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Treat Your Divorce Like a Business

You should be treating your divorce like a business, what does that mean?

By Divorce by RosePublished 2 years ago 3 min read
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You should be treating your divorce like a business, what does that mean? If you’re to go into a business meeting and you’re not happy with what your boss, and what your colleague does and the next project and all that, are you going to freak out and yell and scream and be hysterical and put all the whole big show? Likely not?

Divorce is the same thing. When you’re going and talking to your soon to be ex, you do not want to be a bottle of emotions that just explodes when you meet the person. You need to have your emotions in check. And I’m not saying that it’s easy in divorce- there is a whole lot of emotions. There is a whole lot of stuff going on but you have to detach yourself from your emotions when you’re talking to your soon to be ex. You need to separate the two. You can have your emotions when you’re in private but when the two of you are together, it has to be logical conversations. So, you need to think that your divorce is like a business… how would I act at work? How would I show up in front of my boss if I was not happy? Would I be smart and intelligent and maybe come up with some logical strategic solutions or am I just going to be screaming and yelling and hysterical? You have to decide how YOU want to show up. But I’m telling you that if you want to really move forward with your life, if you really want to create yourself a life where you minimize the amount of negative impact from the divorce and you want to minimize the sagas and the dramas, the number one thing and the number one best advice that I can offer you is … treat your soon to be ex like your boss with respect, with courtesy and even though you don’t like that person and even though you’re filled with a list of things you don’t like, you’re better off treating this divorce with respect than with animosity. Because we know the stories of what happens to people when they have a very acrimonious divorce and you don’t want to go that route. So, if you want to learn tools and strategies on how to do that and how to show up respectfully, come on in to Divorce by Rose, a Divorce Community APP, vent with us, learn with us and engage with us. We are there to help you learn, grow, evolve, transform and move forward with your life. I’m there and all the selected coaches that we have chosen, the coaches, the experts and professionals are all in there to help you and also with their online courses and with their advices, they’re in the chat, talking and sharing ideas and sharing thoughts and sharing their wisdom and their knowledge and THIS IS what you need right now, surround yourself with people who can help you take you from where you are today to where you want to be.

Inspired by Ravit Rose: Divorce Coach & Mentor | Author of “Unwanted Nasty Divorces” | Founder of the Divorce by Rose Community App designed for parents who are either contemplating divorce or newly separated and wondering “Should I stay married or should I get divorced”?

We are not pro marriage. We are not pro divorce either. We are a select group of coaches, experts & professionals from various industries offering you realistic strategies and solutions and support to help you find the LOGICAL answers that YOU need to help you decide whether you should stay married or get divorced. And then, regardless of your decision, we provide you with your next steps.

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Divorce by Rose brings together parents who are contemplating divorce or newly separated WITH coaches, experts and professionals who have the tools and strategies to guide you towards finding your answers. https://www.divorcebyrose.com/

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