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The Dangers of Gaslighting:How Emotional Manipulation Can Hurt a Relationship and Why You Should Be Aware of It (and How to Avoid It)

Gaslighting is a form of psychological manipulation

By Raluca Paula PiticasPublished about a year ago 5 min read
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Gaslighting is a kind of emotional abuse in which the abuser makes it appear as though the victim is fabricating their experiences. As doing so provides the idea that the victim is lying, it is possible that this will have a terrible effect on the mental and emotional health of the individual. When one person participates in this form of manipulation toward another, that person is manipulated into calling into question not just their own sanity but also the reality that is taking place all around them. This makes the target question their own views, feelings, and memories of the past, which in turn causes them to become more vulnerable.

Gaslighting is a type of psychological manipulation that can happen in any kind of relationship, whether it’s romantic, friendly, or professional.It can even happen in families. However, it is possible for it to happen through any form of connection at all. On the other hand, it is something that is frequently observed in close personal relationships in which one partner has a considerable level of power and influence over the other. In these kinds of partnerships, one partner typically dominates the other. In these sorts of partnerships, one partner typically assumes a position of dominance over the other.

The word “gaslighting” was coined and applied for the very first time in 1944, the same year that the film “Gaslight” was released to theaters. The plot of the movie shows a situation in which a husband controls his wife’s environment and tries to make her think she’s going crazy by hiding important events and giving her mixed messages.This is done with the intention of persuading her that she is going crazy and should seek help immediately. The act of gaslighting can take many different forms, such as denying that something happened, distorting the truth, using language that is condescending or insulting, or even just refusing to listen to the other person or recognize their concerns or emotions. All of these can be considered examples of gaslighting. All of these situations are examples of gaslighting in one way or another.

Gaslighting is a bad thing to do, and the problems that can come from it can be very bad.Gaslighting is a form of psychological manipulation. The victim may start to feel as though they are continually walking on eggshells because they are scared to say or do anything that may make their abuser furious. This is because the victim is afraid to say or do anything that could make their abuser angry. This is due to the fact that they are terrified of saying or doing anything that may cause their abuser to become upset. As a consequence of this, individuals could receive the impression that they are required to “walk on eggshells” all the time. As they try to make sense of what is happening to them and why they feel so invalidated, they may also experience feelings of uncertainty, concern, and sadness. This is because they are trying to make sense of what is happening to them. It’s possible that this will occur as they try to make sense of what’s happening to them and figure out why they feel so invalidated. This is as a result of the fact that they are having trouble comprehending what is taking place to them and the reasons behind why they are experiencing these feelings.

It is possible that the practice of gaslighting will, over the course of time, evolve into a relationship that is not just physically violent but also emotionally abusive and poisonous. The individual who is plagued with the illness could begin to withdraw from their friends and family, have feelings of helplessness and hopelessness, and even begin to doubt whether or not they are sane. These are just some of the symptoms that might emerge. It may become challenging for them to trust others and cultivate positive relationships in the future as a result of the potential long-term influence that this may have on their mental health and overall wellbeing. Because of this, it may be difficult for individuals to build good relationships with other people.

Gaslighting is often used by people who want to control or influence other people.It is possible for abusers to utilize it as a method for keeping their power and control over their victims, which can leave their victims feeling dependent and powerless as a result of the abuse. Because it often takes place over a period of time, it can be difficult for the victim to notice what is occurring until it has already caused a substantial degree of injury. This can make it difficult for the victim to seek help until it has already caused a large degree of harm. It may become more challenging for the victim to come forward and disclose the abuse as a result of this. As a result of this, it is a form of attack that is especially stealthy.

It is imperative that you get help as soon as you possibly can if you have any reason to think that you or someone else in your relationship may be engaging in the pattern of gaslighting known as the “gaslighting game.” You can talk to a therapist or counselor, talk to a trusted friend or family member, join a support group, or call a domestic violence hotline.All of these options are available to you.

To sum up, gaslighting is a high-risk method of manipulating someone’s mind that could lead to an unhealthy and bad romantic relationship. Psychologists in the 1960s were the ones who first came up with the phrase “gaslighting.” If you have any reason to think that you may be the subject of gaslighting, it is imperative that you seek the assistance and support of a trained expert as soon as possible. You will be able to protect not only your mental health but also your emotional health this way. Always keep in mind that assistance is always accessible to those who find themselves in need of it and that you deserve to be treated with respect and decency. You are deserving of this reward since you have worked hard and earned it.

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