Love your boy well, he will be a warm father in the future.

Moms often complain about dads.

It is said that although the father loves the child, he is like a wooden man when he is with the child, and when the child makes trouble, he will lose his temper with the child, which makes the child very scared, but he is good at talking with his friends and has a great sense of humor.

So many people say that there are many humorous men in this world, but few interesting fathers.

Why is this

Old people often say, "be a father and don't be a prude."

This is also our traditional expectation of a Chinese father, as if only in this way can we show our father's dignity and dignity.

Sometimes when you look at the little boy in front of you, do you wonder what he will look like in the future?

Because they will grow up in a few years, become a real man, and become a father.

The character and upbringing we have given him over the years determine his attitude and way of treating his wife and children in the future.

What kind of boy do you raise?

I think boys first need to learn intimacy, trust, warmth, happiness and friendliness, rather than cold dogma and labels.

The feelings a child experiences at an early age will help him get through impulsive adolescence more smoothly, balancing their adventurous and competitive nature.

When they grow up, it will be easier for them to take care of their wives and children.

So remember to hug your little boy and care more about that rebellious little man.

Because boys also need the gentle love of their parents.

There are a lot of parents have a big misunderstanding about raising a boy, thinking that raising a boy has to be fierce, so that the boy can be obedient.

So you will see that many mothers talk to their sons by yelling, and as a result, they are very tired, and the children have become too loud to listen.

In fact, as long as you know enough about boys, you will find that they have some specific ways of communication.

For example, they prefer body signals to sound.

So you yelled "go brush your teeth!" across the room. , "I've done my homework!" , "come and eat!" They almost turned a deaf ear to you and let you scream and get furious.

I'll teach you a way.

Stop first, walk up to him and let him stop what he is doing. Pat him on the shoulder, face his face, and say it again.

As for the male treasure of a few years old, you can go straight over, gently remind him, pick him up, and then give instructions.

At this point, they will be more responsive.

Sometimes they just need a little bit of such privilege and favor, and we parents can give it to them.

Especially for little boys, they are more emotionally vulnerable than girls and need more care. They are not as good as girls in many places.

Even now Xiaoyu is 6 years old, he still longs for my hug very much.

I know, it's not to be lazy and coquettish, but to like the feeling of snuggling in my father's arms.

Physical contact and the expression of love are important ways for boys to get sense of security.

Boys who stay with their parents at an early age and receive enough attention and love get sense of security better and are psychologically healthier as adults.

And one day, you will feel the change brought about by growth.

You will find that the kid is not as close as he used to be, but that doesn't mean he's alienated from you from the inside, it just means that the boy has grown up and he wants to be a man who doesn't depend on his parents.

The boy must be "wild".

Don't blame the boy for being too wild. I'm worried that my son is not wild enough.

Nowadays too many boys stay at home with their mothers or walk through the city. There are few opportunities to go wild in nature or be protected by adults.

A few days ago in the park, an eight-or nine-year-old boy climbed onto a stone railing and said he was riding a horse. His grandmother came over nervously and said, "it's too dangerous. Come down!"

The little boy had to hurry down and hold the tree in a circle again. At this time, Grandma quit again, saying that if she turns in a circle like this, she will be dizzy. What if she falls?

I am worried about this child in my eyes.

If you take such excessive care, you might as well tie him up and lock him up in the house.

What does it matter if you fall on the grass? it's okay to break a little skin.

After leaving home, I went to society and came back to cry for you when I encountered a little stumble. At that time, they will complain that their children are weak, but isn't this due to the over-protection of their parents?

In fact, in ancient times, our children were able to be hunters from an early age, and human beings are not as fragile as you think.

I find that boys are naturally adventurous unless their parents tie their hands and feet.

Every time I take my son outside or at home, I play some adventurous games. For example, when I climb the stone railing, I climb it myself, like parkour, and demonstrate first.

Although it is not realistic to climb trees these days, I really try to climb a few trees in the hope that my son will be more daring.

When I climbed up, he would think to himself: there is no danger, my father has done it.

My son was afraid at first, but he became daring with my encouragement.

Dads have an important task to accompany their children on adventures.

Children need vast space and free movement, and they rely on exercise and climbing to develop their brains healthily.

Under the premise of ensuring children's safety as much as possible, adults should stimulate children's natural spatial judgment and strengthen their muscles and bones.

Encourage your boy to exercise more and run more outdoors. The comprehensive experience of various senses will bring him healthier development.

If you want to cultivate a really good "father", you must raise this little guy well from an early age.

When we blame today's men for not taking responsibility and encounter things that run faster than women

When we say that mama's boy is waiting for you to take care of like a bear bag.

We can often see the parents who dote on them and indulge them from the way these men grow up.

Parents should pass on the sense of responsibility and responsibility to their son from an early age, so that he can learn to be independent and have the courage to take responsibility.

If you say that you have taught your child obedient and obedient, it is not necessarily the success of education, it may just lead to the birth of a "mama's boy".

Many boys are often yelled at by their mothers when they are young. in adolescence, they feel at a loss and don't want to be patient any longer. So they will use rebellion against their mother.

If you want your child to have smooth communication and a harmonious parent-child relationship with you all the time, you must remember:

Be a gentle and determined parent.

When the child trusts you enough and has enough self-confidence, there will be a good parent-child relationship.

When every boy was a child, he would look forward to what he would look like in the future and what kind of man he would become.

Most of the time I look for a template from my father.

"I want to be as good as my father."

"I can't be like my father."

Between the trade-offs, we can see the power of the father's example.

The responsibility of a father is not only to teach his children to read and behave, but also to provide a material basis for their growth. What is more, it is necessary to lay an appropriate psychological foundation for the future growth of children.

If a father is an alcoholic or has a bad temper and quarrels with his mother for a long time, such a child's psychology will leave a shadow and will not disappear easily.

The boy we raise will be a father in the future.

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It can be strong or sensitive.

It can be responsible or loving.

It can be an engineer or an ordinary worker.

Can be all-powerful, or he can be an ordinary father who loves his family.

And what we need to do is