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To increase your and your partner's pleasure.

  • Filthy Staff
    Published 4 years ago
    Ways to Cuddle

    Ways to Cuddle

    In the course of a day, we are bombarded by fleeting bodily contacts with strangers and associates. It is no surprise that these random contacts can be highly stimulating. Society has developed a fairly permissive standard for looking, but touching is prohibited. Zoologist Desmond Morris made note of this in The Naked Ape: "Body-to-body contacts have… become such an important part of sexual behavior that these too have to be damped down during the ordinary daily routine. A ban has to be placed on physical contact with strangers in our busy, crowded communities."
  • Filthy Staff
    Published 4 years ago
    Porn Star Makeup Tips

    Porn Star Makeup Tips

    Porn star makeup is about looking stunning up close. It’s about looking flawless and dramatic while flaunting your over-the-top sexy side. While it's easy to think that porn stars naturally look like they do when we watch them, there's actually a good deal of effort that goes into getting ready for a shoot. Porn makeup takes a lot of prepping and skin deep secrets to help that makeup stay put all day and night long.
  • Filthy Staff
    Published 4 years ago
    How to Revive a Failing Relationship

    How to Revive a Failing Relationship

    Must an emotional cure always be a long job? When I'm asked this I generally answer that any basic personality change usually entails working your ass off at helping yourself over a period of time. Psychology and behavioral responses to conditioned activity play an important role in reviving failing relationships. Various experiments with clients are making me qualify this answer. They indicate that there are palliative methods which, if you employ them continually, tend to sink into your cognitive-emotive core and become curative—a permanent part of your behavioral pattern. In my book Rational Sensitivity: Self-fulfillment for Executives, I was able to give three such self-therapy techniques for calming the emotions. Here is how they work.
  • Bea Norton
    Published 4 years ago
    Flirting Tips for Women

    Flirting Tips for Women

    Have you ever been on a "sex audition"? Do you believe flirting is the same thing as texting? The science of flirting is maintaining a balance between attracting through engagement and never seeming too available. If you have ever practiced the "art of flirting," you know what I am talking about. When a woman purposely flirts with a man she is interested in, she tends to step into character, losing the sneaker-wearing-yoga-pant-loving version of herself and amping up the 6"-stiletto-no-panty-wearing edition. This sex goddess character is on a mission, a mission to be the funniest, wittiest, and most mysterious woman she can be. From long stares and batted eyelashes to the dropping of her napkin to show off her great ass, every woman has a different method to their enticing madness. As little girls, our mothers taught us to be ladies. Keep your legs crossed, never utter profanities, and never make the first move. As we have gotten older, we have learned that lots of fun happens when our legs are uncrossed and that all of the rules of being lady-like have changed. The rules are that there are no more rules.
  • James A. Brussel
    Published 4 years ago
    What Does Facial Hair Say About Your Sex Life?

    What Does Facial Hair Say About Your Sex Life?

    For over a century, anthropologists have worked to identify character traits and their specific relevance or relationship to facial hair. Throughout the world, it is a universal belief that a long, grey beard such as that of Gandalf the wise or Harry Potter’s Dumbledore, represents wisdom. But what does Magnum P.I.’s mustache mean? Does a goatee have meaning? And what did those small germanic mustaches actually represent? A study by Dr. James Brussel reveals a distinct connection between facial hair and sexuality. Beyond the intellectual exercise, Dr. Brussel explores unique sexual preferences that often correlate to your facial hair grooming habits.
  • Filthy Staff
    Published 4 years ago
    How to Use Butt Plugs

    How to Use Butt Plugs

    Butt plugs are the next big trend in adult toys. Although using a butt plug can sound intimidating, once you’ve learned how to use butt plugs correctly, many people find them to be stimulating enhancements to their sex lives. The anus is a highly erotic zone, and stimulating it before, during, or after sex can bring a new level of pleasure to men and women alike. Whether you want to enjoy a butt plug periodically during sex or want to rely on the filling sensation during masturbation you’ll find plenty of reasons to love playing with butt plugs. This guide which will help butt plug beginners gradually and safely adjust to anal penetration. Welcome to the world of backdoor pleasures!
  • Emily McCay
    Published 4 years ago
    How to Make a Sex Playlist

    How to Make a Sex Playlist

    Make sure you can still hear the safe word over the sounds of the stereo. When it comes to knocking boots, the perfect sex playlist can do wonders to stimulate you and your partner. However, making the perfect sex playlist can arouse some real problems. If the tempo is too slow, you’ll be left struggling to stay excited. Yet if the tempo is too upbeat, you’ll be stuck in a fast forward cowgirl position and before you know it, you’ll be finished before your first song is. Therefore, Filthy Gorgeous Media recommends songs that will vary in both tempo and lyrics in order to achieve the right level of satisfaction. Just be sure that you aren’t tempted to sing-a-long to the songs in your sex playlist. These songs are just meant to be background noise, or in some cases, to muffle the moans of pleasure. So whether you’re celebrating a special occasion, like Valentine’s Day, or just looking to change things up when you go to place your needle in her record groove, making a sex playlist will help!
  • Filthy Staff
    Published 4 years ago
    How to Give the Best Blow Job

    How to Give the Best Blow Job

    Giving the best blow jobs requires practice. Yet, I have been shocked to find out that many of my female friends refuse to indulge in oral sex. Therefore, I'd like to take this opportunity to tell our female readers that there is nothing more satisfying than knowing you have just given your man an astounding orgasm with your mouth. My boyfriend tells me that one of the best things about receiving oral sex is that he can just lie back, relax, and enjoy himself. He doesn't have to do any work, and he doesn't have to worry about whether he is pleasing me, or if he's going too fast or too slow. Fellatio is pure pleasure for the man, and when performed adequately, it can be more arousing than any aphrodisiac. My boyfriend tells me he decided to ask me to marry him when he realized he would never get a better blowjob than mine! Of course, what he doesn't realize is that fellatio can sometimes be used as a reward and other times as a bargaining tool. What's alarming is how many women say, "You want me to put what in my mouth?" Of course, women who read this probably don't have that kind of problem, but in case there are any wives or girlfriends out there who need a little coaching, I have some hints that I hope will be helpful. Be warned. I don't use any sexual innuendos. This how-to guide is straight to the point!