The best feng shui for a family: poor father, filial piety, wife and son.

A home, what is the most important?

Peace and anger are the most important.

Alone, what is the most important?

A clear conscience is the most important thing.

The key to a family's prosperity from generation to generation is the word "harmony".

A family together, mutual understanding, mutual understanding, good care of these four kinds of fengshui, is better than wealth.

Do you blame your father for being poor?

Have you noticed that the older your parents are, the more cautious they become.

They are worried that they will become old and become a burden to their children, and they are also afraid that they will not be able to become the dust of their children's great prospects.

What parents fear most is to drag down their children's life. if so, they will live in self-remorse for the rest of their lives.

The greatest sorrow in the world is that parents have given everything they have and their children still think they have received too little.

As children, learning to be kind to their parents is the foundation of life.

Treat parents, more patience, less complaining, more understanding, less dislike, is the true filial piety.

Yang Zhanyu said in the record of time:

"affection is probably the purest emotion in the world. In addition to love and care, there should also be gratitude."

Let go of the harsh criteria for your parents and learn to be grateful. Don't wait until your parents are gone and leave regrets for the rest of your life.

The most basic upbringing of a person is to forgive his parents' imperfections.

The sign of a person's maturity is: do not blame your father for poverty, rely on yourself for everything, practice filial piety in time, while your parents are still alive.

Filial piety is no better than brother.

Since ancient times, there have been two kinds of filial piety: nourishing the body and mind, both of which are equally important and indispensable.

Keep your mouth healthy, stay with your parents all the time, and take care of their food, clothing, housing and transportation.

Cultivate your mind, strive to improve your achievements, and make your parents proud of it.

Either way, it is the duty of being a child, relying on one's own conscience and filial piety.

The way of filial piety is not high or low, do not calculate with brothers and sisters who do more and who do less.

Once you start to measure your gains and losses and keep up with the conditions, it is bound to chill the hearts of your parents and hurt the feelings between your loved ones.

There is a saying that is quite true:

"when filial piety takes precedence over interests, the so-called true feelings become vulnerable."

Filial piety to parents is not an affectation of "acting in front of a person and turning his face behind a person", but a "considerate and considerate, from the outside to the inside".

A person who sincerely treats his parents, the road of life will be more and more smooth.

Be bitter without blaming your wife

There is a question on the Internet: what measures the temperature of a home?

One answer was highly liked: the relationship between husband and wife.

Cai Kangyong made a point in his book:

"there is an emotional account between people, and every time they make each other happy, they save more.

Every time you upset the other person, you save a little less. "

If one day your savings are zero, a marriage will come to an end.

In a person's life, his or her partner is the one who accompanies us for the longest time and tolerates us the most.

When you are sick, the person who gives you the most careful care and guards you day and night is his wife.

When you come home late, prepare a steaming meal for you, and it is your wife who is waiting for you to come home.

When you are sad, continue to encourage you, accompany you bit by bit to get through, is the wife.

Please remember: no matter how hard life is, don't blame your wife; no matter how hard it is, you should understand each other.

Between husband and wife, forgive small things, discuss big things, do not dispute right or wrong, do not turn over old debts, is the best temperature of the family.

Anger is not fierce.

As the old saying goes:

"the mouth of the parents determines the fate of the child."

Parents' attitude towards their children determines the way their children look at the world.

A netizen once told his own experience:

"when I didn't do well in the final exam, my father said to me, why are you so useless? why don't you die?

My family lives on the fifth floor, and I was desperate and sat on the windowsill.

From then on, I couldn't get close to them anymore. "

Language is the best weapon to hurt people, and it can make the heart full of scars in an instant.

The wounds of words are all dark wounds. Although the wounds cannot be seen or touched, the scars will remain in my heart forever.

To treat a child with evil words will only make a flower that is not yet in full bloom wither quickly.

Talking well and being gentle is the best gift for your children.

Throw away your temper, let go of hostility, bring a good mood to your loved ones, and you will bring happiness home.

I agree with one sentence:

"there are only a few people in this world who care about you and care about you."

A person's real success is family happiness.

A place with a house is not necessarily a home, but a family together is a complete home.

Don't break your parents' hearts because of resentment and cause irreparable regrets.

Don't let comparison break the relationship between brothers and leave long regrets for the rest of your life.

Don't let your marriage come to an end by forgetting the kindness of your partner because of a quarrel.

Don't lose your child's trust because of your temper and let a family fall apart.

The best time for the rest of your life is to have a home, someone to wait, and something to eat.