Parents must pay attention to "child sex education" can not be ignored

Sexual education for children is a socialization process for educators to develop sexual science, sexual morality, and sexual civilization education. Sex education is not only reading books, listening to lectures, and watching videos, but also an educational system project related to family, school, and society, as well as a re-socialization process that develops with the age of the educator. Help the child to recognize his or her gender, to specify his or her gender role behavior and kinesthetic reactions according to gender, not to adopt a simple reprimanding and fraudulent attitude to the child's nakedness and genital organs, but to teach him the sense of ugly shame, not to make people wonder and hide. Parents can be frank about the differences in the sexual organs of male and female children and where I came from; there is no need to be profound about it. It is important to let children play games with children of the same and opposite sex at the same age to cultivate a natural and healthy attitude towards interacting with peers and constructing a healthy personality.

Children's sex education can not avoid the 6 keys

1, after the birth of a child, regardless of gender, should not be confused in the choice of name, dress, and household items, so that the child does not form a sexual hazy awareness of themselves and others from an early age, thus affecting the child's sexual orientation.

Hope that the child is the gender parents want, parents like boys and girls, deliberately dressing up girls as boys and boys as girls, will affect the child's character self-identification, thus changing the character and behavior.

2. When children can hear the language, parents must clearly distinguish gender education in bathing, clothing, finishing hair, toy selection, etc. Through books and newspapers, picture books, movies, and stories, children can observe the growth and reproduction of animals and plants, so that they can have a natural understanding of reproduction, accept nature, love people, recognize the nature of life, and complete the understanding of sexuality.

3. Free exploration of one's own body is a good start to health education. Parents choose appropriate times in family life, such as bathing, before going to bed, etc., to naturally let children get to know their bodies, especially to let children realize that reproductive organs are not mysterious like other organs of the human body, and to let children keep themselves clean and develop good hygiene habits.

4、When children ask relevant questions, parents should not avoid them but should answer them with language and methods that children can understand and accept, to solve and satisfy their curiosity and desire for knowledge.

5、The regulation of parents' behavior is also important. Parents have sincere and cordial feelings for each other and high morals, and set a good example for their children, they will make their children love life, love life, and treat sex correctly.

6, the problems often encountered should be properly understood. For example, how is a person born? You can start from the flowering and fruiting of plants, and then relate it to human sex and reproduction, or you can make a model analogy from the reproductive activities of animals. A simple introduction to the physiology of human reproduction will help children to understand the problem. In other words, when educating children about sex, it is important, to be honest, and encourage the less complex child's desire for knowledge, naturally postponing the specific details of the child's future life to understand.

The 5 important periods of sex education for children

Oral sex age stage:3 months~1 year

When infants are about 3 months~1 year old, their need for attraction is particularly prominent and they like to attract fingers, which is the first manifestation of their sexual desire during the oral sex period.

Physical contact between mother and child increases the sensitivity of the child's nervous system and promotes the differentiated development of the child's brain.

Children with inadequate physical contact with adults have varying degrees of impaired intelligence and sexual sensitivity.

Fear of infant finger biting, do not force the prohibition, consider giving the infant soothing nipples to meet the needs of the last period.

The ageing stage of the blurring period:1~2 years old

Generally from the age of 1~2 year, children notice the physical differences between males and females. With the development of language skills, children from 2 to 3 years old will ask questions that are very embarrassing to adults. If children suffer psychological frustration during this period, it will have an impact on their future growth.

One and a half years old is a very good time to educate children about sexual physiology, if possible, you can even let boys and girls of the same age take a bath together, so that their naked little bodies to identify each other in the physical structure of the differences, and encourage them to observe each other and where they are different.

Sexual buds age stage: 2~4 years old

Children enter the sex bud stage at the age of 2 to 4. Sex education during this period is the foundation for future sexual maturity. Many children begin playing with their genitals around age 2 as part of their sexual play. A good way to avoid your child playing with his genitals is to wear shorts and arrange colorful activities every day to divert his attention.

Parents can choose the right time in their daily life to make their child understand which part of his body should not be exposed, which part is not good, etc.

Attachment stage: 4 to 6 years old

This is the period when the child begins his "attachment", also known as the Oedipus (Oedipal) complex. This complex is common in children's psychosexual development process, is repressed in the subconscious, and later may become the psychological roots of various mental illnesses.

A warm and happy family will have a profound impact on children and be a good sexual role model for them.

Same-sex parents are the models for the formation of children's gender consciousness, and opposite-sex parents are the models for children learning to interact with the opposite sex. Therefore, both mothers and fathers should actively cooperate to raise their children together and give them a good environment to grow up in.

Potential age stage:6~12 years old

Children 6 years old ~ to 12 years old into the potential period. This stage of the child's sexual psychology is relatively calm, in this stage of the child, boys like to play with boys fierce adventure games, girls like to dance with other girls, jump rubber bands, and other mild games. This "pseudo-homosexuality" does not have the sexual awareness and desire of adults, but in the future when psychosexual development encounters setbacks, it may also be the psychological root of the formation of homosexuality.