Little tree, mother.

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The founder of the growth tree, Haidian mother with two children in her arms, read thousands of children's books on the way to accompany her children, and gained more than 3 million mothers' attention and trust.

The first cry, the first time to sit and stand, the first time to call Mom and Dad.

It was in this innumerable first time that the babbling dou Ding grew up.

So when do children really start to grow up?

I think it is probably the first time that the parents let go of their hands and the children face the world alone for the first time.

But this "first time" is no small challenge for children as well as for us.

There is a variety show in Japan, which records the process of children going out alone for the first time to complete the task.

Douban score 9.6, see people crying and laughing, a lot of emotion.

Since it was broadcast in 1991, the program has filmed more than 3000 children in 31 years.

The children who take part in the program are no more than 7 years old and the younger ones are just over 2 years old, which is the age at which they rely on their parents.

For them, every little thing is an unknown problem that can only be solved with great courage and perseverance.

On the way to finish the task, the child is also full of conditions: wrestling, getting lost, losing things, and feeling sleepy, sitting directly on the side of the road and taking a nap.

Because there is no script and no human interference, the child shows the most authentic side in front of the camera.

Because of this, we can clearly understand from this variety show that the greatest success of parents is that their children can leave you.

Let go

No matter how difficult it is for parents, they have to do their homework.

The 3-year-old and 2-month-old may be the one who can cry the most.

Although she is the second in the family, Li Ai always wants to be a sister and help her family.

On Mother's Day, Dad wants Li Ai to go out and buy carnations, ingredients and cakes.

Originally, the little guy was very excited, but when he heard that he was going to go out alone, he immediately began to cry: if he went alone, he would be lonely.

Dad gently guided, but also prepared an amulet, courage candy, and finally persuaded Li Ai.

It's just that it's too difficult for a child under 3 years old to go out alone!

When she reached the intersection of her departure, she was still sobbing and did not want to move.

The father had to gently push his daughter, saying: can only look at the front, do not look back, looking back will be lonely.

In this way, looking back three times in one step, Xiaoli love embarked on the first adventure of his life.

Just after her father could not see the corner, she could not help crying.

Crying all the way, Li Ai walked to the store.

She was so sad that at first she forgot what she bought.

Finally remembered, but also bought the wrong ingredients.

He finished the first task vaguely and walked out into the street. Loneliness and fear made her uncomfortable again.

Just when everyone thought the little guy would give up, she stopped crying and pulled out a candy of courage.

The sweet taste is the strength given to her by her father.

Li Ai cheered up and bought back the carnation and my mother's favorite cream cake.

Along the way, the little girl, who was less than 3 years old, stopped, cried and collapsed.

But in the end, she beat herself and finished the task successfully.

Maybe children are like this, in many first time, constantly break through themselves, in order to really grow up.

What resonates with me more is my loving father.

From a row of small skirts and hand-decorated princess rooms, it is not difficult to see that he dotes on his daughter.

But when necessary, he can still be ruthless and release his hand.

When Li Ai set out, his father crouched in place and watched his daughter leave.

When his daughter came back with big bags and small bags, he was still waiting for his daughter to come back.

Father and daughter hugged each other at the moment, the father could not hold back, shed tears.

It is the first time for a child to leave his parents.

But for parents, it is also the first time to let go.

"parents' love for their children is far-reaching." parents are ruthless enough so that their children can go far.

But no matter how reluctant and uncomfortable we are, we have to bite our teeth and choose to let go at the right time.

The child is independent for the first time.

Parents should be prepared.

In the restaurant, a little girl with bangs is laying plates and cushions, making a decent move.

The girl's name is Zhiyi. She is just over 3 years old, and she is just at the age of laughing and making trouble.

Because my father always said: work to come to the store, to play is not allowed.

Under the influence of osmosis, Xiao Zhiyi has a very strong sense of responsibility and will always conscientiously complete the tasks arranged by adults.

On this day, my father wants to develop a new variety of octopus roast and let Zhiyi go to the supermarket to buy food.

Although she often went to the store to help, it was the first time for her to go out alone.

The father also made a lot of preparations for his daughter's safe and smooth completion of the "first trip".

A schoolbag with a lever: it won't be too hard for Zhifu to buy food.

A small yellow flag that says "Thank you for stopping for me": hold it up when you cross the road and the car will stop.

The father also reviewed the traffic rules and building signs with his daughter.

At the thought of leaving her father, Zhiyi still couldn't take a step.

Her father told her patiently again:

Because it's a job, it must be done.

We're here to work, right.

Dad can make octopus roast only when you buy ingredients.

Although still very scared, but a strong sense of responsibility, let Zhiyi decide to set out.

At first, she was like Xiao Li, turning around and wiping away her tears.

But the farther away from home, Zhiyi became strong.

With a firm expression on her face, she rushed to the supermarket nonstop.

Then methodically, I bought back five kinds of ingredients that my father told me.

When she set out and went home, the little girl never stopped or cried.

When he saw his father from a distance, Zhiyi was like a soldier who returned triumphantly, his face was full of pride and joy.

The perseverance and boldness shown by Zhiyi also made me feel a lot of emotion.

It's all because dad started laying the groundwork for her independence a long time ago.

Often let her daughter do housework, developed her strong self-care ability.

Emphasizing the importance of work gives the daughter a sense of responsibility and a sense of mission.

Before leaving, he also prepared a lot of things to avoid damaging his daughter's enthusiasm to complete the task.

These foundations enable Zhiyi to quickly adjust her state and meet the challenges after leaving her parents.

Remember that someone once said: the cruelest thing in education is that parents do not teach their children to be independent from an early age.

Just like an eagle does not teach a baby eagle to fly, but pushes it off a cliff in adulthood.

Letting go is not something that can be done with a ruthless heart and a stomp.

Before that, we still have a lot of preparatory work to do.

For example, let children do more housework, see different aspects of life, and exercise their ability to think independently.

Only in this way can we really let go and let the children take care of themselves.

You never know.

How powerful is the child?

There is also a little boy named Yudeng, who left a deep impression on me.

There are two sisters on it. 4-year-old Youdeng is the youngest child in the family.

Under the favor of his family, he is a little naughty and is a well-known crybaby.

In order to train