready to marry him, but in fact, if a Sagittarius hears that the other party is ready to marry him, he will be particularly happy, his heart is very warm, and then he will slowly prepare because the other party is ready, so Sagittarius must be a person who needs to be guided, and you need to take the initiative to hold his hand to go forward, very critical, very critical, well, come on
Take you into the inner world of Sagittarius Part 7: Don't easily break Sagittarius' illusions about feelings
How to enter the heart of Sagittarius, I remember, I once did a Sagittarius interview, the number of friends, I asked him a question, do you like a person, constantly comfort you, constantly encourage you, and then warm you, let you out of the shadows of the past, or hope that there is someone who can hold your hand, no matter what happened to you before, no matter what hurts on your body, do not care about you, your past, and then your hand rushes to the front of happiness, he does not hesitate to choose in the back, equal to the person who loves you the most, in fact, as long as you can think of it, Sagittarius will choose the person behind, but you don't say that everyone will choose the person behind, because I think water signs will mostly choose the front one of people, and Sagittarius will definitely choose the person behind, I just said so much, do things are autistic, do things without heart and lungs, right, say that everything is double-standard is useful, I said so much, I have said how to change, how to correct, I don't mention it, he doesn't listen, he won't feel that there is anything wrong with this, just like I said that Sagittarius is a person who constantly reconciles with himself and constantly tells you that there is a reasonable person, his problems autism double standard he will not change, that is, I say you can understand what kind of person Sagittarius is, you can understand why he is autistic, why he is sleepy, why he is depressed, but you can't say that you say that he doesn't recognize me, just say that joke before, is it about falling in love and breaking up with someone A person hides and cries, and then the friend calls to say what the first reaction is to wipe the tears dry, and then the friend calls him and says what are you doing, oh, no, I'm in a daze, go out that night, is it okay, it's good to go, go, and then wipe the tears and go out to play, and then come back and then cry, he is such a person, why did I break up with my object, what does it have to do with you, so why should I talk to you, why should I complain with you, where is the logic, is it telling you how to communicate with him, no, but telling you that you understand him, you don't need to defend him, you don't need to sympathize with him, let him learn to communicate, let him learn to communicate, let him no longer close yourself Without this ability, you can only let him believe in the world, believe in expectations, love the world, let him take the initiative to move forward, not you let him go and teach him how to go, so I told him so much, the result is how do you understand him, I have recently emphasized a point of view, Sagittarius is a person who has never made up his mind to break up, which is equal to what equals that as long as you don't go, you won't break up, you just give him a step, he will go down, he will come back when he is tired of playing, you can't rush away, but if what you say has been said, for example, two people originally quarreled and quarreled, good you with him, I don't want to see you, let you break up, the reason for your breakup must not be because of you What happened, but because of this sentence, because he wants to come back, when he thinks of you when you are optimistic, he can't come back, this is a core point that you listened to so much before, not for him to learn to communicate, learn to express, learn to educate, because he doesn't know how to digest, so he puts it in his heart and keeps chewing, and then dispels all his love, illusions about your feelings, fantasies about future life, because of self-esteem, and then let him dare not love anymore, this is the core problem, so I think with Sagittarius, you don't need to pay attention to anything, you just need to pay attention to two points, the first point is that life and Sagittarius need not skills, but sincerity, at least Sagittarius and you When you communicate, you have to listen carefully and give your advice, Sagittarius is sad, when you complain, you have to listen attentively, and complain with him, Sagittarius is happy, when sharing with you, you also have to express happiness and share with him, you don't need any routine skills, you just need to cherish why, because if one day Brother Shuo is in a very bad mood and complain to you, say oh, I was bullied again in the company, my leader is a fool, and then you tell him that you spit on others every day, the leader is stupid, others are stupid, just you are smart, will Brother Shuo be angry, he will not be angry, he will not tell him in the future, I will not complain to him in the future, how can he think like this, and then he will tell you that he is sad, he will not Tell you that he is sad, he is not even sad, he will just shut up the next time he wants to complain with you, your feelings will fade, you will be familiar, it's as simple as that, including sharing when you are happy, the same is true, right, what about Sagittarius, Sagittarius loves a person and wants to share everything with him, what he eats, what delicious will be sent to this person, what fun to send to this person, he sees a tree is very strange, to send to this person, he wants to share all the happiness with that person, and then, this person is very serious, he does not return, so will he not be sad, he will not be sad, he will feel very lost, he will feel that he seems not to want to know my world, does not want to know my happiness, so he will not blame you He will not be angry, he will only chew silently, and then silently lose the desire to share, and then stop telling you these things, and will not blame you for not listening to his sharing and want to break up, but because he found out one day that he suddenly did not want to share with you, so that he felt that your relationship seemed to fade, and he couldn't explain it, and he didn't need to explain, I just didn't want to share it with you, I didn't want to complain to you, no, you didn't want to talk to you, I just don't love you, so I don't need any skills, nor do you need any routines, it's very simple, you really like him, you think he's cute, you think he's happy, you think he's happy, you don't have to say anything, he naturally can What you feel is actually your greatest affirmation of him
