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One cannot be too sentimental

One cannot be too sentimental

By Frank MorganPublished 2 years ago 4 min read
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One cannot be too sentimental
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People are emotional animals, this is an undeniable fact, it is because we are flesh and blood with feelings of people, so we will have a lot of distress and trouble from the emotional side of things. People do not have feelings not called people, but if people have too many feelings, will also become one of the important reasons for their own distress.

Life has three feelings, family, friendship and love, these three feelings are always with each of us life, family is flesh and blood relatives, such feelings are broken bones and tendons, pull a hair and move the whole body feeling, tied, pulling the heart and lungs. Friendship is an indispensable friendship between people on our way to growth. Friendship is the ladder of our growth, in friendship, we know what friendship is, what love is, what is not from no blood relatives to give the warmth of touch.

Love, on the other hand, is a feeling that we often struggle with, no love struggle, that they are lonely, no confidant and partner, if there is love, we will have to pay and operate for the beauty and happiness of love, in these processes, troubles and conflicts may also come. We are indifferent in the matter of love, indifferent is unfeeling, and sentimental is easy to be hurt. The fact that we really can't live without love, so many people are either hurt or hurt others in the matter of love.

I think people need love, but in love can not be too amorous, can not let their love flood, more can not do love as the whole life, too much care about love in the gains and losses. Love a person because love and care, so, will be sensitive, will be overly concerned, but if you love the person simply do not love you, you really do not need to love this person in order to their own moth to flame like a rush.

The person in love is also prone to emotional outbursts, because love so care, because care so easy to provoke emotions, since the ancient sentiment has empty hate, I think we are in the world of love, or must need to maintain a clear awareness and self. In love to lose the knowledge of right and wrong and keep the self, this love must be a love full of sadness and no good results.

A friend often in the circle of friends sent some sad and sentimental text, as if his heart suffered too much love injury, from the content of his circle of friends, you can see that he is a person of temperament, may also be a person who sees love as too heavy, much love empty stay hurt more hate. Therefore, I also advised him that he can not take love too seriously, so that they carry too much unnecessary love injury.

However, I also understand that a person amorous, may be born with the character of things, such people are difficult to completely let go of the love they care very much inside, they love a person, may love to the bone, even if there is no result, will also be placed in the heart, into sadness often recall lamentation and lamentation.

Love, is this human world how beautiful things ah! We can't turn this beautiful thing into a tool to hurt ourselves. If you are lucky enough to have a warm and loving love, it is naturally the most precious fate and luck. But if you have not yet met such a fate and luck, we do not have to be too sad, after all, love depends on the fate to achieve. The love of fate is not something we can control and sway, when it comes, we do not know, when it goes, we are not sure, we treat love, and then relaxed is to follow fate.

The love of their own to come, fate to, do not miss, to seize the heart to cherish, if the edge of a little forced, and also can not retain, then it is better to go with fate, let it fly the end of the world, or it will become the pain of two people.

The people can not be too sentimental, natural feelings, love with fate, as long as their hearts, cherished, do not regret and regret what, after all, life is always in a thousand changes, the world is also variable, many things are not constant, we can not really make a love forever constant.

If people are sentimental will be more empty sadness, to leave the love can not stay will be sad and desperate, move away from the love can not beg will also be sad resentment. So, it is better to let nature take its course, the water to the feelings is the most appropriate. Do not force nor force to stay, come calmly, go naturally, it is good!

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