grandparents

Becoming a grandparent makes getting older something to look forward to - all the fun of parenting, without the hassle.

The Recipe You Can’t Write Down
A few weeks ago, while sorting through my grandfather’s old belongings, I stumbled upon a small wooden box tucked away in the corner of his wardrobe. On the lid, faintly carved, was a single word: “Recipes.”
By Shehzad Anjumabout a year ago in Families
How Frontotemporal Dementia Affects the Eyes and Vision
Frontotemporal dementia, or FTD, is one of the most common types of early-onset dementia that typically begins between the ages of 40 and 65. While best known for affecting behavior, personality, and language, frontotemporal dementia eyes and vision symptoms are increasingly being recognized as important indicators of the condition. The way FTD impacts visual processing makes it challenging not just for the diagnosed but for medical doctors and caregivers as well to identify tiny changes in perception.
By Jane Rockwellabout a year ago in Families
Ancestry Continues...
My first ancestry stated that I am 55% Native American. I am not that much on the rolls of my reservation. I am enrolled as White Earth, removal Fond du Lac. That means I have a lot of relatives in White Earth and a lot of relatives in Fond du Lac.
By Denise E Lindquistabout a year ago in Families
Dad, Tell Me Your Story: The Unwritten Legacy in Your Living Room
It hits you at the oddest moments. Maybe you’re watching him fiddle with the grill, a man perfectly comfortable in the silent ritual of cooking. Or perhaps you see an old, faded photograph of a young man with a different hairstyle and a glint in his eye you don’t quite recognize. In that moment, a simple, powerful thought emerges: I don't really know him.
By Epic Vibesabout a year ago in Families
Helping Families Cope With the Final Stages of Dementia
Dementia is an intensive process that not only affects the diagnosed but also their caregivers and families. As dementia progresses to its advanced stages, families will often face difficult decisions, emotional distress, and the need for supportive care. Being aware of what to expect, understanding changes, and preparing emotionally and practically might enable loved ones to navigate this challenging period with honor and love.
By Shelia Baileyabout a year ago in Families
Grandpa’s Secret Garden
Grandpa’s garden had always fascinated me, even as a child. While other kids played in the streets or watched cartoons, I would sneak away to his backyard, a small oasis tucked behind our house. The garden was more than soil and plants; it was alive with stories, memories, and a quiet magic that seemed to exist only there. One summer afternoon, curiosity got the better of me. I noticed Grandpa kneeling beside a row of tulips, his hands gently patting the soil as he whispered words I couldn’t hear. He caught me peeking and smiled, motioning me over. “It’s not just about planting flowers,” he said. “Every plant has a story, just like every person in this family.” He handed me a tiny seed. “This one,” he said, “is special. Plant it carefully, water it, and remember its story.” I did as he instructed, watching the small seed disappear into the soil, feeling a sense of purpose I hadn’t experienced before. That day, Grandpa began teaching me more than gardening—he taught me patience, care, and attention to the small details that make life meaningful. Over the weeks, I returned to the garden daily, observing the seedling grow. Grandpa would sit nearby, telling me about the family’s history—his childhood, stories of my parents when they were young, and memories of moments both joyful and challenging. The garden became a classroom, a place where lessons were taught not with textbooks but with soil, plants, and stories. As the seed grew into a small flower, I noticed the subtleties of care: watering it just enough, giving it sunlight, and gently removing weeds. Grandpa explained that family is much the same. Nurturing relationships requires attention, patience, and love. Neglect, even if unintentional, allows problems to take root, just as weeds invade a garden. I realized then that the garden was a metaphor, a living reminder of our interconnectedness. One evening, as the sun set and the sky turned amber, Grandpa showed me a hidden corner of the garden. There, tucked behind tall