Take you into the inner world of Sagittarius Part 7: Don't easily break Sagittarius' illusions about feelings
How to enter the heart of Sagittarius, I remember, I once did a Sagittarius interview, the number of friends, I asked him a question, do you like a person, constantly comfort you, constantly encourage you, and then warm you, let you out of the shadows of the past, or hope that there is someone who can hold your hand, no matter what happened to you before, no matter what hurts on your body, do not care about you, your past, and then your hand rushes to the front of happiness, he does not hesitate to choose in the back, equal to the person who loves you the most, in fact, as long as you can think of it, Sagittarius will choose the person behind, but you don't say that everyone will choose the person behind, because I think water signs will mostly choose the front one of people, and Sagittarius will definitely choose the person behind, I just said so much, do things are autistic, do things without heart and lungs, right, say that everything is double-standard is useful, I said so much, I have said how to change, how to correct, I don't mention it, he doesn't listen, he won't feel that there is anything wrong with this, just like I said that Sagittarius is a person who constantly reconciles with himself and constantly tells you that there is a reasonable person, his problems autism double standard he will not change, that is, I say you can understand what kind of person Sagittarius is, you can understand why he is autistic, why he is sleepy, why he is depressed, but you can't say that you say that he doesn't recognize me, just say that joke before, is it about falling in love and breaking up with someone A person hides and cries, and then the friend calls to say what the first reaction is to wipe the tears dry, and then the friend calls him and says what are you doing, oh, no, I'm in a daze, go out that night, is it okay, it's good to go, go, and then wipe the tears and go out to play, and then come back and then cry, he is such a person, why did I break up with my object, what does it have to do with you, so why should I talk to you, why should I complain with you, where is the logic, is it telling you how to communicate with him, no, but telling you that you understand him, you don't need to defend him, you don't need to sympathize with him, let him learn to communicate, let him learn to communicate, let him no longer close yourself Without this ability, you can only let him believe in the world, believe in expectations, love the world, let him take the initiative to move forward, not you let him go and teach him how to go, so I told him so much, the result is how do you understand him, I have recently emphasized a point of view, Sagittarius is a person who has never made up his mind to break up, which is equal to what equals that as long as you don't go, you won't break up, you just give him a step, he will go down, he will come back when he is tired of playing, you can't rush away, but if what you say has been said, for example, two people originally quarreled and quarreled, good you with him, I don't want to see you, let you break up, the reason for your breakup must not be because of you What happened, but because of this sentence, because he wants to come back, when he thinks of you when you are optimistic, he can't come back, this is a core point that you listened to so much before, not for him to learn to communicate, learn to express, learn to educate, because he doesn't know how to digest, so he puts it in his heart and keeps chewing, and then dispels all his love, illusions about your feelings, fantasies about future life, because of self-esteem, and then let him dare not love anymore, this is the core problem, so I think with Sagittarius, you don't need to pay attention to anything, you just need to pay attention to two points, the first point is that life and Sagittarius need not skills, but sincerity, at least Sagittarius and you When you communicate, you have to listen carefully and give your advice, Sagittarius is sad, when you complain, you have to listen attentively, and complain with him, Sagittarius is happy, when sharing with you, you also have to express happiness and share with him, you don't need any routine skills, you just need to cherish why, because if one day Brother Shuo is in a very bad mood and complain to you, say oh, I was bullied again in the company, my leader is a fool, and then you tell him that you spit on others every day, the leader is stupid, others are stupid, just you are smart, will Brother Shuo be angry, he will not be angry, he will not tell him in the future, I will not complain to him in the future, how can he think like this, and then he will tell you that he is sad, he will not Tell you that he is sad, he is not even sad, he will just shut up the next time he wants to complain with you, your feelings will fade, you will be familiar, it's as simple as that, including sharing when you are happy, the same is true, right, what about Sagittarius, Sagittarius loves a person