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The Truthfulness of Sheikh Abdul Qadir Jilani
The Story of Sheikh Abdul Qadir Jilani’s Truthfulness BY:Khan Sheikh Abdul Qadir Jilani, known with great reverence as Ghaus-e-Azam, was one of the greatest saints and scholars of Islam. His entire life was devoted to the service of religion, the guidance of people, and the spread of truth. Countless men and women attained spiritual benefit from his company, and even centuries later, people across the world continue to draw inspiration from his teachings. From his early childhood, Sheikh Abdul Qadir showed an extraordinary passion for learning. While other children of his age were often busy with play, he was drawn toward books, scholars, and gatherings of knowledge. He completed his early education in his hometown, Jilan, but he soon realized that to achieve higher Islamic education, he would have to travel to Baghdad, which at that time was the great center of knowledge and scholarship. In those days, travel was not easy. There were no cars, trains, or airplanes. People used to travel in caravans, either on foot or on animals, facing the dangers of long deserts, forests, and mountains. Bandits and robbers often attacked these caravans, and journeys were both uncertain and dangerous. When Sheikh Abdul Qadir expressed his desire to travel to Baghdad for education, his mother, a pious and noble woman, fully supported his ambition. Before sending him off, she prepared some food for the journey and sewed forty gold coins inside the lining of his shirt so that he could manage his expenses while living in Baghdad. However, more important than the gold coins was the heartfelt advice she gave him at the time of departure. She said to him lovingly but firmly: “My dear son, always speak the truth. Never tell a lie, no matter the circumstances. Hold on to truthfulness, for it will guide you and protect you.” Sheikh Abdul Qadir listened carefully to his mother’s words, engraved them in his heart, and promised to live by them. With that, he joined a caravan that was heading towards Baghdad. The caravan began its long and weary journey. The travelers moved cautiously, for everyone was aware that the roads were unsafe and that robbers often lurked nearby. After covering two stages of the journey, just as everyone feared, a group of bandits suddenly attacked the caravan in the darkness of night. Panic spread among the travelers. Cries of fear and helplessness filled the air as the robbers plundered the belongings of the people. They took whatever they found—money, valuables, and food. During this chaos, one of the robbers approached young Abdul Qadir and asked harshly: “Boy! What do you have with you?” Without hesitation, the young boy replied: “I have forty gold coins. They are sewn inside the lining of my shirt.” The robber thought the boy was joking. With a mocking laugh, he ignored him and went on to loot others. Shortly afterward, another robber came to Abdul Qadir and asked the same question. Once again, he gave the same reply: “I have forty gold coins hidden inside my shirt.” This robber was puzzled by the boy’s response. He thought perhaps the child was speaking the truth. So he caught hold of him and dragged him to the leader of the bandits. The chief of the robbers looked at Sheikh Abdul Qadir with curiosity. He asked sternly: “Tell me the truth, boy. What do you really have with you?” The boy, calm and fearless, repeated his words: “I have forty gold coins sewn into my shirt.” The leader was astonished at this confession. He ordered the boy’s shirt to be opened, and to everyone’s amazement, forty gold coins fell to the ground. The bandit leader’s eyes widened in shock. He asked in disbelief: “Why did you reveal this secret? You could have easily hidden the truth and saved your wealth. Why did you tell us about the gold coins?” Sheikh Abdul Qadir replied with remarkable innocence and firmness: “My mother advised me before I left home that I should never tell a lie, no matter what happens. I promised her that I would always speak the truth, and I cannot break that promise.” These words pierced the heart of the bandit chief. He looked at the young boy before him and then looked at himself. Tears welled up in his eyes. He thought: “Here is a child who is so loyal to the advice of his mother, who values truth so highly that he risks losing his only wealth for it. And here am I, a grown man, who for years has been disobedient to the commands of my Creator, looting and harming innocent people.” The sincerity of the boy shook him to his core. His heart, long covered with the darkness of sin, suddenly felt the light of realization. Overcome with guilt and remorse, he began to weep openly. He turned to his companions and declared: “From this day onwards, I repent before Allah. I can no longer continue this sinful life. This boy has opened my eyes to the truth. Let us return everything we have stolen.” To the astonishment of the caravan, the bandit leader ordered his men to return all the belongings to their rightful owners. The robbers, moved by the transformation of their leader, also followed his example and repented. Thus, by the truthfulness of a young boy who refused to tell a lie, an entire group of hardened criminals found the path of righteousness and changed their lives forever. This story from the life of Sheikh Abdul Qadir Jilani is not merely an incident from history—it carries a timeless lesson. It shows us how powerful truth can be, how a single act of honesty can transform lives, and how the sincere advice of a mother can shape the destiny of her child. Sheikh Abdul Qadir grew up to become one of the greatest saints of Islam, guiding people with wisdom, knowledge, and spirituality. Yet, even in his childhood, his commitment to truth set an example that continues to inspire generations. The robbers who once lived by greed and violence turned towards faith and goodness because of his honesty. And this became one of the first signs of the great influence he would later have on countless souls throughout his life. Indeed, the light of truth never fades.
