MOTHER

Abstract
Being a mother gives a woman the responsibility of raising a child. This process also changes the way she is viewed in the community and in her workplace. It can force him to take more than the available vacation options, and job security can be compromised. Significant social and personal adjustments are needed to deal with such a situation. A working mother, especially those who are fortunate enough to be able to balance her home and work, enjoys being encouraged by the job or the job she offers. Develops the ability to grow a useful member of the community and at the same time gain financial independence. As well as being a mother, work adds to the perfection of being a woman.
Introduction
“I am liberated if, at the same time, I feel liberated; The reason why many women do not wear on the glass roof of educational medicine is because their children hang on the tails of their white coats. Most of us are thrilled to have them there, and academic medicine offers a level of professional fulfillment, financial stability, and environmental flexibility worth changing. "

(Laine, 1998)
“For the first time, since the early 1950's, many employed mothers began to challenge, even though they did not dissolve, the dominant mother tongue dominated the home. The simple fact that many women are attracted to working outside the home despite criticism demonstrates the value of employing women financially and psychologically ”

(Wilson, 2006)
Both of the above quotations show the unique state of health of working mothers, who are now a visible part of the workforce in almost every profession. Many working women start their own families while working, and some may find it necessary to return to work sooner than they expected in the postpartum period. A working mother is an institution in itself, which combines a successful career that gives her financial independence, and a successful mother raising a child. It is important to understand that both activities are very demanding, and doing justice to each other without neglecting the other is a difficult task.
Go and be happy, not perfect.
Most of us can see - and gain - the desire to be perfect. But we often take it too far. Even before the epidemic, studies by psychologists Thomas Curran and Andrew Hill found that increasing numbers of people were struggling to achieve unattainable goals. The two psychologists studied more than 40,0000 American, British, and Canadian college students between 1989 and 2016 and found that perfectionism had increased dramatically in the last few decades - 33% since 1989. they are perfect, while, in fact, that is an impossible result and can contribute to great anxiety and depression. Those who become too busy set themselves up for failure and mental anguish.
Instead of striving for perfection, we need to pursue happiness. I remind myself that this is a daily goal. I am patient if it takes me longer than expected. Also, at the dinner table every night, I ask my little ones to talk about what makes them happy and what they feel grateful for that day.
Barriers to women
Life gives everything to other people - wealth, power and dignity but no one finds it easy. Success does not come immediately and requires years of patience to reach the altar. For a woman, all achievements are doubly pleasing and those who reach the top in the most difficult areas are the best. The issue of whether or not both parents should work is no longer important. Mothers are working and will continue to work outside the home.

The fact is that seven out of ten mothers are active women. It is certainly possible for both good mothers and skilled professionals. Therefore, they must have clear priorities and learn how to enjoy the ride. Before starting a family, they should plan how they will continue their work. Should they have one or more children and how far would they like to go in their work?

But life is more than just work - women are willing to accept lower pay for flexible working hours and part-time work to balance two challenges of home and work. Women are now more prominent, more determined, and more compassionate. Why not? Can he be prevented? He must learn to adapt. And if he does, he wins.
Ways to overcome such challenges
Although it may seem impossible to break free from the shackles of being a working mother and being a full-time mother, there is always the solution to dealing with these situations in life. That being said, if you are a working mother and you are facing the same challenges, here are a few ways you can overcome them with just some extra effort.
- Plan and organize your day-to-day work so you can manage your time well.
- Make sure you build a relationship, where your partner or husband recognizes his role as a parent and makes the same effort you made in caring for the family.
- Maintain good relationships with your relatives and siblings so you can go to them easily in emergencies.
- Make sure your colleagues and caregivers know the importance of your child and family so in times of emergency they understand your situation.
- Most importantly, you need to understand the importance of your dreams and aspirations. While being a mother may be the most wonderful blessing known to women, it is certainly not the end of your personality.