and wants to share everything with him, what he eats, what delicious will be sent to this person, what fun to send to this person, he sees a tree is very strange, to send to this person, he wants to share all the happiness with that person, and then, this person is very serious, he does not return, so will he not be sad, he will not be sad, he will feel very lost, he will feel that he seems not to want to know my world, does not want to know my happiness, so he will not blame you He will not be angry, he will only chew silently, and then silently lose the desire to share, and then stop telling you these things, and will not blame you for not listening to his sharing and want to break up, but because he found out one day that he suddenly did not want to share with you, so that he felt that your relationship seemed to fade, and he couldn't explain it, and he didn't need to explain, I just didn't want to share it with you, I didn't want to complain to you, no, you didn't want to talk to you, I just don't love you, so I don't need any skills, nor do you need any routines, it's very simple, you really like him, you think he's cute, you think he's happy, you think he's happy, you don't have to say anything, he naturally can What you feel is actually your greatest affirmation of him
Take you into the inner world of Sagittarius Part 6: As long as you fall into pessimism, Sagittarius will open the self-protection mechanism
Now, let's talk about what the pain, troubles and difficulties of Sagittarius refer to, why is this so, just said the topic of autism, what is the autism of Sagittarius, some friends say it is escape, some friends say it, it is that he has no heart and no lungs, but I think it is all part of it, first of all, you say that Sagittarius is a person without heart and lungs, I am responsible for telling you, even if I am wrong with him, because Sagittarius is a person who will protect himself as long as he begins to be pessimistic and uncomfortable, and then enters that state of encounter, and then feels that it doesn't matter what that state, so Sagittarius is actually a person without heart and lungs, and then another point is where to say that Sagittarius likes to escape It's all the problems, and it's really a social problem, because many friends in society are facing a problem, when he can't deal with it, his thoughts are ah, we quarreled, but what, I sleep I can not hold revenge, I think you can do this, then I don't explain to you, I don't argue with you, I'll sleep, tomorrow I'll say Sagittarius and a few people play games, and then there is a girl, then I will ask him, hey, who is that girl, why do you play games with girls, he said oh, I play games, what's wrong, I didn't do anything to play games, what do you want to say, right, your cat quarreled, oh is still there, there is no return, there is no explanation of what it means, I don't have a ghost in my heart I don't think about it anyway, I think I have a clear conscience, so I'm too lazy to explain, so to be honest, many times he is really impatient, this is to start saying bad things about the shooter, it's really like this, because Sagittarius is a special self-axis, only know a self-centered person, this thing I think it doesn't matter, I don't explain that friends who have been in love with society should be easy to feel deeply feeling, just this person, he oil and salt do not go into soft and hard, do not eat no skin, no face, you want to quarrel, but he feels that it doesn't matter, you can never quarrel, why because he has no skin and no face there, scolding him and laughing, right, but he wants to quarrel, you think it doesn't matter, you have to explain, and he has always topped Half of this thing he is very embarrassed, why Sagittarius his anger is always according to his own standards, and he has no standards, to put it bluntly, I can't afford to play why I say Sagittarius, he is actually a very self-centered person, at this point, he many times, although he will think about each other when he is in a good mood, to justify each other, but Sagittarius when he is in a bad mood, he is a very willful person, his reasons and his reasons are separate, then the core point depends on his mood, does his mood have anything to do with you, this is the same friend as Sagittarius, the most angry point, as far as you chat with him, you scold me well, I scold you is to disappear Suddenly he answered the phone and was in a bad mood, he began to quarrel with you with a word, what is he doing, is he angry, he is angry with him, so why say I can't afford to play, I am responsible for telling you ah, he is angry, you can't be angry, because you are angry, he will really be angry, very unreasonable, but there is no reason, he is also such a reason, the reason for standing in Sagittarius is that you see when I am in a good mood, do I always tolerate you, you scold me, I am not angry, then this time I am in a bad mood, I will vent, I have no meaning, and then you said to break up, although I scolded you first, but you said break up, then it is not okay, because I think you violate my principles, many times quarrel with Leo, him Paragraph by paragraph is this reason, when arguing, Sagittarius first provokes you, and then when he messes you off, he suddenly gets angry, why does he feel unfair, I just scold you stupidly, force you to break up with me, I am, I can't stand it, the reason why Sagittarius is really angry must be because of rational analysis, what bottom line and principle are produced, but his bottom line and principle are made up temporarily, why is it so nonsense, ask the black truth, I ask you Sagittarius friends, and you mention whether breaking up is your bottom line, you can't fight it now, why because I haven't experienced it, so I don't know, then on the other hand, two people quarreled and quarrelled with each other, suddenly come to break up, Sagittarius Maybe I wasn't angry