By Khan about a year ago in Families
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Deloitte US Employee attacking Cancer Dying Father-in-Law by writing: "Fucking wow you are a stupid, miserable piece of shit. If you try anything as idiotic as "contacting my employer" or blasting me on social media I will notify every applicable US and Chinese government agency I can find of your attempted extortion. ．．I guess you will be OK though because the Chinese government is very lenient with criminal behavior right?"
By Charles Shiabout a year ago in Families
Children Cleanliness and Prayers in the Time of Corona
Children, Families, and the Lessons of the Pandemic BY:Khan May Allah Almighty protect us all from the harmful effects of the coronavirus and grant quick recovery to those who are already suffering from it. The entire world has been shaken by this deadly disease and its rapid spread. To control it, governments around the globe have been urging people to remain confined within their homes. Markets, shopping centers, and businesses have been closed, while families find themselves restricted indoors. Schools and educational institutions have declared extended vacations until the 31st of May, meaning that children are now completely away from schools, tuition centers, and academies. This naturally brings a storm of mischief and playfulness inside homes, something every parent and elder can easily imagine. Governments, societies, and especially parents are deeply concerned about children. Their greatest wish is that the little ones remain safe and unaffected by this terrifying outbreak. To protect people from the virus, constant reminders are being broadcast about the use of gloves, masks, and hand sanitizers. Masks and gloves were already somewhat familiar, but the sudden popularity of hand sanitizer within society is remarkable. In fact, the simplest and most effective lesson to prevent the spread of the virus is to wash hands with soap frequently. Doctors emphasize that handwashing should last at least 20 seconds each time. Clean clothes, a clean face, and washed hands after touching objects or utensils are now the standard routine. Repeated instructions about cleanliness are echoing everywhere. Yet Islam had introduced these principles more than 1,400 years ago. The Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) declared that cleanliness is half of faith. If only we, as individuals and as a society, adopt cleanliness sincerely, more than half of our health problems would vanish on their own. May Allah bless us with the strength to live tidy, maintain clean homes and surroundings, and make cleanliness a permanent habit. The second phase of lockdown is due to end on April 14, while the blessed month of Ramadan has already begun, with its first ten days completed. Everyone is waiting anxiously to see what decision the government will announce next. We pray that Allah opens a path of safety and that scientists, with His will, discover an effective cure for this virus. Interestingly, children have reacted to this unusual situation in unique ways. Many are happily wearing masks, almost treating them like fashion accessories. Yet very young ones—three to three-and-a-half years old—see masks and gloves more as toys than protective tools. Place a mask on a toddler’s face, and within a moment, the child will pull it off, unaware of what “corona” really means or how dangerous it is. Older children, around five or six years old, however, have shown surprising awareness. They remind their siblings to wash hands for the full twenty seconds, exactly as doctors advise. Take, for example, six-year-old Arfa Maryam. With schools closed, she spends her days with her elder sister, brother, and beloved father. Yet she constantly “orders” her family to wash hands properly and use sanitizer. She even insists that when someone sneezes, it should be into the elbow or a tissue, never directly into the hands. This way, she explains, both the sneezer and those around them will remain safe. When asked where she had learned such thoughtful practices, Arfa proudly said, “My mama taught me all these golden lessons about cleanliness.” Another child, four-and-a-half-year-old Jannat Sheikh Rashid, shared that her grandmother told her something different—that the coronavirus is a sign of Allah’s displeasure. Jannat adds with innocent conviction, “But when children pray, Allah surely accepts their prayers.” How beautiful and pure are the perspectives of these children! Through their little words and simple gestures, they are reminding us of two great shields against hardship: cleanliness and prayer. As a nation, we all fervently pray that Allah saves our country and people from this crisis. May He restore normal life so that children return to schools, parents return to work, and communities reopen their shops and mosques with joy and relief. Meanwhile, we cannot forget the tireless efforts of the frontline warriors—the doctors, nurses, paramedical staff, soldiers of the Pakistan Army, police officers, and administrative officials. Day and night, they stand at the front lines, risking their own health and safety to protect society. They are the real heroes of this dark chapter in history, and they deserve our heartfelt salute and gratitude. The pandemic has brought new lessons for everyone. Parents have realized the importance of spending time with their children. Teachers have discovered new ways to keep in touch with students. Children themselves have learned that health and safety require discipline, cleanliness, and care for others. The small voices of Arfa and Jannat are, in fact, powerful reminders for adults: wash hands, wear masks, pray sincerely, and stay united. Let us remember: the world is now echoing with messages of hygiene, but Islam gave these teachings centuries ago. The Quran and Hadith guide us not only to pray but also to live clean, responsible, and considerate lives. If we truly embrace these teachings, we will not only overcome this pandemic but also build healthier societies for the future. May Allah protect us, heal the sick, strengthen our doctors and workers, and shower His mercy on all humanity. Ameen.
