What kind of woman can hold a man?

Some people say that women who can hold men have great wisdom, I think so.

I know some girls, they are not very old but the pattern is very big, gentle character but strong inside, to themselves enough ruthless, to the feelings of the steady, no matter what kind of men encountered, can be properly pinched.

Pinch men are not like many people think, must occupy a high position in the relationship, and play the man around, that is the female sea king of the practice, we ordinary women want to be able to maintain our happiness, even if the wrong person, but also to stop in time.

So, we also just need to learn these can be very happy in the relationship, no matter what kind of things encountered are clear goals, no matter what kind of people encountered can protect their ability.

Lower the goal a little, is not that difficult to feel? So how to become such a woman? I analyzed the 10 traits they share, please come to taste, I hope you can also easily pinch, happy and happy.

Sweet-talking heart hard

Smart women, ah, sweet mouth, heart to be ruthless, because this can show their female advantage, but also will not be easily pinched by men.

I have seen a lot of women who can talk, they do not give people the feeling of false, but also always have to make people very comfortable. This is because they accurately pinpoint human naturSaye, and know what to say in the face of what people, especially know what men want to hear.

Saying a few nice words nothing, mouth to win is not win, want to pinch men, we must learn to show weakness, so you can get twice the result with half the effort.

pattern is big enough

We often say, to be a woman who can carry clear, because many things in real life will not develop according to our ideas, if you are always entangled in some boring people and things, it will never be possible to get real happiness.

And to be clear, we must improve their pattern, when you go to a higher place and then look down, once you are tangled things will no longer tangle, once let you are angry things will not become your worries.

Think about it, if you are not very angry with the man, you are not able to get along with him more easily and comfortably. Then the initiative of love will naturally be in your hands.

Very self-love

The woman who loves herself is the most lovely because you love herself enough, you do not need to find security from the man, this low demand, is the most attractive place for men.

You have to know that men are natural hunters, they like the feeling of conquest, so if you always "deliver", in the rush to pay for each other, then men are naturally not interested.

It is better to love yourself, in your world, so that love and not love is your say, naturally, you will be able to better control happiness.

Powerful

Women who can make money have a fatal attraction, because they can always plan, and even give men some help, so that the woman, will be able to hold all types of men.

Therefore, I often say, if a woman can not meet a good relationship, why not go to work first, when you are strong enough, a variety of good men to choose from?

Of course, even if you do not meet the right feelings, you have become a female boss, and become a winner in life, so why not do it?

Emotional stability

I have seen a lot of women who can hold men, they have no emotions, and always look sunny and optimistic, but no one can see what she is thinking.

You need to know that hysterical and each other arguing can not solve the problem, always crying and fussing will only make your relationship worse and worse, to be an emotionally stable adult, trying to find a solution to the problem, is what a smart woman should do.

Just remember, the highest level of punishment is silence, the most reserved ambition is to ignore, as long as you are strong enough, the other side will love you more.

Self-reliance and self-improvement

When you do not think about relying on others, no one can pinch you, when you can give yourself a sense of security later, you can easily pinch feelings.

Women, most of them lose in insecurity, always want to prove that the other party loves them, so constantly pay, and even try.

But people who do not love you will not because of your weakness and dependence on you more love, people who love you also want to see you self-reliance and self-improvement, every woman should understand this truth, for their efforts.

Gentleness has a degree

Men like gentlewomen, there is no doubt about it, but your tenderness must be measured, just like your kindness must have claws and teeth. Because of this others can not bully you, but also because you are too gentle and despise you.

I think many women have a misconception that women are powerful and must be indifferent, but you go look at those women who are comfortable in their relationships, most of them are as gentle as water on the outside and sharp as a knife on the inside.

You ah, to be smart up, so that others can not understand you, but also let others want to love you hard.

Have a sense of boundaries

I know a girl, who looks beautiful, very good body, and belongs to where there are a bunch of men chasing the kind. But she rarely agrees to men's invitations but is also determined not to get too close to those men who have a significant other.

Such she attracted a lot of good men. Imagine, who does not love a woman who is beautiful and has principles? But she also never lost herself in the relationship, especially knowing when they should do what, so she, by many men in the sky, also became the happiest woman in the group of friends.

She made me understand that smart women have a sense of boundaries, they do not want everything, especially know how to refuse, so they also get more. So, to be a smart woman, and keep their bottom line principles, you can make men rushed, but also will not be arbitrarily pinched.

Good understanding

Women, ah, to be gentle as water, to be understanding, because this is our advantage. I especially like those women who can always consider the problem from the perspective of others, so they will know what others want, but also to provide others with good emotional value.

Emotional value is very important in human relationships, the reason you like to get along with someone is that the other person can make you feel happy and comfortable, and she provides you with this kind of thing that makes you want to stop, which is the emotional value.

Don't be too selfish and improve your empathy more, it's a sure way to become a strong woman.

Cold and bold

Feelings this thing is very simple, you pay too much naturally easy to sink, keep calm and sensible will be able to strategize.

I always say that women have to work hard, so you know why you have to work hard? It is to give yourself more freedom of choice so that you can keep your sanity and calm.

It is not difficult to pinpoint feelings, as long as you are calm enough, sensible, and, transparent. And wanting to have such qualities is not difficult, as long as you have been working hard to improve yourself, no problem.

I like the high emotional intelligence of women, I believe that everyone also hopes that they can become such a woman, not necessarily just to hold the man, the most important thing is to control the initiative in life.

The fact is that you will be able to get a lot more than just a few of these.