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Ten types of "one-minute" love for children

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By Sal ToriPublished about a year ago 4 min read
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Ten types of "one-minute" love for children
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One minute of contact - parents touch the child's head and shoulders, shake the child's hand, and through contact convey the affection of parents and children, to convey to the child love and strength.

One minute of listening - Instead of always letting the child listen, parents can change their perspective and listen to the child's heart and soul. When listening to your child, make sure you are focused and kind.

One-minute games - clumsy children find fun in games, smart children seek knowledge in games, and outstanding children increase their intelligence in games. Games can enhance the emotions of parents and children, improve the interest of children in life and adjust their mental state. The games that parents take their children to play must be healthy, positive, and fun.

One-minute correction - When a child is at fault, parents must point out what the correct behavior should be and what harm the wrong behavior will bring, and correct the child's wrong behavior, not to let it develop. However, when faced with a child's mistake, parents must first find out whether the wrong behavior is caused by the child's subjective or non-subjective factors, and how serious it is. It is also important to pay attention to the occasion, to speak calmly, to be gentle, and not to rush to correct the child's mistake.

One-minute motivation - motivation can make people always confident. Parents should have patience and persistence to stimulate their children's interest in life and learning, inspire their children's self-confidence, and continuously promote their development.

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One minute of praise - There will always be unique merits in a child. As a parent, you should pay attention to discovering your child's excellent performance in life and learning, and seize the best time to praise. In the process of praising, pay attention to the manner, place, tone, timing, and degree of praise.

One-minute participation - In a family, parents should respect the main position of their children, they should understand their children's opinions, let them participate in the management of family affairs, and form a consensus as much as possible, which will be conducive to the formation of a good family atmosphere. In the process of children's participation, parents should combine respect and guidance, do not obey the child in everything.

One-minute discipline - A very serious transgressive behavior of the child must be disciplined, otherwise, the child may go down the wrong path. Therefore, parents should make their attitude clear, point out the nature of the mistake and order it to be corrected, but never hurt the child with their hands to avoid antagonism.

One minute to show love - to let the child understand that you are the most beloved person by your parents, and even if your parents discipline you when you have serious problems, they are still fulfilling their responsibility of love.

One-minute expectations - Parents should let their children know what they expect from them. For example, parents can talk to their children at the right time about their journey growing up, let them know that their parents don't want the same setbacks for their children, and talk with them about their good life aspirations. But parents should be rational and realistic in their expectations of their children.

Summary

It is a moral crime for the child and for society as a whole for a person to give birth to a child without feeding its body and without cultivating its mind. --Muller

Each child has psychological characteristics at different ages. To guide a disobedient child or a lying child, parents should not impose a fixed formula on the child but should find solutions in the child according to different ages and personalities, to create an environment in which the child can grow up to be obedient.

Some parents always impose what they think is the right way of education on their children, instead of putting themselves in their children's shoes and learning how to manage them, then, over time, their children will become more and more difficult to control. At the same time, this way of dealing with children's problems is not conducive to their healthy growth.

As a parent, you should first understand your child's personality, secondly, you should go deeper into your child and learn from him/her, and then you should find ways to establish cooperation with your child, and finally, you should establish a "win-win" education method with your child. In this way, children can grow up well according to their parents' requirements, and parents can provide a calm and quiet home environment for their children.

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Sal Tori

Education is what remains after one has forgotten everything one has learned in school.

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