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SHE HAD THE BEST HEAD GAME.

Why is oral sex such a Taboo for some!

By Emmanuel AtunsiriPublished 4 years ago 6 min read
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Sex. It's a common subject but yet a Taboo! Everywhere you look it catches your attention. It don;t matter if you see a woman in a sexy dress, or see an advertisement, sex is always being used to catch your attention or sell a product. However, for this article we are not discussing wither it right or wrong, we are talking about Oral sex, that is right blowjobs.

Please don't take any offence. I am writing from a Male Heterosexual perspective and some personal experience. Anyway, back to the topic. My first oral sex experience was when I was 16 years old She was older than me but by only a year. I knew what it was through my curiosity of porn while I was going through the stages of Puberty but it was something I was always scared of. The thought of my thing going in any woman's mouth was an idea I was not entertaining. The reason I believe I thought that way was because I grew up in a very Christian household. So where other children were learning the basics of life and nature I was very far behind, not knowing what a lot of things were and that put me in the center for bullies and peer pressure to experience new things. My first experience was a little strange. I did not enjoy it much! It felt odd. After about 2 minutes I was like, its ok, lets do it the right way. Right way! Hmmm. My next experience would breath some new light on this thing called oral sex.

I later got into a relationship for shortly after 18 and it was one of those cute relationships. She was my girlfriend. And she open the door to a whole new experience of Oral Sex. She used to take it upon herself to give me that treatment for at least 15 minutes. And she was passionate with it! She would start slow, tease then speed up, then go hard til the climax. And she swallowed too! Crazy. But I did not care, she was a sweetheart and I was hers. The reason I relayed this experience is when you are in a relationship or even marriage Oral sex should not be an issue unless the other person personally has a dislike for it. I mean even if it was the the person they most sexually or physically desired, they still would not give them a blow job. If she would still give him a blow job then I have bad news for you player! She don't want to pleasure you. As simple as that!

Some women feel pressured into Oral sex and my advice if its not for you then it is not for you. Sex should be a neutral area where both consenting adults want to engage in intimacy and uphold privacy. Plus I will be honest, Oral sex from someone who is not interested or not good at it is a no, no, no! She might think she is exciting you but trust me I have had to say "No" just to save the moment!

Another thing I have noticed about Oral sex is it tends to disappear towards the end of a relationship. I wont go into this subject too much because I would just be hypothesizing and speaking for all. But if your woman reduces your oral sex treatment or stops... Boy your in trouble.

It works both ways too. Just before I split up from an engagement the oral sex started to fizzle out of the relationship. It became clear Oral sex was not her thing. However, she did not mind receiving it. This started to become of an issue because only one person was being satisfied and I do not think I could go through my entire life without dabbling into oral sex from time to time. It would be a bit frustrating giving it and not receiving it. I did not have to entertain that for long as she had other agendas and the relationship soon came to an end. I am not saying Oral sex was the issue but it sure did raise a few questions as to the dynamics of the relationship.

Now the best head game I ever received was from a girlfriend who although mischievous always had my back. This was a relationship and I guess for a time we were really into each other. I wont set the scene and start describing the whole experience in detail but I will talk in a way you will get the jist!

She literally took control of me pushing me onto the bead so I was lying on my back but my feet were touching the floor. She then took me and done as she pleased. So much so I could feel the inside of my thighs and the sheets wet from her saliva. She even played with the balls too! I mean took one, almost swallowed it while looking at me the whole time. I did not know what to do. I tried to sit up but she would then push me back down.

Let me tell you a guys state of mind during this experience. My face was like I cant believe this happening! Eyes rolling back, I couldn't breath properly. I enjoyed the experience so much but it got so bad I could not breath. I could feel my lungs tightening, my heart thumping out of my chest. And while all this was happening she was forcing me down. I eventually broke free and rushed to the window. I opened it and started gulping large amounts of air. I looked back at her, she just smiled. It was not any ordinary smile. It was that smile like I got you! You mess about with me and I will kill you with kindness. A super Blowjob.

It was a crazy experience. It took me 15 minutes to get my heart, lungs and body back to normal. And I did it away from her. She tried to go for round 2 and I said "Hell No". Your dangerous. I have never experienced anything like that and please next time warn me. It was a hazard according to my pleasure scale. For the rest of that day we did not do anything. I would just stare at her in amazement. She would just giggle. I asked her what made her go all out! Her reply was - "If I want to please you is it a crime".

She had a point. Years had past and due to life circumstances we drifted apart. Almost 10 years has gone by and I will never forget her. She showed me what a Oral sex was all about. She showed me the light!

I guess the message I am getting across is "Oral Sex" should be done between 2 consenting adults. This means both want to engage and not feel pressured. The other is the best Oral sex you can receive is not only by the woman who has the hots for you, but even more so from the woman that loves you.

There is only 1 woman who will have such a lasting impact on my oral sexual experience and she had the best head game!

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