The Stories you hear

Its funny I have been working in the Sex Worker Industry now for a while and I can tell you I have heard so many stories about why someone is coming to see me.

Sometimes you have to wonder if they are for real or just something to make the person feel better about seeing an escort. I mean I am NOT ashamed of what I do for a living, I do it because I love sex and companionship and its really the perfect job for me and the reality is when I sit with clients there is always a story or a reason. They might be lonely, separated, or their marriage is struggling and they don't want to have an ongoing affair just want 'an arrangement'. But the honest truth is that no matter their story they all come wanting "relief".

But this isn't about the why's this is to share some of the stories I have heard. I dont judge him or her but as a counsellor in a previous life, I can honestly say that majority of the stories I have heard as I have laid in bed with men (and in some cases women) the problem could more than likely be fixed through communication, I know that isn't easy I have had my own failed relationships, but most relationships fail with conversations breakdown. However there are some stories that have shocked me and they are the ones I will share now.

I haven't had a blow job in 7 years

I remember meeting a man in a grotty worn down hotel (thats another story) and although I was told that he booked for a GFE (Girlfriend experience) he told me that he really just wanted a BJ (Blow Job). I smiled and went to work happy to oblige, as its my favourite pass time. I really enjoy teasing, and stimulating and edging men when giving them Oral.

I was able to tell straight away that he was enjoying it which made me job even easier because it excites me and turns me on even more. I was concerned with how much I was edging him and worried if he could handle it for too much longer and so i stopped and asked if he wanted a break or to continue and if he wanted to cum quickly and then try again or to hold off. He smiled and begged me to keep going. So I went back to work with a huge smile on my face.

After he had finished he laid there smiling, very content, after a few moments of silence he told me that he hadn't had a blow job in 7 years, that his wife couldn't give them, he told me that he had even gone as far as telling her friends and seeing if they could help, getting her to practice on Bananas etc.

He went on to tell me that he really misses having a good BJ and that he wished she would get better at it.

He couldn't believe that he had married someone who sucked at giving Oral, he went on to say he wouldn't leave her over it because he did love her and there were so many other aspects that he truly loved about her, but just wished if there was one thing he could change it would be that.

NOW!!!!!!!!!!!! I don't judge my clients (esp. the married ones) for coming to see me, they all must have their reasons for visiting an escort, but I have to admin I did get a little frustrated when I heard him talk this, he was pushing for his wife to do what he likes and trying to "train her" for his pleasure, but i straight away think what about her pleasure and maybe she doesn't do Oral because she doesn't like it not because she 'can't do it. After all not every woman likes to you know what.

But anyway I did feel a little sorry for him, probably because its my favourite thing to do and I enjoy doing it so much and I know how much men like it and how it can really make a sexual experience more arousing for a man if oral has been their foreplay.

So anyway after 7 years this guy got himself a blowjob and went home happy to his wife.

"AM I A GOOD F**K? "

This guy I will never forget, if I'm being honest then I should admit that I have a little crush on this guy and every time he messages or even if I think about him, I realised that I get excited by the thought. He is such an amazing man and there is something about him that I just want to hold him and reassure him that he is amazing.

So our first encounter, was one of a fantasy fulfilment for him and dur to the nature of what it was I thought it was going to be a one of encounter and after he left i just kept thinking to myself how that was going to be a shame, because he was good.

About a month later i received a text seeing if we could meet up again and this time for a different fantasy and i was very happy to oblige. After we finished, I showered him and we were sitting down chatting as he got dressed and he suddenly turned and looked at me and said, "Am I a good f**k?" I was really taken aback, I smiled and said 'Yes baby you are awesome, why do you ask?'

He told me that he had been with his wife for years but over the past 6 months they had gone from a very active sex life to a point where she isn't touching him at all and he doesn't know why.

The cynic in me said she is having an affair, but it was the pain on his face that took over and I remember putting his face in my hands and staring him in the eyes, I told him that I couldn't tell him why she no longer touched him but that what I did know was that he was an amazing lover and that the times I had been with him were hot and awesome and that he certainly knew what he was doing to please a woman.

After that night we saw each other weekly, of course like many other things COVID stopped me from working and so it was months before I got to see him again, but one thing that happened for both of us with COVID was that we had move and it turned out we moved into the same apartment complex and we started seeing each other at the gym, the pool, the café and because I knew he was married, I was extremely careful not to talk to him, but there were times when i just wanted to reach out and touch him or whisper in his ear to come and f**k me.

And every time I have seen him, it seems his marriage has gotten worse, but I have enjoyed having him knock on my door early in the mornings on his way to work or to the gym and having him f**k me.

Each time enjoying his fantasy of having a woman open the door and taking her to bed fully clothed and pulling her underwear off and passionately f**cking her until they both orgasm tremendously.

And so we do that and Oh my GOD its amazing, he still always asks if he is a good f**k, because of his wife not being interested and then he asks if my orgasms are real and I look at him and tell him that they are 100% real.

There are weeks when I don't hear from him and like today I see him walk in to the apartment building and waiting for the lift with his wife and i am with a client and we give each other a quick glance and smile and then when he is leaving the lift another one and I secretly wish he is going to message and come for a visit.

Mmmmm, The life of a Escort. I always promised myself that I would keep private and work like separate and not get feelings for clients, I didn't realise how hard it would be, but oh boy, when someone is that good in bed, and you are a sex addict, you just want to see them all the time.

I would if I should approach the subject of Friends with Benefits.

Oh this is the life....