sunflowers, were small stones etched with names and dates. “These are memories,” he said. “We remember those who came before us and the moments that shaped our family.” I touched one of the stones, feeling the weight of generations. I understood that family history is preserved not only in photographs or stories but in traditions, spaces, and shared experiences. Over time, the garden became our sanctuary. My siblings joined, each contributing in their way, planting flowers, vegetables, and small trees. Grandpa encouraged us to experiment, make mistakes, and learn through trial and error. The garden taught us humility, resilience, and the joy of collective effort. Each plant represented care, attention, and the rewards of patience. By the time I was a teenager, the garden had transformed into a vibrant, thriving space. Visitors often admired it, but I knew its true significance. It wasn’t the beauty alone; it was the memories embedded in the soil, the lessons Grandpa imparted, and the connections we forged as a family. The garden reflected our growth, struggles, and triumphs. Years later, when Grandpa passed away, the garden became a living tribute. We continued to nurture it, honoring his wisdom and love. Every bloom reminded us of the stories he shared, the patience he modeled, and the care he showed. I realized that family legacies are like gardens: they require attention, love, and dedication, yet they flourish beautifully, leaving lasting impressions on all who experience them. Grandpa’s secret garden taught me that family is not just about shared space—it is about nurturing, storytelling, and sustaining connections. The lessons I learned among the tulips, sunflowers, and hidden stones shaped my understanding of love, responsibility, and legacy. Even now, I walk through the garden, feeling his presence in every bloom, every rustling leaf, and every quiet moment. The garden remains a testament to the enduring power of care, patience, and family love.
By syedabout a year ago in Families
Raising Capable Kids: What Childhood Looked Like Before Screens
Before digital devices became central to childhood, growing up looked very different. Kids played outside for hours, handled real responsibilities at home, and developed life skills through everyday tasks. There were no apps to remind them of chores, no videos teaching them how to tie shoelaces, and no notifications competing for their attention.
By Alexander Sebastian about a year ago in Families
Female sexual dysfunction
What Is Female Sexual Dysfunction? Female sexual dysfunction refers to ongoing sexual problems that make intimacy less satisfying or cause stress in a relationship. These issues can involve desire, arousal, orgasm, or pain during sex.
By MUHAMMAD Abbasabout a year ago in Families
A New Year of Hope: 2021 and the Journey Beyond the Pandemic
Dear Children ,BY:Ubaid A new year has begun! This time, the world is welcoming it with the hope that the hardships we faced in 2020 due to the coronavirus pandemic will finally start to ease in 2021. Last year, life was almost paralyzed, with normal routines disrupted, schools closed, and countless uncertainties looming over everyone’s heads. Let us pray that this new year brings relief, health, and happiness, and that this dreaded disease becomes a mere story of the past. Although a new year is marked simply by the change of the calendar, it has a profound impact on human life. Every year has three hundred sixty-five days, and each day arrives with a new dawn, carrying with it fresh hopes and expectations. When circumstances are favorable, the days pass swiftly, almost in the blink of an eye. But when challenges arise, even a single day can feel like an insurmountable mountain. Unfortunately, last year was just like that for all of us. The pandemic made life feel like a heavy burden, and carrying it became a real struggle. The final months of 2020 were particularly difficult because the hope of a vaccine kept shifting to 2021. Every individual prayed that they, their families, and the world at large would be protected until vaccines became available and a sense of normalcy returned. Now, with the new year underway, humanity’s collective hope is that this year will be a year of well-being, peace, and recovery. People are longing for ordinary life to resume, for the hustle and bustle of cities to return, and