interview
Interviews with artists, performers, and industry personnel. Their stories, work, and what they have in store for you.
The Paradox of the Threshold
There is a distinct difference between an empty canvas and a force of nature. Most people who enter the lifestyle are looking for a neat, predictable exchange—a quiet checklist of rules, a structured script, and a partner who fits perfectly into a pre-cut mold without ever causing a ripple. They want a trophy to display or a passive reflection to validate their own position. But true authority isn't tested in the calm shallows; it is proven when it meets a current that refuses to be easily broken.
By Syl De'Vil16 days ago in Filthy
How to Talk About Your Desires Without Shame
This post is for both the men and the women who read it. Men are afraid to talk about their desires and fantasies because they are afraid that their girlfriend or wife will judge them or freak out some how. Women are afraid to talk about their desires and fantasies because they are afraid that their boyfriend or husband will either think less of her or he will possibly take it too far. The sad result is that everybody stays silent, despite both of them often having similar wants and desires. Sad all around, really.
By Timothy A Rowland3 months ago in Filthy
My First Threesome: A Personal Experience and Tips for Exploring Safely
Exploring your sexuality can be one of the most exciting—and slightly nerve-wracking—things you do in a relationship. For me, that exploration led to my first threesome: a hot, intense encounter with my long-term partner and a man we had just met at a sex club. While I went in curious and a little anxious, I walked away with more than just a sexual thrill. I learned a lot about communication, consent, and what it really means to enjoy a threesome in a healthy way.
By No One’s Daughterabout a year ago in Filthy
A Woman’s Response To My Article Further Shows Why Men Aren’t Honest With Them
I wrote a blog recently called “22 ‘Honest’ Thoughts Men Don’t Share With Their Women” where I shared a list of things men often think but choose to keep to themselves for the sake of their relationships.
By Olivia Chastityabout a year ago in Filthy
Dear Men: Do You Owe Your Partner Hotness? What Does She Owe You?
I was around 35 when I started to see frequent anonymous posts in the mom’s groups that sounded like… “My husband has checked out of how he looks and I am struggling. The weight in his belly and stamina loss also changed our sex life. He has a lot of back issues, gets winded easily and he’s started to slouch over from desk work I guess. Since he started working from home he’s also mostly in old t-shirts and cargo shorts. Sometimes I throw them out because the arm pits are stained. He’s lost his hair, which I think he feels bad about so he’s not really been open to going to a better hair dresser and he started avoiding getting his hair cut. What I feel so guilty about is that I notice myself checking out the men at work who dress well and work out some. I knew we would age. I know all men go bald at some point. I guess I didn’t think 40 would look like this for him — it feels like he has quit.
By Olivia Chastityabout a year ago in Filthy
Being a “Man-Hating Misandrist” Got Me the Best Relationship of My Life
When I started dating again, I didn’t realize that being single for so long had turned me into a “man-hating misandrist.” I was merely looking for a partner who could contribute something meaningful to my life.
By Olivia Chastityabout a year ago in Filthy
Sexual Repression and the American Dating Collapse: You Need An Intervention If You Think My Work Is Extreme
America is in a weird place right now. It feels like a country in the middle of a man’s really humiliating midlife crisis. We’ve overcorrected so hard in both directions — toward purity culture and toward digital hedonism — that most women I know feel like they’re either being cast in the Handmaid’s Tale or as online porn stars.
By Olivia Chastityabout a year ago in Filthy
