What does a calculating person look like?

When it comes to calculation, we think of mathematics, arithmetic problems, accounting, product costs and profits, economic revenues, asset planning, and financial management ......

There is no doubt that any one of us can calculate, even a person without higher education, even if he does not know many words, can calculate, at least he can know how much money he has in his hands, at least he knows how much he spent when he bought something, how much others should find him, at least he knows how much he earns and how much he spends a day when he does business, which is the most This is the closest kind of calculation to life.

Then, for calculation, the feeling that calculation brings to each of us is quantifiable, and there is an implicit sense of security.

In contrast, if these two words are reversed, if "calculate" becomes "calculate", the feeling brought to us is a world of difference.

Relatively speaking, "calculate" brings us a more obvious sense of insecurity than "calculate", to put it more clearly, the word "calculate" is calculated income and expenses, is to make us The word "calculate" calculates the income and expenses, to make us more organized live, while the word "calculate" calculates the hearts and minds, more often than not, will break the "calculate" to bring us that organized life, so "calculate The word "calculate" will bring us a certain sense of insecurity.

We all don't like to be calculated, we don't like to get along with people who like to calculate others, and we don't like to live in the calculation, but, very often, we can't avoid meeting people who are "calculating", so, what is a calculating person like?

Everything has its advantages and disadvantages, and there is the good and bad side, calculating people are no exception, some people are calculating to calculate others, for their benefit, some people are calculating, to prevent being calculated by others, and of course, there are people who are calculating, to achieve a friendly relationship with others, and cooperation and win-win.

As for the first type of people, that is, people who calculate others, in daily life, we often use a word to describe this type of people, that is, "a stomach of bad water".

For example, some people deliberately put nails or obstacles in front of their own homes to prevent other people's cars from passing through their doors.

For example, some people, because they hold a grudge against someone, deliberately vandalize someone's car or other personal belongings, eventually leading to injuries or accidents.

As for the second type of people, that is, the "calculating" self-preservation people, these people generally do not have any bad intentions, usually, a "harm to others can not have, the heart of the defense can not be free" mentality.

This kind of person is in the process of getting along with people, the specific performance is thoughtful, the eyes of the heart, although they will not be easy to calculate with others, more easily be calculated by others.

Their most obvious behavior performance is not easy to trust others, showing more rational and smooth.

As for the third category of people, that is, to reach friendly cooperation with others, to achieve a win-win situation, and "calculating" people, these types of people are generally mainly businessmen.

Then, the behavior of these people is mostly, can observe the details others did not observe, can see others did not see the point of interest, calm, special attention to detail, habitual in the details of the "bite".

Of course, their "calculating" is benign, for the future of the two sides can be better, more sustainable cooperation, to achieve a more reasonable balance of interests of both sides.

In short, calculating people, there are good and bad, but no matter what, human nature is selfish, no one calculating people will completely not consider their interests, even if he showed how selfless, there will be no exception, the difference is "whether he will let others feel comfortable.

What is a calculating person like? Calculating people are thoughtful, they pay more attention to the long-term benefits of the future, rather than just looking at the interests or benefits of the moment.

Of course, if a mountain is higher than a mountain high, then calculating people, there are more astute than him, the rational calculation to the head, and ultimately can usher in the opportunity to turn from the sincerity of the emotional.

Therefore, for people, we need to retain the only kind of calculating, which is "the heart of harm can not have, the heart of prevention can not be absent", if you are a higher level of people, then you need to have an "altruistic heart" to If you are a higher level person, then you need to have an "altruistic heart" to "win in high places".