at the time, and then blindfolded, and then half an hour later, did he just tell me that breaking up can't be mentioned, breaking up is my bottom line, I was angry because of what, because he suddenly felt very uncomfortable, suddenly felt very uncomfortable, and then think about what my bottom line is, why I am so sad, it must be because he stepped on my principles, then my principles must be this thing, then no, then what does it mean, the other party stepped on you don't know how to step on it, you feel inexplicable, then there is also a bottom line, it is also inexplicable, what bottom line, mention the family is Sagittarius, a very strong bottom line, but Sagittarius is often rooted before not being mentioned I don't know, so sometimes quarrels and quarrels, the two people were not angry, suddenly the other party said a word Sagittarius family, Sagittarius fried on the spot, the other party was blinded, then how do you say how to deal with this matter, Sagittarius has not mentioned ah, is there anything that can not be said, there is also a most important what Sagittarius also has a bottom line, Sagittarius is the most taboo when arguing, the other party takes this matter out and says nonsense, he will be angry with me, quarrel with you, what do you mean by sending a circle of friends, I quarrel with you, you quarrel with you, you tell your brother, I quarrel with you, you tell your girlfriend that I am arguing with you, why are you scolding me, he will be angry, but he doesn't know, the other party didn't do this before, he didn't know at all That's what I said, talk about it, talk about it, as long as you don't step on his bottom line, he is good to talk, Sagittarius stubborn, as long as you step on the bottom line, he is very stubborn, he has to break up, and then you don't know what his bottom line is, he himself doesn't know, so why did I say before that young Sagittarius is often not a suitable partner, at this point, falling in love with Sagittarius is too random, you can't control it at all, and what is Sagittarius, Sagittarius hates pulling you to step on the bottom line of the Sagittarius, he breaks up with you directly, irretrievable you are divided, inexplicable, I tell you really, why do so many people scold the shooter, because the vast majority of people break up with the shooter, are inexplicable, you sue Sue me this way of dealing with him is reasonable, unreasonable, first, you don't know the bottom line of your own knowledge, second, the bottom line of your wealth, you don't give the other party the opportunity to explain, break up directly, and then disappear directly, the relationship is gone, directly gone, then I think what is the summary of this paragraph, I think Sagittarius can't change, you tell him that he doesn't understand, right, some Sagittarius has not experienced, you ask him hey, isn't it possible to mention the family, can the bottom line, I don't know if you can break up with him, I don't know if you told him it's useless, so I can now summarize the bottom line of Sagittarius at one time, the first is still that mentioning the breakup, especially the face is a plate to mention the breakup is an absolute bottom line, you must pay attention to the breakup The second bottom line, fall in love, quarrel, don't say to the outside world, don't post a circle of friends, don't post Weibo, why a truth, you post a circle of friends, everyone let you quarrel, at that time, think more, you sent a circle of friends yesterday, in appearance is a scumbag, if we are two people together at that time, and reconcile again, girlfriends see how embarrassing, I don't know how to face it, why don't face it, this is a face-to-face problem, the third is that the family can't say it in half a sentence, you don't want to say this kind of parents, parents, grandparents are half a sentence can not be understood, the most serious point must be remembered, you must not spit in front of others, no walker can Sagittarius, that sensitive glass heart, he is brittle and broken with a knock I think it's very simple, such as a lady, pluck up the courage at home to make a meal, but because of poor cooking, this boyfriend talks nonsense everywhere, ah, the girlfriend made me a scrambled egg with tomatoes, I ate fish and was almost hospitalized, ah, my girlfriend made me a steamed crucian carp, the fish offal did not scrape off, this Sagittarius heard this kind of person, his face will be black, wow, the whole person is blown up, although it is the kind of spit nature, there is no Wushan Daya, but he will be mad, and then, in half a year, you don't want to eat his cooking, it's impossible, because Sagittarius just can't understand this kind of words, you can say it to your face, because of dignity, so you have to figure it out What is the logic, Sagittarius, he is a person with super self-esteem inside and outside, can't say uh, for example, if the relationship between the two of you is particularly good, then what will happen to a kind and loving Sagittarius, right, go back and pinch back, will pinch him, will bite him, it's okay if the anger disappears, but if the relationship is not particularly deep, this Sagittarius can't go back, can't fight back, he will be mad in his heart, hahaha, this is the core problem, right, the core point is not how to digest, that is, he can't digest, if your relationship is not close enough, he can't digest it, he will be angry, he will be angry repeatedly, repeatedly angry, is to break up, for this there is a point, the special key is what Being able to joke is a great plus point when getting along with Sagittarius, Sagittarius jokes with you once, finds that you can't afford him, and then you don't know how to joke with you later, then the next time you encounter this kind of thing, it will be embarrassing, that's it
Takes you into the inner world of Sagittarius Part 5: How does Sagittarius reap true happiness?
