Love and Human Personality

"Love" is not innate to humans. That’s why, its evidence has not yet been discovered in genetics. Its lessons are taught to us since childhood, from love for God to love for man, from love of animals to love of clay. Sentiments and physical activity is the instinct of the animal and attraction is the feminine trait. Love and its virtue together build the lessons from society that people are consciously engaged in propagating the love feeling in everything. They love the people, thing and nature. It would not be wrong to say that the practice of love is the religion of culture.

Psychologists make special mention of two points in terms of falling in love. One is that if humans were not different form the animals and they did not have developed feelings and thoughts in terms of psychology, then no one can love another person without any purpose. The second point is that love is actually the opposite of hate. The feeling of hate are also important to learn about the feeling of the love. It is important to have hatred before love. If someone wants to learn about the true love, he/she must go through the actual realization of hatred. Without the love, every human being is incomplete. Seeing the extinct components or attributes of his personality in another person, the feeling of jealousy rises. If the person becomes close then the feelings convert into love and people experience with sense of completeness relying on love. It is the situation where one starts dreaming of the fulfillment of his own self.

Dissatisfaction with oneself, awareness of incompleteness, feelings of nostalgia or loneliness, and desire for need all together lead to a desire for love. In most people, this anxiety is unconscious, but in some people its consciousness takes the form of slight anxiety, restless dissatisfaction or unnecessary anxiety. It is the repentance of not fulfilling the demands that a person requires of himself. No matter what justifications may be given to yourself or others about it, it is actually the result of personal incompetence or personal inadequacy.

This is impossible in human society that people could not pursue for the love and likeness feelings . Love is an alternative to the feeling of perfection i.e. the feeling of adapting to the preferred self. Truth be told, it's more self-hatred than self-love. Love is done for the sake of attaining a favorite self which will never be complete on its own. In other words, love means the exchange of the preferred self with the external object in which all the attributes that we have in our own right are felt.

By making love, we take off this burden and put it on the shoulder of the other and breathe a sigh of relief. It is as if we reflect the image of our favorite self on someone else's personality, this reflection removes the psychological tension that we are fascinated by. In this way, this internal disturbance is temporarily removed, but then comes back, due to which man is searching for the best. One person tries to achieve a goal, the other falls into the pit of love and gives priority to temporary relaxation, because it is also a psychological purpose.

The is the love and feeling of being loved that shape the human personality in specific shape. The personalities with less love thoughts may have depression, anxiety, loneliness and stress. This love is a reflection of the identity of the colorful picture created in one's childhood, and every love that follows is a different expression of the old picture.