Your Parents Are Your First True Love

Our Parents are Our first true love. They are the armor that protects us in our childhood. they are the caregivers who take care of us, they are the advisors who advise and guide us in our adulthood, but at the same time, they are cute and lovely human beings who wish for nothing but the happiness of their child. As their child, it's our responsibility to provide them with all the respect, happiness, and peace they deserve.

Your parents love you, that's why they care for you so much. They are the only persons who care for you in this selfish world. Your parents care for you, they sacrifice for you, they bring you the things they can't afford, and they thrive to give you the best life. And I really believe that we all will make our parents proud one day. We will make heaven for them on the earth. We'll provide them with a life full of comfort, peace, and joy because they deserve it. They have done a lot for us, and it's time for us to free them from the burden of responsibilities, from the tension of our future. So, let's make them proud.

How did they teach you things?

Remember the time when you were a kid, your parents taught you how to walk, how to ride a bicycle, or many how-to's. They had answers to your every question, even if you ask the same question 20 times, their answer was always the same, they answer with the same love, and politeness without getting frustrated. So, the point here is that we should not forgive these things, as when our parents grow old, they often ask us about some things again and again but we should talk to them with a polite tone, and love. Instead of getting frustrated, we should treat them with proper love and care.

They may get frustrated with you sometimes, they may overcare for you sometimes, they may keep you from struggling hard, and they may ask you for living a comfortable life with lesser risk. But look, sweetie, we are their good child, and we can ask for their favor with patience and love because ultimately it's a family that always stands beside you. If you've begun anything new or different that they don't like, ask for their support by showing them the proofs. Why tell them about it? Why not play on our own first, get successful, and then boom... make them happy? I promise they'll love you for it.

How do they get you things that you always wanted?

Ever wondered about the number of sacrifices they had to make for you. I know you may ask like - (who'd asked them to sacrifice this much for me). Sweetheart, it's their love for you, that makes them sacrifice this much for you. They want you to get all the things they didn't get because of the lack of finances, and facilities at their time. I remembered an incident when I ask my father to purchase me a cricket kit, bicycle, new phone, and many things. He may have rejected my pleas earlier but ultimately he always brings me all those things by canceling his plans, his purchases, and by making sacrifices in his own life.

A father wears unbranded and torn clothes so that his children could wear good branded clothes. He strives to save bucks so that his children could study in good schools and college. I don't know about you, but my parents did. And it's my utmost responsibility to shower them with all the peace and happiness in the world. and you know what? I will. and I know, you will too.

Your Mom's Love

Your mom always senses if you're in trouble. She senses if you're under stress, she senses if you had a hard day. She has magic in his blessings that always protect us. She believes in me when no one does, sometimes when nothing goes as planned, or things got messed up, I looked up to her for guidance. In times of uncertainty, she guides me, she prays for me. That woman can't sleep seeing her child under stress or some sickness. that's the love of a mother. Maybe sometimes she taunts, may sometimes she say nothing or she says that figure it all on your own. But deep down in her eyes, we can see her genuine love. She always prays for the well-being of her child. She sacrifices a lot for her child, even she gives her part of the food to her child so that he/she could eat well and live a healthy life. mother sacrificed so much for their child, that it can't even be described in the words. She sleeps on the floor so that his child could sleep on the bed, she eats less, so that her child could eat well. She woke up early so that she could make food for his family, and she make home heaven.

"Thank you so much mom for always being available to me, for always understanding me, for always loving me. I just wanted to mention that you're my greatest inspiration, and my goal in life is to make you proud of me. And to shower you with all the love, peace, and happiness. I love you, mom."

What do they hide?

Parents keep their troubles, their emotions, and practically anything that can cause us stress hidden from us. They are the only ones who cry and grieve. Sometimes the reason for their suffering could be us. They didn't tell us, however, since they knew it would make us upset. (Of course, Indian parents are like this.) It's because of their unwavering devotion to us. They have to fight their conflicts on their own. But we can sense their pain; we may even see them restraining their tears in front of us, or perhaps they simply cry out, just weep out in front of us. (They are allowed to cry since they are humans). So, instead of feeling sad, be their support system, make them smile, and be the reason for their happiness.

And

"Strive diligently for the success that brings them the tears of joy"

Your parents have always looked after you; now it's your turn to look after them. They didn't abandon you; they were always there for you when you were a child, teaching you things and sacrificing their own happiness to keep you happy. As a result, never abandon your parents when they are elderly; care for them, send them on vacations, and allow them to travel with their friends. Allow them to experience the joys of life. Teach them to appreciate themselves and to live life to its best potential.

We'll be thrilled if they show themselves the same love and care that they show us, isn't it??

Tell them you love them

To be honest, there are moments when we can't control ourselves and think things like, "What ridiculous things are this old man doing, he taught me this and that." And I'm not sure why he's behaving so naive. And as a result, we wind up having difficult talks with them, disrespecting them, and saying things to them that we shouldn't have said. Then we feel bad about the incident that occurred. But, I believe it is a part of the loving bond between these two generations, (just remember that these things should not happen often). I believe it is acceptable to have such situations sometimes. It doesn't define how much we love them; hug them instead of saying sorry, and tell them you love them; it strengthens your relationship. Make them happy. Make them proud.

Hug your parents today. It will feel like you need nothing but this to get rid of all the tension in your life or to get rid of all the misery and burden you've been carrying for so long. It works, believe me.

And...

"Never forget the hands that raised you".