Do you remember the first time you had sex with your lover and actually communicated on the things you wanted in the bedroom that turn you on the most? Do you feel that sometimes you were shy and that you really can't express yourself, especially being a woman, and you find yourself locked inside your own head with self-doubt that perhaps your lover doesn't see you the same way and the connection between the both of you has gone stagnant? These are the questions I normally ask because there are times that I feel that I have lost the spark in my own relationship and I feel that sometimes communication can be at a standstill because both parties have such strong opinions. So when you find yourself in a slump, you want to bring the spark back into the relationship that you love and adore, you have to find different ways to be spontaneous. You have to find different ways to rekindle the connection that you had sexually with your lover and you have to be open and honest with that person to let them know that you love them deeply, but you have certain ideas or certain demands that you require. It is never wrong to tell your lover that you might want something new in the bedroom to spice up the relationship and to bring both of you together in a more deeper and loving manner. I find it hard to believe that people actually go through the situation that I have been in several different times. Communication is so important because so many wires get crossed and everybody wants to have a fucking titty-fit. So here are some things that can bring the spice back into your relationship. It something that I tried myself and it actually worked. Besides communication, here are some factors that may give you what you truly desire to bring the spark back into your relationship and bring the beast and freak out of both of you.

How to sex, like a hopeless romantic. Like a hornball with intense urges to—excuse my language—fuck any living thing. Let me rephrase: any living human...thing.

Sex is awesome! Except when it's not. Ever have someone go down on you and the whole time you are just thinking: please make it stop or please let this almost be over? I've been there. Here is a guide on how to have a more successful oral pleasure experience with your partner.

Search the internet for Nipple Orgasms, and you will come across a shitload of articles pertaining to women, and the awesome 8,000 ways that a woman can cum! If you just so happen to have a penis, you are shit out of luck when it comes to finding the same information about your nipples.

At this stage I have spent longer thinking up jokey titles for oral sex based stories rather than content, so please bear with me. There will be other parts of the body included but the theme is what you can do during foreplay or sex without hands or full sex either. It can be a challenge to try and get your partner to climax like this or at least to get very close. When you’re a male trying this on your female partner there are plenty of places to explore and to focus on. All women have more than the one g spot, more than most men think; in fact, they have more than some women realize. These spots and more besides can give an orgasm alone if approached right. I think there are 9g-spots, if anyone wants to check.

You know how it goes...when you first started your sex life out, it was fun, magical, and there was always something new that made your head spin. But life happens. Whether it's work, kids, a "headache," or boredom, sex can get mundane after a while. We lose that "teenage lust" that we all once had. We find ourselves so caught up on the to-do list of the day that we forget to appreciate and admire our partners sometimes. I'm not saying we should all act like teenagers and go at it like rabbits in mating season, but I do have a few tips on gaining some of that lust back.

Ah, the threesome. It's one of those sex acts that is often talked about, and rarely done in real life. Most guys assume that threesomes are something that are totally off the table when they're in a relationship, but that's not necessarily the case.

Shower sex

I've slept with a lot of people in my days, and I've noticed that there are a lot of issues with the way we deal with sex. Our society, as a whole, has really unhealthy attitudes and "knowledge" about sex. Today, I'm going to focus on the knowledge aspect of sex.

Anal sex — the final frontier. Though it's been a sexual practice for years, it's actually one of the most taboo sex acts left to broach in the heterosexual society. Part of the stigma, of course, is things going in the out door.

Recently, while pursuing through Facebook, I came across several articles focused mainly on the size of a man's penis; namely what constitutes as the average size.

Recently, I read an article about the difference between “smut” and “romance.” The main perceived differences were the length of the scene, the language used, and the frequency of sex scenes in a piece. I disagree a bit. I tend to write a little bit of both from time to time, but the main difference for me has been the author’s intent.