Pussy Target: The Downside of Being Fucking Gorgeous

Young women learn quickly that boys buzz around like flies or mosquitoes, when a nice set of boobs enters the room, especially with a gorgeous face riding high above them. Even in conservative settings, beauty is noticed and catered to, or frowned upon and hated. This speaks to our honest human need for beauty, but also shows we often handle it badly. Very badly. We simply do not know how to respond to drop-dead gorgeous men or women. Physical beauty holds an almost mythical status in our culture.

We want it. We dread it. We love it. We hate it. We can't make up our minds what to do with it, even when we know we can make money from it. The owners of gorgeous faces and bodies often get nervous. At times, they want to attract no attention at all. They just wish to be left alone, and treated like normal humans. Or, in reverse, some want ALL the attention, all the time, and suck the air out of any room. Those personalities are always on stage, putting on a scripted or spontaneous theater act, for money, for vanity, or just to keep from being bored to tears.

Drop-dead gorgeous people appreciate their good looks. They accurately assess what is in the mirror, and really like it. It can be difficult acknowledging the physical fact of one's own beauty, without being conceited, without sounding self-aggrandizing. Ugly people might brag about their piles of cash, or boats, or houses, or cars, or clever business deals. Hot people might brag about their abs and asses, perfect lips, tits or noses. A friend might say to me, “Damn, I got a great ass!” And I can only agree, “Yes, honey, you own one of the best asses I have ever seen.” But my friend worries, her ass might start to sag, or blimp-out as she gets older. She spends time at the gym, specifically to keep that perfect ass perfect. Ugly people don't worry so much about their asses, or even think about their asses at all.

Drop-dead gorgeous people can be underestimated, as if beauty was the only thing they had going. As if their intelligence, talent or creative thinking was automatically impaired, or genetically retarded, simply because they look so fucking hot. Average-looking people often make this mistake. And, it is still provable by social science, beautiful women in science, medicine and technology jobs are passed over in hiring, even when they are as qualified as average-looking people. Beauty becomes a handicap, a distraction, causing tangible harm to one's career. Some HR departments assume, a hot girl is trouble. She will be disruptive to the cause of making money, a distraction in the work-place.

Then there is jealousy. We may hold a false assumption, the fucking hot woman or man is happier than we mere mortals. The beautiful smile makes us believe the person inside, the owner of the smile is happier more often than we are, has more opportunities than we do, and by virtue of their exquisite DNA will have more beautiful children than we will ever have. We imagine the hot ones have an easier time getting what they want. And some of them do, if they work it. If they use our bizarre cultural mythology of beauty to their advantage. Some very smart women can do this, without demeaning anyone around them. Trailer trash girls, who are just as gorgeous as the smart women, never fully develop such skills. They might fuck any man who owns a truck. Because a truck is useful. And men a can often be controlled by a flash of fine tits or a good blow-job.