Mom's nine-death experience

01 Isn't a cesarean section just a cut? Pregnant mothers will think so

See a baby mother online to say.

Before giving birth, the mother-in-law found someone to calculate the time of the child's birth, saying that she chose a good date for the child to be born, for the child's life is beneficial, the child can certainly soar, shining family.

This is what happened when the child came out as a law, to the time, the natural ripe. So baby mama told her mother-in-law that the doctor didn't say her condition was bad and not easy to give birth to, not to mention the fact that a C-section is bad for the child, and also for the mother.

The mother-in-law said.

"For the child to have a better future, now a little hard afraid of what? The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you are getting into. The first thing you need to do is to grow up, it's not that delicate..."

When you see this, you can feel the desperation of the mother, pregnancy, and childbirth is very hard, but also be so cold arrangements and disrespectful. The desolation in the heart should be better than the physical pain.

For a baby mama who is about to give birth, which method of birth is needed, the doctor will help the mother to make, the best choice for the child and the mother, this mother-in-law is bent on endorsing what the auspicious day, straight talk is to scratch a knife, there is a feeling of standing and talking without waist pain.

02 Cesarean section sequel, you only know one, do not know the other.

If cesarean section is so simple and easy to operate, and there is no harm to children and adults, then why is it now commonly advocated for normal birth, it must be because cesarean section itself is not as simple as a cut.

I remember once seeing an obstetrician speak like this.

She said that although people can see the mother screaming in pain after delivery, they feel that the only bad aspect of a cesarean section is the pain, but this is not the case, because people only see the first, but not the second. In fact, in addition to the pain, there are some after-effects of a cesarean section that are not little known.

1. Abnormalities in the sensory system of the skin

The obstetrician said, in the cesarean section, to cut the skin of the abdomen and subcutaneous tissue, although every doctor is in the spirit of the doctor's kindness, and try antitheses, there may be damage to the subcutaneous nerve, which is sometimes unavoidable things. This can lead to the post-operative period where some mothers may have skin tingling, itching, or abnormal sensations.

2、Endometriosis

It is called endometriosis when the endometrial tissue with growth function appears in other parts of the body outside the uterine cavity membrane.

Obstetricians say: During a cesarean section, the endometrium of the uterine cavity may be brought to the pelvis and abdominal cavity with blood or gauze or surgical instruments, so that endometriosis occurs, leading to gonorrheal after delivery.

Many other effects can manifest themselves differently from person to person. For example prolonged menstrual periods, chronic pelvic inflammatory disease, risk of abdominal adhesion, and another sequel, which can manifest themselves differently from person to person.

3 Attitude of pregnant women and their families during labor

Putting life safety first

Like the mother-in-law above, the birth of a child is still so much chaos, for a so-called good day for themselves, they forced the daughter-in-law who does not have a C-section indicator to have a C-section. Although it is said that respecting the elderly and loving the young is a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation.

However, on occasions like this, fathers must be able to prioritize and do their own parents' work, as long as the mother and child are safe, it is a good day, why be so pedantic? It is too risky to gamble a day with the safety of both mother and child.

Listen to the doctor

I remember when I gave birth to my baby, my stomach hurt for two days because I hadn't reached the standard of playing painless, so I needed to wait, but other states were good, it was really painful at that time, my husband begged the doctor countless times to cut off too much suffering. The doctor said: the indicators of normal birth are very good, so it is best to insist on normal birth.

Although the pain is a lot of time, the child smoothly smooth birth, until today, I am grateful for the doctor's insistence, the doctor is professional, but also willing to do their best to help every pregnant mother, so all listen to the doctor's arrangements, do not know to consult the doctor, do not think that, make the mistake of a lifetime of regret.

As a mother of two, in pregnancy and childbirth, have experienced a lot, two children were born smoothly, and the mother and child were safe. I just want to tell the later pregnant mothers to go to the hospital to give birth, all listen to the doctor's arrangements, except of course the mother of this specialty of obstetrics and gynecology, because she may have an assessment of her own. Other than that, most pregnant mothers, if the doctor allows a normal delivery, don't consider a C-section, and if the doctor allows a C-section, don't insist on a normal delivery. I hope that the regrets caused by the obstinacy of the mother and her family will not happen again.

I hope that every pregnant mother will be treated gently and that the mother and child will be safe!