Hair to Ass Bondage Play for Her

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Hair to Ass Bondage Play for Her
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For Those Who Like Bondage Play

If you have a woman (or you are a woman) who likes the kinky rough stuff, and a little bondage play; this idea is for you! I call it hair to ass bondage play for her. This works best when the woman has hair that is at least, a little long. Maybe at least shoulder length, but preferably much longer. Having said that; as long as you have hair on your head it can be done. It's easy to explain and set up, so I'll get to it.

How to Do Hair to Ass Bondage Play

Using an anal bondage hook, which you can purchase online; first, bind one end of rope or strong material to the hook's ring. Second, the woman must get into a doggystyle position and lean her head back. Be sure that the woman does not lean back too far; resulting in danger to her airway or neck muscles. Now, tie the other end of the rope or material around the bottom portion of the woman’s hair; at least three or more inches above the very end of the hair. Make it tight enough to keep her hair pulled. There shouldn't be any give or slack between the hook and her hair.

Time for Rough Yet Safe Intercourse

It is always best to enter a woman slowly at first; giving her body time to adjust and adapt to the man. When playing this way; this becomes even more important and should be done at a speed the woman is comfortable with and does not cause any pain or extreme discomfort. Keep in mind; as the man enters, the woman will not be filled in both holes, with only a little amount of anatomy between “intruders.” Aside from this fact, it is also worth considering that the man will likely be able to feel the metal ball and rod from the anal toy as well. This experience may be more of a physical shock and adjustment for both people involved than either anticipated.

Once both partners are ready and as you begin to have sex in doggystyle, or with the woman on her side; the toy and rope or material setup will make it so that any movement of her ass will pull her hair, and any movement of her head will pull the anal toy further and harder inside.

Needless to say (but I will anyway); you need to be careful when trying this idea. However; once you have gotten the safety and details figured out, it can prove to be a lot of fun for that special freak inside you both.

Tips and Cautions to Remember

The man can give a little extra punishing thrill by lightly pushing the woman’s head down a bit, so that the toy moves. Remember to make this “push” more of a very slight and gentle nudge; for safety. Like any other part of the human body, the anus can and will get damaged if you don’t use caution. On the other side, literally, you also don’t want to rip any of the woman’s hair out. If the woman wants this little jolt of thrill; she need only lean her head down a touch. The same can also be achieved by the woman lowering her ass; or the man pushing down on her ass in the doggystyle position. This will likely pull the toy up and tug at her hair at the same time.

Since the woman’s head will be leaned back, this will cause her chest to be pushed forward. Be sure to take advantage of this and give her breasts the attention they likely crave. Worth noting is that not all women like their breasts to played with, so be sure the man is aware of the woman’s preferences in terms of breast play.

Another safety tip is for the man not to grab or hold on to the rope or material during sex. If you grab or hold on to the material; you may unintentionally pull it in either direction; causing a great deal of pain, instead of pleasure. Nobody wants that. If you are perhaps thinking that a little pain is not a bad thing in this situation, keep in mind; this mistake could also cause a great deal of damage as well. The damage caused may very well be permanent. If you break it; you can’t play with it.

After the Fun

When the fun is over, or you are ready to move on to another way to play; be sure that you untie the woman’s hair first. The hair will give and will be easier to undo without causing harm. It is often a good idea to let the woman remove the anal toy after her hair is set free. This allows her to react accordingly and quickly to discomfort or issues as the toy is being removed. If you want to argue that taking this precaution is less kinky or erotic; well, there is nothing kinky or erotic about bleeding from the asshole. Agreed?

Many will find this a little gross, but it is also realty; so, it needs to be considered as well. After the fun, if you plan to move on to another way to play that is not anal; allow the woman time to clean the lubrication from her backside. This momentary moment will safe you both a lot of messy interference later. Also consider that this will safe your sheets from a mess you may rather not have to clean off of them. These two things are optional, of course, but they are a good idea that you may want to consider.

Well, that is all for this one. Have fun but do so safely. Be sure that you practice this with someone you fully trust. Many do not realize the amount of trust that goes into this act, but be assured; it requires a lot of trust and mutual respect to pull this off and have fun with it. So; have fun. Stay safe. Thank you for reading.

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Timothy A Rowland
Timothy A Rowland
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Timothy A Rowland

I’m an every day human Xennial living in the Southeastern United States. I have many interest. I just want to improve your life and maybe entertain you.

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