for vibrant social interactions to be restored. The simple joys of daily life, often taken for granted, are now cherished more than ever. Dear children, the lockdowns and school closures introduced you to a new way of learning: the “Online Education System.” Through this system, you continued your studies using computers, laptops, or mobile devices. While this digital shift kept your education ongoing, it certainly did not feel the same as being in a classroom. Advancing to the next grade without exams may have seemed unfair or unsatisfying, and many of you must have missed the excitement of interacting with your teachers and friends face-to-face. Even now, as 2021 unfolds, it is clear that the pandemic is not yet over. Staying at home day after day can feel monotonous, and you might find yourself longing for the lively environment of school. You miss the extracurricular activities, the sports events, the classroom discussions, and the simple joy of walking through school corridors, all of which are now memories rather than realities. At this point, it is important to turn to prayer. Pray that Allah protects the world, our country, and all of humanity from this disease. Pray that schools reopen, allowing you to return to the classrooms where learning is not only more engaging but also more effective. The joy of seeing your friends, taking part in group activities, and participating in interactive lessons is something no online platform can fully replicate. This year, let us also remember the importance of patience and perseverance. The pandemic has taught us valuable lessons—lessons about resilience, responsibility, and the importance of staying safe for the well-being of ourselves and others. By following health guidelines, wearing masks, maintaining social distance, and taking vaccinations seriously, we can collectively contribute to a safer and healthier world. It is natural to feel frustrated and impatient, especially when you are young and full of energy. You may find yourself thinking about the freedom you once had to play outdoors, participate in school events, and spend time with friends. These feelings are normal, and acknowledging them is important. But alongside your prayers, make a conscious effort to find joy in small things at home. Reading your favorite books, learning new hobbies, helping family members, and engaging in creative activities can make your days productive and enjoyable, even during these challenging times. As you step into 2021, remember that every new day is an opportunity to grow, learn, and make a positive difference. Life may not yet be back to normal, but each day that passes brings us closer to recovery. The scientists working on vaccines, the doctors and healthcare workers tirelessly caring for the sick, and the families maintaining safety at home—all of these efforts contribute to a brighter future. Your cooperation, patience, and prayers are equally important in this journey. So, dear children, embrace this new year with hope, courage, and determination. Let your prayers rise for health, education, and happiness—not only for yourselves but for your communities and the entire world. Remember, the challenges we face today are temporary. The resilience, knowledge, and compassion you cultivate now will help you navigate any difficulty in the future. In conclusion, let this new year be a symbol of renewal and optimism. May it be a year when the shadows of the pandemic fade, schools reopen, friendships are rekindled, and the laughter of children fills classrooms once again. Let the world rediscover its joy, and let the lessons of patience, hope, and gratitude guide our actions every day. Happy New Year, dear children! May 2021 be a year of blessings, health, and endless possibilities. Keep learning, keep praying, and keep believing that better days are ahead.
By Ubaid about a year ago in Families
The Heart Behind the Helmet
The Heart Behind the Helmet: The Story of Diego Pavia's Biggest Fan In the world of college football, we celebrate the quarterbacks for their arm strength, their mobility, and their leadership on the field. We know the names, the stats, and the highlight reels. But behind every great athlete is a foundation of support, often built by family. For New Mexico State quarterback Diego Pavia, that unwavering foundation, his biggest fan, is his mother.
