I Want To Be Hard Inside You

If statistics are accurate, the national estimate of virginity in Japan is one in 10 adults in their 30s remains a virgin. Japan has an increasing percentage of young adults with no history of heterosexual vaginal intercourse. In 2015, the numbers jumped to 11.9 percent of women and 12.7 percent of men. The math says this is tens of thousands of people.

Not that virginity is awful. It is only awful when it becomes the only option. Japan is not the only place with this problem. USA, South Korea, China, Finland, UK, Germany and even France. The social and economic pressures in many 21st Century civilized nations is so great, most young people do not have time or energy to form any kind of relationships with other people-- except work relationships. This means millions of boys beat-off to porn and millions of girls own handy vibrators, and the porn and prostitution businesses serve as pathetic substitutes for love and sex between millions of thousands of young humans. Having actual loving relationships, lasting relationships, becomes a fantasy of previous generations, unattainable for millions of people in the 21st Century. I find these facts unbearably sad.

As an older man, who had limited sexual action in my 20s, 30s, and 40s, I know about shyness and economic pressure. Now I have plenty of cash, and no social pressures, and four or five beautiful women available for cheerful, friendly sex, whenever I feel the need. I have developed a mature view of human civilization. Our civilization starts to enslave us. Rather than, we the people, the working majority, building a civilization which makes everyone's life better. We need a civilization which has plenty of time and space and energy for actual loving relationships. Modern economic pressure alone can sink millions of young people in oceans of debt. There is no way to have a happy sex life when one cannot pay the rent, buy food and pay the cell phone bill. Love is a nice idea, but literally not possible.

Both the porn and the prostitution businesses are entirely aware of their place of power in our civilization. Both industries make billions of dollars each year from the shyness and general unhappiness of millions of people. They serve a need, just as plumbers keep the toilets working. I have no problem with men and women making money any way they can, including porn and prostitution.

I do have a problem with humanity cutting-off its balls, creating psychological and economic hells for millions of people, just so a handful of people can get very wealthy. The root cause of most unhappiness is economic slavery. The root cause is the pressure to make money, and make more money, and spend most of ones life in that one pursuit. There are never enough good job, jobs which allow a person time to work, to sleep and to joyfully fuck someone they honestly love. Our leaders of government and business are trying to keep the lights turned on, and make sure the wealthiest people stay wealthy, and that leaves little time for philosophic thought about what our civilization could be, should be and can be. Namely, a civilization without economic slaves. For that to happen, people have to invent new ways of running businesses, and new ways of running governments.

I never hear anyone talk about these things on CNN, FOX or any major or minor sources of news. Joyful heterosexual fucking for the men and women of Japan relies on philosophers thinking-up better ways of running human societies. The Chinese Communist Party, the Senate and House of the United States of America are never going to invent those better ways of running human societies. Truthfully, they could care less. Who will invent those better ways? You and me. We. We, the hundreds of millions of people who do not wish to be economic slaves, and really, really want a good heterosexual vaginal fuck now and then.