What is marriage? This is marriage!

What is home? Home is jointly operated by husband and wife, weaving dreams and bitter, hot, sour and sweet nest. Home is not a simple concept, home is not a house, is not a color TV, is not a refrigerator, is not the space of material piling up. Families need loving relatives. Need that special feeling, two people care about each other is home.

How to deal with the relationship between husband and wife, this is the most critical issue in the home. Is the so-called: "one hundred years to repair the same boat, one thousand years to repair a total pillow." So how can husband and wife get along to make the family harmonious?

Husband and wife are like two legs, to stand firm, to walk, who also cannot leave who, why one leg is always complaining about the other leg. When couples say they have been married for decades without conflict or disagreement, it is safe to say that at least one of them is not responsible for the family or cares about the other.

Marriage is like making tea, the first tea like love, strong fragrant incense; The second tea is like a newlywed, fresh and pleasant; The third tea is like the marriage just after the secret month or secret year, plain as water, we need to taste with a common heart, in order to appreciate the true interest.

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Qian Zhongshu said, "A family is a golden cage. The birds outside the cage want to live in it, and the birds inside the cage want to fly out."

Man is philosophy, woman is poetry. Philosophy without poetry is dull, and poetry without philosophy is shallow. Philosophy is rational and poetry is perceptual. If a man wants to understand poetry, he must first understand his philosophy.

If a woman wants to understand philosophy, she must first understand her poem. The deep philosophy can only be resonated with poems with appropriate flavor. Therefore, the best is not necessarily suitable for you, but the best is suitable for you.

All say the wife is somebody else good, in fact the foot big shoes small all know, love wife also love person, mixed with water fake wine, is water or wine, love husband also love person, only happy starting point, no happy end, good man too much, not with husband than, good woman too much, not with wife than, that is dangerous.

Lin Yutang said: "Women are water, mixed with wine is wine, mixed with vinegar is vinegar." A woman's worth depends on her man. Don't say a woman can not leave a man, a man needs a woman more, a man can not live without a woman, a woman can not live without a man.

Men express love through sex, women understand love through sex, sexual harmony is the fertile soil of husband and wife harmony, poverty is not equal to no warm home, a good husband cherishes his wife's tender feelings, caring for the weak household hardships, only control do not understand love, not a good husband.

Virtuous wife is the most precious family wealth, virtuous woman is first wise, then virtuous, foolish woman to virtuous for the disadvantage, wise woman to her husband's face smear gold, foolish woman to her husband's face smear, the wife despise her husband is the most profound tragedy of the family.

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The ideal relationship is close, and take appropriate alienation, honesty to keep some secret, in the two feelings can be Qian Juan, and heaven and earth.

If the husband and wife can treat each other as their best friends, then, two people's hands will hold very tight. The most important thing to love a person may not be vows of love and sweet words, some trifles in life, more can reflect his love for you, that is the password of love.

In a happy marriage, everyone should respect each other's interests and hobbies. To think that two people can have the same thoughts, the same judgments, the same desires, is the most absurd idea.

In a happy family, there is at least one "fool" in every couple. Husband AND wife are like strings ON the SAME string. They vibrate in harmony to the same melody, but they are independent of each other.

The quarrels of young couples are the entanglements of love, but the quarrels of old couples are depressing.

The husband is half responsible for his wife's infidelity. A wife is half responsible for her husband's infidelity. If the other side is forced to flee, the responsibility is greater. A qualified wife should make her husband a creator of social wealth through her own efforts.

In real life, a good man may not marry a good woman, a good woman may not marry a good man, and a good woman and a good man may not be happy together. There are thousands of people, the world has a hundred states, each person's personality, taste, quality are different, husband and wife get along with the way is different, one hundred couples have one hundred ways to get along.

Marriage is like a table, love is the staple food, tolerance, understanding, trust, respect, is a dish, appreciation, humor, is the wine and drinks, I only have a combination of the above several varieties of, only I was perfect, I wish everyone in marriage on the table, eat at ease, eat poised, eat forever, until the last breath of life.