By KAMRAN AHMADabout a year ago in Families
Guided by Faith:A Mother’s Journey in America
The Light of Guidance in a Foreign Land BY:Khan My name is Balqis Riyaz, and during my stay in Kennett Square, Pennsylvania, I was once invited to an Ameen ceremony. My daughter, Saadia, and I arrived at the house, only to find it overflowing with guests. The entire place was buzzing with voices, laughter, and the aroma of freshly prepared food. Many women wore hijabs, radiating grace and modesty. Among the hosts was Bushra, the wife of a doctor. What fascinated me most about her was that after moving to America, she had not only held tightly onto her faith but had grown into a stronger, more devoted Muslim. She had raised her children with values rooted in Islam, values even deeper and more consistent than what many parents managed back in Pakistan. Her three children had been guided through a disciplined routine of reciting and understanding the Qur’an. That day, her youngest son, just ten years old, was reciting Surah Ar-Rahman from memory. The room grew still; the chatter melted into silence as his youthful yet melodious voice filled the air. Every guest seemed mesmerized, their hearts swaying with the rhythm of the sacred verses. When the recitation ended, I congratulated Bushra. “I’m amazed,” I said with genuine admiration. “Raising children with such strong Islamic values in America is no small achievement. Alongside worldly education, you’ve given them the gift of faith.” I meant every word. Living in a foreign land often tempts people away from their roots. But I had witnessed with my own eyes that if one truly wishes to walk on the straight path, God provides support. No matter how many distractions and temptations surround a person, Allah never abandons a sincere soul. He is closer to us than our jugular vein, knowing our intentions, guiding our struggles, and strengthening our resolve. Bushra smiled warmly at my words. I then asked her, “Did you always wear the abaya and practice hijab?” She chuckled softly and replied, “Not at all. Before marriage, I was quite fashionable. Sleeveless shirts, trendy outfits—that was my life. After marrying my husband, I moved to America because he had come here for his medical training. Soon after his residency, he got a job in a hospital, and that’s when life truly changed for me.” Her tone grew reflective as she continued. “I used to spend a lot of time at home, and one day, I began listening to online lectures by Dr. Farhat Hashmi. Her words struck something deep within me. They touched my heart so profoundly that I resolved to change my life. I made up my mind that my children would not only pursue worldly education but also grow with a strong foundation of Islamic knowledge. I started wearing the hijab, and, thankfully, my husband never objected. Instead, God helped me, and soon, the children themselves developed a love for the Qur’an. Alhamdulillah, today all three have completed their recitation of the Qur’an and are excelling in their academic studies as well. My only prayer now is that Allah keeps us firm on the straight path for the rest of our lives.” Her sincerity shone through her words. I assured her, “Insha’Allah, God will continue to guide you.” With that, she moved on to attend to other guests, leaving me with a deep sense of reflection. Sitting quietly, I pondered over the lesson unfolding before me: no matter where you live—whether in Pakistan or in the United States—if you dedicate yourself wholeheartedly to a task, God assists you. A free society does not mean abandoning values. Rather, it makes the role of family and upbringing even more crucial. A child, when born, is like a blank page—pure, unmarked. Slowly, life begins to write upon it. And the first ink that stains this page comes from the home itself. Parents’ words and actions carve the earliest impressions—sometimes beautiful, sometimes harmful. When a child hears, “Lying is bad,” yet watches their parents lie in everyday matters, confusion sets in. The young mind cannot reconcile the contradiction. This is why children do not merely learn through lectures; they absorb through environment. A home becomes their first school. The responsibility is immense. Parents must strive to embody the very values they want their children to hold. When children see integrity, patience, honesty, and kindness consistently practiced at home, their minds remain free from doubts. Good habits settle naturally into their character. On the other hand, when upbringing falters, the consequences can be painful. A righteous child brings peace and comfort to parents in their old age, while poorly guided children can become a source of sorrow and hardship. As I looked around that day, surrounded by women in modest attire, children full of energy, and the fragrance of cultural dishes lingering in the air, one thought echoed in my mind: God rewards effort. Bushra’s journey was proof that distance from one’s homeland does not mean distance from faith. She had turned her home into a sanctuary of learning, love, and spirituality. And so, I leave this thought for every parent: Please, invest in your children’s upbringing. Raise them to be truthful, kind, respectful, and mindful of their Creator. In doing so, not only will they bring honor to their parents, but they will also serve as shining lights for their community and their nation.
By Khan about a year ago in Families
My Grandparent’s Secret Recipe and the Stories Behind It
My Grandparent’s Secret Recipe and the Stories Behind It By Hasnain Shah Every family has that one dish that seems to hold the whole story of who they are. In mine, it’s my grandmother’s Sunday stew. If you asked her about it, she’d just wave her hand and say, “It’s meat, vegetables, and time. Nothing special.” But she knew, and we all knew, it was much more than that.
By Hasnain Shahabout a year ago in Families