Let's analyze it now How to make the shooter's friend a little happier I think absolutely Most shooters' happiness comes from love
Take you into the inner world of Sagittarius part4: What exactly does Sagittarius want?
That Sagittarius is what is his strongest I think a person is unhappy, a large part of the reason is based on this, what he wants, does he know what he wants, I am very reasonable, Taurus is a purpose, especially happy people, because Taurus's greatest happiness, satisfaction comes from growth, difficult to collect, difficult to break through, so Taurus as long as there is a goal, he will be happy, no matter what he does in the process, he will be happy, and Sagittarius his greatest happiness, what is his greatest need, I think Sagittarius happiness is mostly some fragments, and is some simple fragments that put aside society, put aside life, put aside pressure, mention of fastness friends may see Oh, the fastest, what I went to my cousin's house once when I was 5 years old, and then the three of us slept in bed, three people in bed, and then at night in bed to tell ghost stories, I was so afraid, but my cousin was next to me, I felt very safe, and then I was telling ghost stories, I was scared and screaming, I was very happy, I now imagine that feeling, how do you find ah, you 25-year-old, you lie in the quilt with your cousin and watch ghost stories, then you can't find it, right, that mention, that mentioned happy year, I was 7 years old, my parents, take me to Beijing to play, ah, and then I went to Tiananmen for the first time, and then I felt particularly spectacular, I especially liked this feeling, and then saw the national flag raised, wow me 's heart is full of pride, I really remember a lifetime, I will be particularly happy, I feel very happy, and then later, he can also go to Tiananmen many times, you can also look at a lot of mobile phones, but that feeling can't find the possibility that he will get used to it, or will go to look at the phone to see Tiananmen, but he doesn't have that feeling, he doesn't have that kind of happiness, what will he do, he will look for new happiness, what is that happiness, the more he has to put himself in a state, and then maintain a desire for the world, want him to return to that sense of expectation, satisfaction, freshness, stimulation, but this feeling is not worth once, and it is gone, and it is necessary to find new ones, so in fact, I heard that what Sagittarius wants most is that There have always been surprises, always affirmed, always familiar with this feeling, but this feeling he can't get, because like I said, you said that freshness and familiarity can coexist, some Sagittarius boys, you ask him what is the happiest, the happiest time is 50 years ago with his brother to play little bully and leather bands, especially three people to play together, take turns, right, die, change to another person, and then in the process of waiting, feel special, special expectations, special urgency, and then play with special excitement, afraid that they will die, and then squeak and squeak happily, and then win their brother, that excitement, that sense of joy overflowed, can you get it back I think the biggest spiritual need of Sagittarius is a sense of expectation, I hope your life has something to look forward to, but it has become another problem, that is, it seems that every time I look for a new stimulus and happiness, this feeling will always dissipate within a month, as if people have no expectations, after looking for new expectations, or disappointed, looking for new expectations or disappointed, hoping that this new person can be different feelings together, and after a month or two, it is that feeling, there is a new feeling, which can make him happy, and the result is unhappiness after a month, this consumption will make him lose expectations, this future expectation and a contradiction with past happiness It will make him have a doubt, that is, what I am optimistic and enthusiastic, but I can get some happiness, but if I am not optimistic and not positive and depressed, I will die, you think he really likes to bungee, likes to drink, likes to play games, likes to make fun, is not, but he knows that at this time, if he is left alone at home, he will die, in fact, after a certain age, all happiness is a thing, because he no longer has much expectations for his new life, because he will feel that he will never be as happy as when he was 7 years old, what is called rationality, is also reasonable, that is, I have to accept myself, I want to accept my life without expectations, I need to know, happiness is It's impossible, so I think Sagittarius will not be happy after coming out of society at the age of 20, twenty-five or six, but accept himself, because after accepting himself, there will be renewed happiness, otherwise, the happiness at this stage is all empty, why is it empty, I still feel that there is no point in playing games, there is no point in playing basketball, there is no point in buying clothes, there is no point in makeup, he wants to solve problems, such as going out to drink, he can only stay happy for 2 hours of drinking, and after drinking is still empty, so he must be pushed forward by this emptiness, the core point is where to expect and reconcile with himself