By Khan about a year ago in Families
The Clever Cat and the Tricky Mouse
Auther Name Hazratullah Once upon a time, in a quiet little village where the fields were green and the houses were built from clay and stone, there lived a cat named Whiskers. He was not just an ordinary cat. His fur was as shiny as polished coal, and his yellow eyes glowed like twin lanterns in the dark. More than anything, Whiskers was known for his sharp mind and endless patience.
By Asmatullahabout a year ago in Families
Sympathy Flower Arrangements: Honor Your Loved Ones with Grace and Beauty
When spoken words fail, flowers do speak. Funeral flower arrangements have remained a tradition for decades in comforting, saluting, or just keeping the memory of a loved one. From a delicate spray of lilies to a beautiful wreath of roses, these floral gestures help to convey love, memory, and peace in difficult times.
By Liamabout a year ago in Families
Mom’s Silent Strength
When I think about strength, the first images that come to mind are usually loud and obvious: someone standing up in the face of danger, shouting to protect those they love, or charging forward when everything seems to fall apart. But the kind of strength I learned from my mother is different. It’s quieter. Invisible to most. And yet, it’s the strongest kind of all.
By Muhammad Haris khan afridiabout a year ago in Families
Here’s The Real Reason Why Men Stay With Women They Hate
We’ve all seen that couple at a restaurant—sitting in stony silence, exchanging terse words, their body language screaming volumes about their unhappiness. Or perhaps you have a friend who constantly vents about his relationship, detailing every grievance, yet when you ask, "So why don't you leave?" he just shrugs and says, "It's complicated."
By Giaabout a year ago in Families
Why Is It
Author's Note: I have had to pick and choose what funerals I would attend since the pandemic began back in 2019/20. People are still not having funerals within the first weeks after a death. The funeral I am attending today was for a June death, for example.
By Denise E Lindquistabout a year ago in Families
Grandma’s Garden Gathering
Grandma decided to move into a nursing home. Before leaving, she invited us to a farewell gathering in her garden. At the table, the usual laughter was missing, replaced by silence.
By Cher Cheabout a year ago in Families
Daily Struggles of Families in Gaza and Ways We Can Support
Every day in Gaza is a battle to stay alive. Families wake up without knowing if they will have food, clean water, or even power. Some individuals reside in homes that have been damaged, while others live in temporary shelters. Schools are either broken or too full for kids to study. Parents look for work, but there aren't many jobs.
By Muhammad Maazabout a year ago in Families
Why Metabolism Slows. AI-Generated.
When we’re young, metabolism feels unstoppable. We can eat late-night snacks, enjoy endless energy, and bounce back quickly after exercise. But as we age, many people—both women and men—notice changes: weight creeps on more easily, energy dips, and maintaining strength becomes harder.
By Noorabout a year ago in Families
The Role of Virtual Medical Assistants in Modern Healthcare
In today’s evolving healthcare environment, efficiency and quality patient care are no longer optional—they are essential. Clinics, hospitals, and private practices face increasing demands for administrative work, patient communication, and compliance management. To meet these challenges, many providers are turning to a virtual medical assistant. A medical virtual assistant offers reliable, remote support that reduces workload, lowers costs, and allows doctors to focus on what matters most: patient care.
By Frank j Monroeabout a year ago in Families