Marriage, a woman to achieve the "three no principle", to be able to get a man's pain

We choose and a person into marriage, often are running to go to the end, no one wants their marriage to decline, all hope to be able to hold hands with that person, and son Xielaiold.

Especially for women, they tend to take marriage very seriously, compared with men's dedication to career, the vast majority of women will take marriage as their own career, diligently run.

Everyone fantasizes that they can have a happy marriage, two people like each other, even if there is a quarrel, but the heart is always together, not disappoint, not betray.

But not everyone has such an honor, choose the moment of marriage, is really thought that two people will go to the end, as time goes by, someone's heart gradually pulled away, some feelings slowly to the end of the road.

When a marriage falls apart, it's never about one person, it's about two people. Before an avalanche, no snowflake is innocent.

The reason why two people go to disperse is never a matter of one day, but the accumulation of years and years. It is often a lot of seemingly insignificant things that eventually lead to separation.

Marriage is business, in those happy couples, we can see some business, in general, women play a pivotal role in a family, as long as women are good at marriage, often can get a happy result.

Marriage, those happy women, often do the "three no principle".

Don't be judgmental

Two people living together, originally is not an easy thing. As time goes by, the initial affection is worn out, replaced by bland.

Two people together, often in order to trifles and quarrel, it is easy to dispute, some people more noisy more sweet, and some people noisy noisy, the marriage is noisy.

Quarrels are not terrible. What is terrible is that one party has been playing the role of a bad judge in the marriage, constantly criticizing and criticizing each other. In the long run, it is bound to end up being left behind.

A lot of women are like this, they always like to turn marriage into a gathering place of negative energy, a little encounter, negative emotions, the whole person is like a bomb, may explode at any time and anywhere.

In her eyes can not see the advantages of men, always staring at his shortcomings, mouth merciless, a pair of aggressive state, only the other side made a little mistake on the hold on, blindly blame complain, full of disgust, such a woman is easy to let men dislike.

Any relationship should follow the principle of "do unto others as you would have them do unto you". If you want to be cared for by a man, you should give him the respect and care he deserves, instead of just disparaging and beating him up.

Tolerance to the other side, do not force too much, give him some positive support and encouragement, such a woman, will get a man's true guardian.

But not too much intervention

Two people together, first is two independent people, have independent and equal personality, then is we, is a whole.

"I" must be better than "we". Only when "I" is done well, "we" as a whole will become better and better.

Schopenhauer said: say "I love you" people must first have a complete "I" word, if there is no "I" word, "I love you" will not exist.

Only two people are the first to do a good job, can write a romantic marriage story.

The best marriage is always two people in their own country to their best, have their own circle, have their own real want to do, each shining in their own field.

Separate days, their own good self, together in the time, good deep love, pay each other, enjoy the sweetness of two people together, such a state is a healthy marriage.

Men tend not to like being tied down, and if you're constantly staring at them and interfering too much, you'll just make them tired of you.

In some important things do not indulge, but some details of the small things do not have to care too much, give him enough freedom, sometimes close, appropriate indulgence, is the best way.

Not blindly obedient

One of the most common mistakes women make in marriage is to completely give up on themselves and try to please each other.

They do not have their own ideas and independent opinions, the man as their own world, as long as he is absolutely obedient to what he said, as long as he put forward any request, will be unconditionally obedient. Completely play a sensible role, but do not know so no idea no principle of you, the man will not take seriously.

There are some men tend to be very self, put their own career very heavy, completely do not put a woman's career in the eye, they just want a nanny, for their own good home.

They asked women to give up their careers altogether and devote themselves to their families. It's called "I feed you," but it usually ends badly for women who do.

The truly happy women in a marriage are often less submissive. Dare to stand up for myself, adhere to their own ideas, and never give way to principled problems.

No matter how much you love a man, you will never live as a man's background. Have self opinionated have ideas, such a woman can be respected by men, to be able to get men's pain.

It's hard to make a marriage work, and it's not easy for two people to make it last. Many women will face the consequences of being let down, many women are struggling to stay in a marriage without happiness.

Two people together must be running more happy than a person's purpose to go, if a marriage brings only sad, might as well choose their own.

Those happily married women, have done the above three points, a good marriage, not blindly obedient, but to dare to do the "three no principle", so as to be happy and complete.