Who brings up smarter children?

In most of our families, who takes care of the children more after they are born? Mothers or grandparents, grandparents are probably the majority. Children need the company of their parents, mothers may be able to do housewives for the sake of their children, but fathers at home with children less, because generally fathers are the main financial resources of the family, and need to go out to work to earn money to support the family.

So who brings up the child at home is smarter in the future? The fact is this person at home with a child, even the mother should stand aside

In many families, mothers will worry about whether the father with children is reliable. The author would like to say that your concern may be more than necessary.

The famous psychologist Gerdie said, "The presence of a father is a unique presence and has a special power to nurture children."

A father's regular presence with his child has a very positive impact on his child's verbal skills, mental cognitive skills, and social behavioral skills. Dads who usually seem careless have a lot of benefits when they bring up their children.

Dad's company is beneficial to the development of the child's language skills.

A mother with a child will ask every twenty minutes, "Are you thirsty? Are you cold?" Dad with a child, the child shouts, "Dad, Dad, I want some water." Dad: "Then you go find your cup of water!"

Mom and child always have a heart, sometimes a child's eyes, the mother will know what the child wants to do, so the child saves a lot of words, so more often than not, the child and the mother together, the mother is always talking non-stop, the child is there to listen.

Dads are different. Dads with kids are one of the most unreliable things in the world. If the child does not express it, the dad never knows what you want. The child is chasing after and shouting, "Daddy, Daddy ......", and not always getting a response from him. Therefore, dads with children are more likely to stimulate the child's desire to express himself.

Dad accompanies more, the child is more independent.

There is a saying, "It's good for a dad to bring up a child and live." This does speak to the current situation of many dads with children. Dads are not all that hardworking, so dads with kids are not as well taken care of as moms are. For example, dads take their children to eat and let them grab whatever they want, although the dining table is messed up, it is a good exercise for the child's independence.

Dads are more nervous, and their carelessness is precisely part of what children need to grow up. So, mothers do not always uneasy dad with children, let children and dads get along more, and children can learn a lot of skills.

Compared to the mom's thoughtful care, the dad takes the child to let him stand on his own, the child is exercised in many ways. The child's own hands more, for the child's behavioral skills exercise, for the child's physical coordination exercise can achieve very good results.

The father accompanies the child more, the child has a bigger picture and sees things from a greater distance.

There is a child and mom and dad together after dinner walk, they saw several beggars on the roadside begging. The child said, "Mom, why don't they go home for dinner?" Mom said, "They don't have a home, you have to study hard, or you will be like them when you grow up."

The father, however, said to the child, "You have to study hard so that when you grow up and become a useful person in the future, you can find jobs and build houses for these people and help many, many people."

Men and women do see things a little differently. Some children are young, but he does things with a plan, analyzes problems with foresight, have a clear purpose, and does things with principles. A person's pattern determines how far he can go, and the father is the leader of the child's pattern and vision. That's why dads are always with their children, which is good for them to have ambitious ideals and work hard for their ideals.

Dads are more creative when they are with their children.

When we were young, our dad took us to climb trees, and our mom would criticize us very angrily every time she saw the holes in our clothes. However, Dad would still often take us to play such exciting games, and we were happy to do so. Dad himself is an adventurer, he likes to take the children to play some more adventurous and exciting games, such as climbing, cycling, racing, adventure, etc. Such sporty games have a very good effect on the development of the child's body.

Moreover, the spirit of liking adventure is also the best quality for the child's future learning path, which turns the child's curiosity into an exploration that is put into action and gives the child more opportunities to explore and create and learn.

Dads are the creators, the guardians, and the closest partners of their children on the way to grow up, and the excellence of children brought up by dads is more obvious